I've always felt this way.
So many people are demonized for "cheating", as if they're the scum of the Earth for "giving into temptation", when monogamy is nothing more than a social expectation that's forced into heteronormative relationships - and in turn introduced into "alternative" relationships as well. (Because you KNOW gays love to adopt anything the straights are doing into our mess too).
https://www.instagram.com/p/ByLUSEhBi_E/
just be a ho and shush
Alslsks
What? :ummwhat:
It's way deeper than that. Trust.
For one... I cant take this insta post coming from some thing that is trying to be a "woman"
also... Animlas do have monogamous relationships. Has it never watched a documentary, watched tv or had a pet?
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also... Snipping off your penis must be as Natural as breathing
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Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 01:20:49 AM
QuoteMonogamy is a rare bird in the animal kingdom, but some creatures do stay faithful forever.
https://www.livescience.com/32702-are-any-animals-monogamous.html
:butwait!:
So..... It does happen.
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Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 01:06:36 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on June 02, 2019, 01:05:05 AM
Alslsks
What? :ummwhat:
It's way deeper than that. Trust.
Care to expound?
I'm lowkey tipsy. But I'm gonna give it a shot tight now.
Essentially it goes beyond mohaghany. I believe in soul ties, spirits and energies are very much real. If your out here giving access to the quickest way to your core to anyone it leaves you susceptible to all type of outside forces because you lack boundaries.
Sex is the quickest, easiest and most powerful way to your core, your soul. And when people let anyone penetrate that your unable to recognize your true self.
And when people cheat, it's not even because they cheating, people usually come with there own spirtual(usually stem from childhood) wounds before hand and cheating just rips the wounds open that the person thought was gone(they just used a band aid. Majority of humans) like neutral, distrust, heartbreak, abandonment, not feeling good enough etc... it's those feelings behind it that makes it "bad" /"unnatural".
I promise you if humans were more honest and had better communication all around. People wouldn't trip as much if they knew exactly who they were dealing with and what their intentions were from jump. Because that alone would give them the option of choosing if they were down with it or not.
And funny enough, their is somebody out there who would be down with all of you, everything that you would like even the undesirable shit. :dead:
Jesus. Akaksks
Let me get out of here.
Hcjdjdjdjdjdjdjd
please
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 01:38:07 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on June 02, 2019, 01:28:14 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 01:06:36 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on June 02, 2019, 01:05:05 AM
Alslsks
What? :ummwhat:
It's way deeper than that. Trust.
Care to expound?
I'm lowkey tipsy. But I'm gonna give it a shot tight now.
Essentially it goes beyond mohaghany. I believe in soul ties, spirits and energies are very much real. If your out here giving access to the quickest way to your core to anyone it leaves you susceptible to all type of outside forces because you lack boundaries.
Sex is the quickest, easiest and most powerful way to your core, your soul. And when people let anyone penetrate that your unable to recognize your true self.
And when people cheat, it's not even because they cheating, people usually come with there own spirtual(usually stem from childhood) wounds before hand and cheating just rips the wounds open that the person thought was gone(they just used a band aid. Majority of humans) like neutral, distrust, heartbreak, abandonment, not feeling good enough etc... it's those feelings behind it that makes it "bad" /"unnatural".
I promise you if humans were more honest and had better communication all around. People wouldn't trip as much if they knew exactly who they were dealing with and what their intentions were from jump. Because that alone would give them the option of choosing if they were down with it or not.
And funny enough, their is somebody out there who would be down with all of you, everything that you would like even the undesirable shit. :dead:
Jesus. Akaksks
Let me get out of here.
That's an interesting way to look at it.
Do you think Bill Clinton was working out deep emotional issues when he busted a nut on Monica Lewinsky's dress
Zjsjajsjs
Gorl fuck u.
I just poured my heart out and this how you act. :everythingok:
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 01:44:56 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on June 02, 2019, 01:42:41 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 01:38:07 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on June 02, 2019, 01:28:14 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 01:06:36 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on June 02, 2019, 01:05:05 AM
Alslsks
What? :ummwhat:
It's way deeper than that. Trust.
Care to expound?
I'm lowkey tipsy. But I'm gonna give it a shot tight now.
Essentially it goes beyond mohaghany. I believe in soul ties, spirits and energies are very much real. If your out here giving access to the quickest way to your core to anyone it leaves you susceptible to all type of outside forces because you lack boundaries.
Sex is the quickest, easiest and most powerful way to your core, your soul. And when people let anyone penetrate that your unable to recognize your true self.
And when people cheat, it's not even because they cheating, people usually come with there own spirtual(usually stem from childhood) wounds before hand and cheating just rips the wounds open that the person thought was gone(they just used a band aid. Majority of humans) like neutral, distrust, heartbreak, abandonment, not feeling good enough etc... it's those feelings behind it that makes it "bad" /"unnatural".
I promise you if humans were more honest and had better communication all around. People wouldn't trip as much if they knew exactly who they were dealing with and what their intentions were from jump. Because that alone would give them the option of choosing if they were down with it or not.
And funny enough, their is somebody out there who would be down with all of you, everything that you would like even the undesirable shit. :dead:
Jesus. Akaksks
Let me get out of here.
That's an interesting way to look at it.
Do you think Bill Clinton was working out deep emotional issues when he busted a nut on Monica Lewinsky's dress
Zjsjajsjs
Gorl fuck u.
I just poured my heart out and this how you act. :everythingok:
Nsdffdssd
No I actually get your point of view on it. I just don't agree. Men are sexually aroused quite easily and some simply choose to act on the urge to get off a bit.
But there are some cases where it could be emotional
IMO
I UNDERSTAND that. It's a difference. But you really believe all men can't control themselves? Or the emotional ties are less compared to women?
I think it's the opposite, men are more emotional than women. Hence their fragile ego. And the way most men act 8s just simply passed on trauma from GENERATIONS. We as humans are so powerful, especially when were a blank slate and built up by the right influences. Majority of us, just si.ply aren't.
And it takes hard work to undo that, that the majority isn't willing to do. Period.
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 01:51:45 AM
The sexual desire and arousal towards people other than your partner is what's natural IMO. Those things don't shut off simply because you're in a relationship.
It's the social expectations that force us to fight those urges in the name of remaining "faithful". It's the "right" thing to do. Meanwhile you're somewhere imagining the man's cock down your throat.
Ok. Be honest. I want this nigga dick down my throat. Take it or leave it. Let that person decide. Might work out in ya favor.
https://www.instagram.com/p/ByJawhug3s7/
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 01:51:45 AM
The sexual desire and arousal towards people other than your partner is what's natural IMO. Those things don't shut off simply because you're in a relationship.
It's the social expectations that force us to fight those urges in the name of remaining "faithful". It's the "right" thing to do. Meanwhile you're somewhere imagining the man's cock down your throat.
:ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:
I feel like if we agree on a monogamous mess.. ur ass better not be fckn cheating
but I do also agree that humans aren't meant to be with 1 person.
GDVDNBCHBRNMn
first of all, why is a tranny talking about what's unnatural?
:udontlookok:
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Humans, complex creatures.
https://twitter.com/Official_Tink/status/1134948753708855301?s
But yall tried to read GODmar and I for saying let that man cheat in peace (if you aint gon' leave)
This is also why i don't believe in marriage. Marriage wasn't founded on love. It was founded on financial security / gain, political alliances etc.
I do accept engagement rings tho. Cartier, Bvlgari or if you really love me a harry winston mess :raycharles2urmess:
Gurl ain't nobody whipping out a ring for you. :overit:
Quote from: Tonkaman on June 02, 2019, 04:43:38 AM
Gurl ain't nobody whipping out a ring for you. :overit:
YOU couldnt afford anything of my liking bbydll.
Quote from: Tonkaman on June 02, 2019, 01:28:14 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 01:06:36 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on June 02, 2019, 01:05:05 AM
Alslsks
What? :ummwhat:
It's way deeper than that. Trust.
Care to expound?
I'm lowkey tipsy. But I'm gonna give it a shot tight now.
Essentially it goes beyond mohaghany. I believe in soul ties, spirits and energies are very much real. If your out here giving access to the quickest way to your core to anyone it leaves you susceptible to all type of outside forces because you lack boundaries.
Sex is the quickest, easiest and most powerful way to your core, your soul. And when people let anyone penetrate that your unable to recognize your true self.
And when people cheat, it's not even because they cheating, people usually come with there own spirtual(usually stem from childhood) wounds before hand and cheating just rips the wounds open that the person thought was gone(they just used a band aid. Majority of humans) like neutral, distrust, heartbreak, abandonment, not feeling good enough etc... it's those feelings behind it that makes it "bad" /"unnatural".
I promise you if humans were more honest and had better communication all around. People wouldn't trip as much if they knew exactly who they were dealing with and what their intentions were from jump. Because that alone would give them the option of choosing if they were down with it or not.
And funny enough, their is somebody out there who would be down with all of you, everything that you would like even the undesirable shit. :dead:
Jesus. Akaksks
Let me get out of here.
Love this post
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 01:51:45 AM
The sexual desire and arousal towards people other than your partner is what's natural IMO. Those things don't shut off simply because you're in a relationship.
It's the social expectations that force us to fight those urges in the name of remaining "faithful". It's the "right" thing to do. Meanwhile you're somewhere imagining the man's cock down your throat.
That is not entirely true.
And a through crossing your mind shouldn't even lead into the actual act
Could you imagine if you fucked everyone that you deemed attractive ?
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Biggest twaddle of shit I've ever read
yall tryna get sumbod' gf or bf kilt !
Quote from: RUN TINGZ. on June 02, 2019, 06:51:08 AM
Quote from: Hashtag::.::whipthatWHOLEass on June 02, 2019, 04:39:38 AM
This is also why i don't believe in marriage. Marriage wasn't founded on love. It was founded on financial security / gain, political alliances etc.
I do accept engagement rings tho. Cartier, Bvlgari or if you really love me a harry winston mess :raycharles2urmess:
If the ring isn't 3x his monthly salary, we don't want it.
:sup:
:traciandchelle:
Quote from: Omi on June 02, 2019, 05:59:00 AM
Biggest twaddle of shit I've ever read
Rfbfjddhdh
I don't agree about being sexually aroused by others even if you're in a relationship, because you're a man
Whenever I'm with my mans, I honestly don't SEE anyone else :dead:
I know imma get what I want when I get home lolz and nobody else is doing it for me
I like to think of relationships as physical and emotional connections
Quote from: Ton on June 02, 2019, 08:17:39 AM
I don't agree about being sexually aroused by others even if you're in a relationship, because you're a man
Whenever I'm with my mans, I honestly don't SEE anyone else :dead:
I know imma get what I want when I get home lolz and nobody else is doing it for me
I like to think of relationships as physical and emotional connections
!!!!
If you're with that person and every attractive thing is catching you're eye; that person you're with ain't the one
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
Holy fucking shit. Contradictions called out once again, not surprised.
Can y'all cut the crap. Men can't be monogamous. PERIOD!
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:27:49 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 02, 2019, 11:25:11 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
Holy fucking shit. Contradictions called out once again, not surprised.
l,pkdw
I mean, I just want to know.
Help me make this make sense.
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I believe monogamy is a choice and can be achieved with the right mindset but anyone who says they're not attracted to anyone else while in a relationship is a flat out liar.
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:35:06 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 02, 2019, 11:30:55 AM
I believe monogamy is a choice and can be achieved with the right mindset but anyone who says they're not attracted to anyone else while in a relationship is a flat out liar.
mmmmmmmm,m,
People WILL themselves into monogamy. It's a social expectation. But I think a lot of posts on here can give us insight into some fantasies that many men still have.
But, I only have eyes for youuuu and stuff
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_urvud-Oi0
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Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about
He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...
Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out
I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .
I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>
Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:41:45 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 02, 2019, 11:40:45 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:35:06 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 02, 2019, 11:30:55 AM
I believe monogamy is a choice and can be achieved with the right mindset but anyone who says they're not attracted to anyone else while in a relationship is a flat out liar.
mmmmmmmm,m,
People WILL themselves into monogamy. It's a social expectation. But I think a lot of posts on here can give us insight into some fantasies that many men still have.
But, I only have eyes for youuuu and stuff
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_urvud-Oi0
Welcome to DisneyLand
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Bible Study Source is a fckn mess sometimes!
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Quote from: RUN TINGZ. on June 02, 2019, 11:45:36 AM
Nah, being in a monogamous relationship >>>
i cant do that sleeping around mess, don't know how the gorls do it.
ssssssss
Am sorr' But yeah
Outside of the diseases that spread like wildfire ; I can't get intimate with any and everybody
I think society has become to demoralized tbh
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 11:47:25 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about
He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...
Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out
I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .
I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>
Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature
I agree with all of this tho! I'm not saying that you can't control yourself when you're in a relationship but I saw some were trying to say they're not attracted to others when they're in a relationship..
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:52:15 AM
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 11:47:25 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about
He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...
Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out
I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .
I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>
Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature
But many of you in here would have people to believe that once you're with someone, you only have eyes for that person.
A crush would imply that there's some attraction there. And describing sexual acts means those things are crossing your mind in some way.
Of course you wouldn't cheat because you've decided that you aren't going to do that. It makes sense. That's not what I am questioning. It's the attraction to others.
And let's call it what it is. Let's not sugarcoat it as "oh a little elementary school crush!". No, it's LUST when you are describing inserting someone's dick into your mouth, licking their boovy and bending over to take their dick.
It's SEXUAL.
nccnxnnxbxxxxbdxbx
Didn't know we were gonna get so graphic on a Sunday but yea.
:damselindistress:
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
people will always be attractive but that doesn't mean I want to fuck them
I find women attractive but I'd never attempt that. Single or not :dead:
Arousal just doesn't turn on for me if I'm with someone I care about
Herb is a whore guys
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:52:15 AM
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 11:47:25 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about
He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...
Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out
I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .
I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>
Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature
But many of you in here would have people to believe that once you're with someone, you only have eyes for that person.
A crush would imply that there's some attraction there. And describing sexual acts means those things are crossing your mind in some way.
Of course you wouldn't cheat because you've decided that you aren't going to do that. It makes sense. That's not what I am questioning. It's the attraction to others.
And let's call it what it is. Let's not sugarcoat it as "oh a little elementary school crush!". No, it's LUST when you are describing inserting someone's dick into your mouth, licking their boovy and bending over to take their dick.
It's SEXUAL.
but I think you're bleeding too many things into one here sis
Because the OP is about relationships and being only being with one person to have control over them
Yes we have eyes; were human .
When I'm out with my man and we see someone fine walk by we can both acknowledge that they're attractive and keep it moving .
Seeing someone as attractive doesn't automatically mean "welp! Lemme leave this nigga I'm with to fuck this one! " :uhh:
That's animalistic and there's a lack of self control if that's what you're alluding to.
And yes...the thought has DEFINITELY crossed my mind of Quincy inserting his penis in my mouth ddddd :young:
But then I snap back to reality and realize what I have
And I by no means would want a life with him over the life I have with my man ; or even both at the same time for that matter
Having someone totally committed to you >>>
And if we're keeping it fonky; as the OP is concerned ,I think people who think like that are scared of being hurt or have been before.
Being in a committed , loving relationship is a beautiful spiritual journey ; and I simply could not imagine bouncing from penis to penis just because I thought someone was attractive. There's so many deeper levels to it behind fleshly desires.
I wanna got FUCKED tonight.
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 12:00:32 PM
Quote from: Ton on June 02, 2019, 11:56:34 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
people will always be attractive but that doesn't mean I want to fuck them
I find women attractive but I'd never attempt that. Single or not :dead:
Arousal just doesn't turn on for me if I'm with someone I care about
I see. So you never get sexually aroused at the sight of any man other than your boyfriend.
Is this what you're saying?
yep
It's never happened, even when old fags hit me up trying to be cute. BYE fag
https://youtu.be/hgNZ6PxPi1s
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 12:04:07 PM
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 12:00:00 PM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:52:15 AM
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 11:47:25 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about
He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...
Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out
I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .
I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>
Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature
But many of you in here would have people to believe that once you're with someone, you only have eyes for that person.
A crush would imply that there's some attraction there. And describing sexual acts means those things are crossing your mind in some way.
Of course you wouldn't cheat because you've decided that you aren't going to do that. It makes sense. That's not what I am questioning. It's the attraction to others.
And let's call it what it is. Let's not sugarcoat it as "oh a little elementary school crush!". No, it's LUST when you are describing inserting someone's dick into your mouth, licking their boovy and bending over to take their dick.
It's SEXUAL.
And yes...the thought has DEFINITELY crossed my mind of Quincy inserting his penis in my mouth ddddd :young:
And this is all I'm saying.
It is NOT about having control. Of course you have control. That isn't my argument.
My argument is that YES, even when we are with someone, our bodies do not automatically shut off sexual feelings for all other human beings. sffssf
It's not the way we are naturally fucking programmed.
Ddddd
Babe you completely got rid of everything else i said
And Tbh ; a thought is simply that.
Doesn't have to go beyond that.
I don't agree with the OP because it would have you believe everyone is suppose to be raging fckn animals :uhh:
The thought alone disgusts me
Okay.
but I'm also saying sex, and relationships are heavy and spiritual
and it's beyond just self control
because being intimate with several people (especially at once) is not conducive for your spirit
you can lose yourself in other people
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 12:22:16 PM
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 12:19:28 PM
Okay.
but I'm also saying sex, and relationships are heavy and spiritual
and it's beyond just self control
because being intimate with several people (especially at once) is not conducive for your spirit
you can lose yourself in other people
I totally get and understand your beliefs.
But you still have the thoughts of another peen in your mouth sometimes, right?
That's what my argument is. It's natural. It's ... OK.
Yes it's totally okay for the thought to cross you're mind.
That is normal.
What's being said in the OP isn't tho; and makes a totally inaccurate blanket statement.
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 12:04:49 PM
Quote from: Ton on June 02, 2019, 12:04:09 PM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 12:00:32 PM
Quote from: Ton on June 02, 2019, 11:56:34 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
people will always be attractive but that doesn't mean I want to fuck them
I find women attractive but I'd never attempt that. Single or not :dead:
Arousal just doesn't turn on for me if I'm with someone I care about
I see. So you never get sexually aroused at the sight of any man other than your boyfriend.
Is this what you're saying?
yep
It's never happened, even when old fags hit me up trying to be cute. BYE fag
So you don't watch porn, or anything?
Wow. Gotta say I'm impressed.
duh we both jacked off
But neither of us are fucking actual people :dead:
I can't explain this any further, just know it's possible
We watch movies that we know are fake but they entertain us anyway
Doesn't mean I'm gonna climb walls like Spiderman
I guess we all just have different views of what a relationship is
Quote from: Ton on June 02, 2019, 12:53:29 PM
We watch movies that we know are fake but they entertain us anyway
Doesn't mean I'm gonna climb walls like Spiderman
I guess we all just have different views of what a relationship is
True but I know that any way you view a relationship is dead ass wrong.
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 12:59:55 PM
Quote from: Ton on June 02, 2019, 12:53:29 PM
We watch movies that we know are fake but they entertain us anyway
Doesn't mean I'm gonna climb walls like Spiderman
Once again you're bringing the conversation back to self control.
Or the actual act of "cheating".
I'm arguing the natural sense of sexual attraction to other human beings, regardless of being in a relationship.
And that's the thing about "views about what a relationship is"
I'm not in here discussing my beliefs about what a relationship is. Maybe that's where the miscommunication is. I am arguing human nature. You know, when your dick gets erect? Stuff like that.
I don't know
I just think the poster is making an excuse to get dick cccxccvv
Woo
Umm yes xnxbxb
They like dick like anyone else
All she said was 'I believe' essentially
Yeah and I believe God is a moose
Who's right here?
Quote from: BowDown on June 02, 2019, 11:30:55 AM
I believe monogamy is a choice and can be achieved with the right mindset but anyone who says they're not attracted to anyone else while in a relationship is a flat out liar.
This is true,BUT their should be something deeper there and a stronger connection to your partner to respect and honor them.
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 11:47:25 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about
He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...
Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out
I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .
I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>
Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 12:00:00 PM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:52:15 AM
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 11:47:25 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about
He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...
Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out
I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .
I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>
Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature
But many of you in here would have people to believe that once you're with someone, you only have eyes for that person.
A crush would imply that there's some attraction there. And describing sexual acts means those things are crossing your mind in some way.
Of course you wouldn't cheat because you've decided that you aren't going to do that. It makes sense. That's not what I am questioning. It's the attraction to others.
And let's call it what it is. Let's not sugarcoat it as "oh a little elementary school crush!". No, it's LUST when you are describing inserting someone's dick into your mouth, licking their boovy and bending over to take their dick.
It's SEXUAL.
but I think you're bleeding too many things into one here sis
Because the OP is about relationships and being only being with one person to have control over them
Yes we have eyes; were human .
When I'm out with my man and we see someone fine walk by we can both acknowledge that they're attractive and keep it moving .
Seeing someone as attractive doesn't automatically mean "welp! Lemme leave this nigga I'm with to fuck this one! " :uhh:
That's animalistic and there's a lack of self control if that's what you're alluding to.
And yes...the thought has DEFINITELY crossed my mind of Quincy inserting his penis in my mouth ddddd :young:
But then I snap back to reality and realize what I have
And I by no means would want a life with him over the life I have with my man ; or even both at the same time for that matter
Having someone totally committed to you >>>
And if we're keeping it fonky; as the OP is concerned ,I think people who think like that are scared of being hurt or have been before.
Being in a committed , loving relationship is a beautiful spiritual journey ; and I simply could not imagine bouncing from penis to penis just because I thought someone was attractive. There's so many deeper levels to it behind fleshly desires.
PERIOD!!!
THIS!!!!
I Aspire to get to this level, but I'm so afraid of doing it with a guy. :stressed:
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 12:20:27 PM
Quote from: Hashtag::.::whipthatWHOLEass on June 02, 2019, 04:39:38 AM
This is also why i don't believe in marriage. Marriage wasn't founded on love. It was founded on financial security / gain, political alliances etc.
I see marriage more as a means to secure certain things as well.
So many people make it all about the lovey dovey stuff and their feelings ....and that could be why so many marriages end in divorce.
I see the benefit of it in more of a legal and financial way. You become next of kin so if there's any tough decisions to be made in a hospital, you won't have someone's family member trying to block you out because you're "just" the boyfriend or whatever. Financially, no sense of marrying someone who doesn't have their financial mess together or no sense of financial responsibility whatsoever.
Many fights in marriage are started with money, and END with money in a courthouse during divorce proceedings.
It's about the lovey dovey stuff too, but marriage is sometimes too romanticized.
I get this a far as marriage. I don't see myself getting married ever again. Especially if I come into my wealth before I meet someone I'm compatible with. And I have alot of work to do as far as being that close with a guy.
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 11:51:53 AM
Quote from: RUN TINGZ. on June 02, 2019, 11:45:36 AM
Nah, being in a monogamous relationship >>>
i cant do that sleeping around mess, don't know how the gorls do it.
ssssssss
Am sorr' But yeah
Outside of the diseases that spread like wildfire ; I can't get intimate with any and everybody
I think society has become to demoralized tbh
:blink:
You can get a disease IN relationship
Also... There's nothing wrong with casual sex. I used yo be like.... :udontlookok: to the whole idea but i get it now. My issue is with people always wanting to record the mess. Like....
wow
Afro it's weird how you're so liberal and open minded in some ways yet so 1600-like in others :dead:
But i agree with you... this time.
At the end of the day we all want and look for company. Could be a friend, familiar or a partner. We want stability, but mostly because of the social norm. We want to fulfill social expectations, become full fledged citizens etc. You know... materializing the whole outdated, white, religious idea of family.
But sexually, we're not made to be faithful. Sorry :dead: I mean we can try, but are we really happy being completely faithful to one person? I don't buy it. Sooner or later sexual desire will win you over. :enchantress:
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Please. I'm more shocked when I come across a monogamous fag. Y'all are just some damn WHORES. I'm so sick of y'all trying to clean it up and make it sound pretty.
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Are y'all trying to mentally prepare yourselves for getting "cheated on" ? :udontlookok: fjfjfjd
thats the thing though. I've literally haven't come across a fag that's NOT in an open relationship. It's the norm for gays... monogamy is definitely in the minority with our community. :dead:
To each his own, but it's not for me.
Quote from: Unholy. on June 02, 2019, 11:20:22 PM
Are y'all trying to mentally prepare yourselves for getting "cheated on" ? :udontlookok: fjfjfjd
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Somebody lock this demonic ass thread.
Quote from: Justaway_ on June 02, 2019, 10:56:10 PM
But sexually, we're not made to be faithful. Sorry :dead: I mean we can try, but are we really happy being completely faithful to one person? I don't buy it. Sooner or later sexual desire will win you over. :enchantress:
Please. Yall just wanna fuck any and everything. And speak for yourself.
Quote from: Unholy. on June 02, 2019, 11:20:22 PM
Are y'all trying to mentally prepare yourselves for getting "cheated on" ? :udontlookok: fjfjfjd
That's exactly what it sounds like. Making excuses
While I am poly. I think this is the logic "she" needs to tell herself to justify sleeping with married men.
not "she"
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