Or are you a girl that can reel it in before it gets to be too much?
For instance.. if you're wrong .. and you're proven wrong can you STOP.. and take it for what it is and let it go? Or do u have to hold ur ground and ride ur stance?
Another example ..
if you go back and forth with someone.. can you be the one to say "you know what.. this isn't that deep.. let's just drop this?"
An agree to disagree type girl..
Or must u let a fag feel ur wrath... let them know what's WHAT :fuming:
Let's chat.
ill apolagize at tha drop of a dime....IF im wrong
if im right...which im usually am'thn!...ayaint shuttin' tha fck UP!
as matta fact ill hit u n dare u to hit me bac wit 911 on speed dial!
dudes usually wrong jus sayin'
fake non loyal selves
depends if there is alcohol involve
Well I can let things go literally after ripping a girls head off
And I'll usually apologize even if I'm right or wrong
I don't argue so Ig that means I never go too far?
Eh, I think when I was a teen and early 20s it was difficult to let shit go. Always had to prove my perspective was legit, especially if I felt like I was more in the know.
On here I think I've been my most argumentative during the social justice issues with Mike Brown, Trayvon, Tamir etc. I really was laying into ppl and arguing with folks who were committed to not understanding. No disrespect also but the niggas I used to argue with have come full circle so that speaks to my next point.
I think I've learned to just accept that some folks just wont get certain things and that's where they are in their own journey. It takes certain circumstances for folks to grow and realize that everything isn't a fight. To be someone who is constantly looking for a battle and not being able to see the perspective of others, to me, is indicative of other issues. I try not to interact with niggas like this. Which I think is the majority of folks these days, the whole "woke" era and SM in general really prompts folks to battle it out to prove they're always right. No one is always right.
That takes the debates away from what they're intended for, which is learning from one another. I only go back in forth with a few now because the dialogue is rooted in understanding or it's some asinine shit being said about a group of ppl I care about.
fix this damn title btw, parallel parking self
I hate confrontation, so I'll shut down anyway just to piss you off
Yes.
I don't argue with anyone in my real life often honestly
On here... Just depends on my mood and who you are to me lolz
Even when I'm wrong I get my point across.
Quote from: Cherokee Boy on February 26, 2019, 05:23:49 PM
Quote from: tontonton on February 26, 2019, 05:20:17 PM
I don't argue with anyone in my real life often honestly
On here... Just depends on my mood and who you are to me lolz
This.
Environments like this (and many others in social media) actually thrive on debates and arguments, one's unwillingness to leave their stance, etc.
I mean look at how often the phrase "I said what I said" is used. Says it all.
Which leads us to what's worse, those who say what they say, and won't leave their stance, or those who always want to play contrarian and try to MAKE you leave your stance :dead:
wait sometimes they're the same pers'
ZBZBZBZBZBZ
I can't stand contrarian girls, honestly
That's why I've learn to not MESS with some members on here cause I don't like to lose, and neither do those fags even though I may like them
So, I save myself the future carpal tunnel
Quote from: tontonton on February 26, 2019, 05:35:05 PM
ZBZBZBZBZBZ
I can't stand contrarian girls, honestly
That's why I've learn to not MESS with some members on here cause I don't like to lose, and neither do those fags even though I may like them
So, I save myself the future carpal tunnel
VONC
Being humble amd meek.gets you further in life .. Look at Gaga
I will let you have it there and then but am willing to kiss and make up after a few days.
I'm not good at admitting I'm wrong even when I know it. I'm like lets just move on cunt. And no I'm not apologizing.
Quote from: Kurama on February 26, 2019, 04:59:48 PM
Eh, I think when I was a teen and early 20s it was difficult to let shit go. Always had to prove my perspective was legit, especially if I felt like I was more in the know.
On here I think I've been my most argumentative during the social justice issues with Mike Brown, Trayvon, Tamir etc. I really was laying into ppl and arguing with folks who were committed to not understanding. No disrespect also but the niggas I used to argue with have come full circle so that speaks to my next point.
I think I've learned to just accept that some folks just wont get certain things and that's where they are in their own journey. It takes certain circumstances for folks to grow and realize that everything isn't a fight. To be someone who is constantly looking for a battle and not being able to see the perspective of others, to me, is indicative of other issues. I try not to interact with niggas like this. Which I think is the majority of folks these days, the whole "woke" era and SM in general really prompts folks to battle it out to prove they're always right. No one is always right.
That takes the debates away from what they're intended for, which is learning from one another. I only go back in forth with a few now because the dialogue is rooted in understanding or it's some asinine shit being said about a group of ppl I care about.
Damn this is real
Pretty much how I am
When I'm wrong.. I'm cool with admitting it and letting that be that
I just don't really get off into going back and forth for the sake of it unless it's our dynamic.. some fun mess
But the things I'm passionate about.. I will def just admit when I'm wrong if proven so
And other times just let it go before it goes too far
Quote from: Kurama on February 26, 2019, 05:03:59 PM
fix this damn title btw, parallel parking self
I really do need to stop driving and posting
Quote from: L0NZ. on February 26, 2019, 05:23:03 PM
Even when I'm wrong I get my point across.
ncjdjjd
Is it ray?
Quote from: tontonton on February 26, 2019, 05:35:05 PM
ZBZBZBZBZBZ
I can't stand contrarian girls, honestly
That's why I've learn to not MESS with some members on here cause I don't like to lose, and neither do those fags even though I may like them
So, I save myself the future carpal tunnel
bby
I hate a contrarian
I guess with age you know how to pick them out of a crowd
Rather than exerting all that energy into them
ddd I only go too far with the people I love
So my bestfriend, my boyfriend and my family
the closest ones always GET under my skin
Quote from: ZAIYE on February 26, 2019, 06:27:57 PM
I don't take things too far, but I'm not a "let's just drop it" kind of person either. I like to have a civil conversation about the issue at hand.
It'll only get out of hand when:
A. It's someone who has wronged me before
B. The other person is constantly disrespectful
Or C. The other person is unbelievably ignorant and beyond the point of understanding.
Yeah.
I already hate confrontation, so it irks me when someone's confronting me about something and they are all mad and out of shape and upset because I'm not yelling and screaming with them
But a lot of the times, I'm not gonna admit I'm wrong until a few days go by because I don't give a fuck.
I get to the point where I just don't care anymore.
Also if I am right I can get by fine without the other party acknowledging it. It's tough being friends with me cuz I can serve up an unbothered tea like nobody's business.
I'm also not a tit 4 tat person.
Quote from: LetMeHearYouSæ...G R A MM Y on February 26, 2019, 07:13:34 PM
I get to the point where I just don't care anymore.
Also if I am right I can get by fine without the other party acknowledging it. It's tough being friends with me cuz I can serve up an unbothered tea like nobody's business.
I'm also not a tit 4 tat person.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That's the air sign shit lol
I swear I don't give a damn
Quote from: tontonton on February 26, 2019, 05:20:17 PM
On here... Just depends on my mood and who you are to me lolz
!!!!!!!
If I'm legit wrong tho i wouldn't keep going. There's only one or 2 idiots like that here tbh
If i'm wrong, then I'll admit I was wrong and move on. If I see arguing will be pointless and circular, I'll shut it down with a quick "ok" and keep it moving. I'm not the type that will argue just for the sake of arguing. If I dislike you then I'll pretend you don't exist and carry on with my life.
Quote from: ShujiVengers (Brandy Ain't Coming) on February 26, 2019, 07:22:25 PM
If i'm wrong, then I'll admit I was wrong and move on. If I see arguing will be pointless and circular, I'll shut it down with a quick "ok" and keep it moving. I'm not the type that will argue just for the sake of arguing. If I dislike you then I'll pretend you don't exist and carry on with my life.
Quote from: Cherokee Boy on February 26, 2019, 07:14:05 PM
Quote from: Scott. on February 26, 2019, 07:11:25 PM
Quote from: ZAIYE on February 26, 2019, 06:27:57 PM
I don't take things too far, but I'm not a "let's just drop it" kind of person either. I like to have a civil conversation about the issue at hand.
It'll only get out of hand when:
A. It's someone who has wronged me before
B. The other person is constantly disrespectful
Or C. The other person is unbelievably ignorant and beyond the point of understanding.
Yeah.
I already hate confrontation, so it irks me when someone's confronting me about something and they are all mad and out of shape and upset because I'm not yelling and screaming with them
But a lot of the times, I'm not gonna admit I'm wrong until a few days go by because I don't give a fuck.
msds
Very honest of you, Scotty.
I'm just saying. I'm not gonna argue with you. I completely shut down during an argument.
It depends Im a naturally unbothered person so like I don't give a fuck most of the time so I have no issue just dropping something and moving tf on
but if u can get me to that poont where Im really pissed I can reel it in but I sometimes get to the point where Im like fuck it I let the caught out of the bag let's just let the pussy scratch
Quote from: ShujiVengers (Brandy Ain't Coming) on February 26, 2019, 07:22:25 PM
If i'm wrong, then I'll admit I was wrong and move on. If I see arguing will be pointless and circular, I'll shut it down with a quick "ok" and keep it moving. I'm not the type that will argue just for the sake of arguing. If I dislike you then I'll pretend you don't exist and carry on with my life.
d
Shu plea
Like I have to sometimes catch myself cause if u get me to a point where I hate u I might end up trolling and antagonizing you just for the hell of it.
Quote from: Glock on February 26, 2019, 07:26:50 PM
Quote from: ShujiVengers (Brandy Ain't Coming) on February 26, 2019, 07:22:25 PM
If i'm wrong, then I'll admit I was wrong and move on. If I see arguing will be pointless and circular, I'll shut it down with a quick "ok" and keep it moving. I'm not the type that will argue just for the sake of arguing. If I dislike you then I'll pretend you don't exist and carry on with my life.
d
Shu plea
You know differently :uhh:? On this board I'm a bit of a harmless shit-stirrer from time to time. But I'm nothing like that in everyday life.
FAGGOT :usuresis:
Quote from: ShujiVengers (Brandy Ain't Coming) on February 26, 2019, 07:33:53 PM
Quote from: Glock on February 26, 2019, 07:26:50 PM
Quote from: ShujiVengers (Brandy Ain't Coming) on February 26, 2019, 07:22:25 PM
If i'm wrong, then I'll admit I was wrong and move on. If I see arguing will be pointless and circular, I'll shut it down with a quick "ok" and keep it moving. I'm not the type that will argue just for the sake of arguing. If I dislike you then I'll pretend you don't exist and carry on with my life.
d
Shu plea
You know differently :uhh:? On this board I'm a bit of a harmless shit-stirrer from time to time. But I'm nothing like that in everyday life.
FAGGOT :usuresis:
fight me FAGGOT
Oh fags...