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[GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME]

So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...

I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.

people will always be attractive but that doesn't mean I want to fuck them

I find women attractive but I'd never attempt that. Single or not

Arousal just doesn't turn on for me if I'm with someone I care about

I see. So you never get sexually aroused at the sight of any man other than your boyfriend.

Is this what you're saying?

yep

It's never happened, even when old fags hit me up trying to be cute. BYE fag

[Young]

[Young]

So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...

I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.

I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about

He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...

Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out

I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .

I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>

Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature

But many of you in here would have people to believe that once you're with someone, you only have eyes for that person.

A crush would imply that there's some attraction there. And describing sexual acts means those things are crossing your mind in some way. 

Of course you wouldn't cheat because you've decided that you aren't going to do that. It makes sense. That's not what I am questioning. It's the attraction to others.

And let's call it what it is. Let's not sugarcoat it as "oh a little elementary school crush!". No, it's LUST when you are describing inserting someone's dick into your mouth, licking their boovy and bending over to take their dick.

It's SEXUAL.

And yes...the thought has DEFINITELY crossed my mind of Quincy inserting his penis in my mouth ddddd

And this is all I'm saying.

It is NOT about having control. Of course you have control. That isn't my argument.

My argument is that YES, even when we are with someone, our bodies do not automatically shut off sexual feelings for all other human beings. sffssf

It's not the way we are naturally fucking programmed.

Ddddd
Babe you completely got rid of everything else i said

And Tbh ; a thought is simply that.
Doesn't have to go beyond that.


I don't agree with the OP because it would have you believe everyone is suppose to be raging fckn animals

The thought alone disgusts me

[Young]

Okay.

but I'm also saying sex, and relationships are heavy and spiritual 
and it's beyond just self control 
because being intimate with several people (especially at once) is not conducive for your spirit 

you can lose yourself in other people

[Young]

Okay.

but I'm also saying sex, and relationships are heavy and spiritual
and it's beyond just self control
because being intimate with several people (especially at once) is not conducive for your spirit

you can lose yourself in other people

I totally get and understand your beliefs.

But you still have the thoughts of another peen in your mouth sometimes, right?

That's what my argument is. It's natural. It's ... OK.

Yes it's totally okay for the thought to cross you're mind.
That is normal.
What's being said in the OP isn't tho; and makes a totally inaccurate blanket statement.

[GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME]

So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...

I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.

people will always be attractive but that doesn't mean I want to fuck them

I find women attractive but I'd never attempt that. Single or not

Arousal just doesn't turn on for me if I'm with someone I care about

I see. So you never get sexually aroused at the sight of any man other than your boyfriend.

Is this what you're saying?

yep

It's never happened, even when old fags hit me up trying to be cute. BYE fag

So you don't watch porn, or anything?

Wow. Gotta say I'm impressed.

duh we both jacked off

But neither of us are fucking actual people

I can't explain this any further, just know it's possible

[GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME]

We watch movies that we know are fake but they entertain us anyway

Doesn't mean I'm gonna climb walls like Spiderman

I guess we all just have different views of what a relationship is

[Barbie Dangerous]

We watch movies that we know are fake but they entertain us anyway

Doesn't mean I'm gonna climb walls like Spiderman

I guess we all just have different views of what a relationship is

True but I know that any way you view a relationship is dead ass wrong.

[GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME]

We watch movies that we know are fake but they entertain us anyway

Doesn't mean I'm gonna climb walls like Spiderman

Once again you're bringing the conversation back to self control.
Or the actual act of "cheating".

I'm arguing the natural sense of sexual attraction to other human beings, regardless of being in a relationship.

And that's the thing about "views about what a relationship is"

I'm not in here discussing my beliefs about what a relationship is. Maybe that's where the miscommunication is. I am arguing human nature. You know, when your dick gets erect? Stuff like that.

I don't know

I just think the poster is making an excuse to get dick cccxccvv

[Young]

Woo

[GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME]

Umm yes xnxbxb

They like dick like anyone else

All she said was 'I believe' essentially

Yeah and I believe God is a moose

Who's right here?

[Navyman]

I believe monogamy is a choice and can be achieved with the right mindset but anyone who says they're not attracted to anyone else while in a relationship is a flat out liar.

This is true,BUT their should be something deeper there and a stronger connection to your partner to respect and honor them.

[Navyman]

So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...

I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.

I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about

He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...

Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out

I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .

I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>

Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature

[Navyman]

So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...

I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.

I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about

He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...

Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out

I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .

I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>

Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature

But many of you in here would have people to believe that once you're with someone, you only have eyes for that person.

A crush would imply that there's some attraction there. And describing sexual acts means those things are crossing your mind in some way. 

Of course you wouldn't cheat because you've decided that you aren't going to do that. It makes sense. That's not what I am questioning. It's the attraction to others.

And let's call it what it is. Let's not sugarcoat it as "oh a little elementary school crush!". No, it's LUST when you are describing inserting someone's dick into your mouth, licking their boovy and bending over to take their dick.

It's SEXUAL.

but I think you're bleeding too many things into one here sis

Because the OP is about relationships and being only being with one person to have control over them

Yes we have eyes; were human .
When I'm out with my man and we see someone fine walk by we can both acknowledge that they're attractive and keep it moving .
Seeing someone as attractive doesn't automatically mean "welp! Lemme leave this nigga I'm with to fuck this one! "

That's animalistic and there's a lack of self control if that's what you're alluding to.

And yes...the thought has DEFINITELY crossed my mind of Quincy inserting his penis in my mouth ddddd
But then I snap back to reality and realize what I have
And I by no means would want a life with him over the life I have with my man ; or even both at the same time for that matter

Having someone totally committed to you >>>

And if we're keeping it fonky; as the OP is concerned ,I think people who think like that are scared of being hurt or have been before.
Being in a committed , loving relationship is a beautiful spiritual journey ; and I simply could not imagine bouncing from penis to penis just because I thought someone was attractive. There's so many deeper levels to it behind fleshly desires.

PERIOD!!!
THIS!!!!
I Aspire to get to this level, but I'm so afraid of doing it with a guy.

[Navyman]

This is also why i don't believe in marriage. Marriage wasn't founded on love. It was founded on financial security / gain, political alliances etc.

I see marriage more as a means to secure certain things as well.

So many people make it all about the lovey dovey stuff and their feelings ....and that could be why so many marriages end in divorce.

I see the benefit of it in more of a legal and financial way. You become next of kin so if there's any tough decisions to be made in a hospital, you won't have someone's family member trying to block you out because you're "just" the boyfriend or whatever. Financially, no sense of marrying someone who doesn't have their financial mess together or no sense of financial responsibility whatsoever.

Many fights in marriage are started with money, and END with money in a courthouse during divorce proceedings.

It's about the lovey dovey stuff too, but marriage is sometimes too romanticized.

I get this a far as marriage. I don't see myself getting married ever again. Especially if I come into my wealth before I meet someone I'm compatible with. And I have alot of work to do as far as being that close with a guy.