No longer are they limiting themselves to "dark chocolate" men while those same men put them down for a long haired redbone. I have been noticing that light skinned and non black men really appreciate African beauty whereas most straight dark skinned men have that lil wayne mentality. Don't get me wrong I love seeing two dark skinned people together, but I also love that dark skinned black women are waking up to the double standard and exploring their options.
Some cute examples :wellheythere:
Im curious ... are u a darker skinned guy?
screaming.
I've been wanting to ask him that. These threads.......
Quote from: RIG on December 07, 2015, 04:09:45 AM
Im curious ... are u a darker skinned guy?
I'm average brown skinned black so I never had to deal with the light skinned vs darkskinned issue directly.
Beautiful couples..
not another username sssssdds jayd' luv
Hhhh who? ????
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I enjoy seeing black women open up their playing field as well.
Ive also noticed an appreciation of women with Afrocentric features by white and asian men. I think dark women are magical! Im happy they're finding love with men who genuinely appreciate their beauty as is.
I wish more brothers found our darker hued women appealing but black men (straight and gay) are the biggest contributers to colorism yet they make it seem like its the black women who deal with it exclusively.
thats jayden? sdlkjfksdjkjsdfksjjj
anyway let me get into these
the last one is crazy
his asian parents must've had a heart attack...marrying a black woman with 4 children
but they keep talking about spiritual connection with God.
But are they physically attracted to each other?
waitt....she used to be very physically fit
i think she probably just had a baby in the clip posted above
Quote from: Hazeleyes on December 07, 2015, 03:34:46 AM
No longer are they limiting themselves to "dark chocolate" men while those same men put them down for a long haired redbone. I have been noticing that light skinned and non black men really appreciate African beauty whereas most straight dark skinned men have that lil wayne mentality. Don't get me wrong I love seeing two dark skinned people together, but I also love that dark skinned black women are waking up to the double standard and exploring their options.
I've been saying this for the longest time.
And why does someone have to be of a darker complexion to care about what is going on in our community?
We get so uncomfortable when these discussions are brought up, and begin questioning motive, but anything else being discussed is fair game.
(http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y236/bannerboi/yP9yPGk.gif) (http://s6.photobucket.com/user/bannerboi/media/yP9yPGk.gif.html) I don't support the erasure of black love
Asian guy is crazy
then get out there and tell some of these women to stop waiting on Ginuwine to come along for mixed bvys
and give the beautiful black man in front of them a chance.
(http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y236/bannerboi/yP9yPGk.gif)
Quote from: Herbie on December 07, 2015, 08:40:44 AM
And why does someone have to be of a darker complexion to care about what is going on in our community?
We get so uncomfortable when these discussions are brought up, and begin questioning motive, but anything else being discussed is fair game.
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Buffy (the author) just has a peculiar fascination with color
Still love you though hun
:traciandchelle:
Quote from: Phantom on December 07, 2015, 08:56:52 AM
Asian guy is crazy
they've known each other since they were children though....you start to understand their relationship when you watch more of their videos
and she's doing her PhD in Mathematics at University of Maryland...got her masters in Math from Georgetown. the future coins kinda makes up for the 4 children thing
Quote from: Herbie on December 07, 2015, 08:57:31 AM
then get out there and tell some of these women to stop waiting on Ginuwine to come along for mixed bvys
and give the beautiful black man in front of them a chance.
(http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y236/bannerboi/yP9yPGk.gif)
They would, but because they got teased about their skintone from a couple of self-hating boys on the playground, it resulted in them having a poor self-image. This wouldn't happen so much if parents told their black sons how beautiful they were.
These woe-is-me dark skinned women need therapy. (http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y236/bannerboi/yP9yPGk.gif) (http://s6.photobucket.com/user/bannerboi/media/yP9yPGk.gif.html)
Quote from: CarseyWerner on December 07, 2015, 09:12:14 AM
Quote from: Herbie on December 07, 2015, 08:57:31 AM
then get out there and tell some of these women to stop waiting on Ginuwine to come along for mixed bvys
and give the beautiful black man in front of them a chance.
(http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y236/bannerboi/yP9yPGk.gif)
They would, but because they got teased about their skintone from a couple of self-hating boys on the playground, it resulted in them having a poor self-image. This wouldn't happen so much if parents told their black sons how beautiful they were.
These woe-is-me dark skinned women need therapy. (http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y236/bannerboi/yP9yPGk.gif) (http://s6.photobucket.com/user/bannerboi/media/yP9yPGk.gif.html)
I agree with the first part of your post.
But I'm still not clapping for you. (http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y236/bannerboi/yP9yPGk.gif)
ugh asian men are so fucking beautiful....its a shame most of them don't look at themselves as handsome...
Beautiful couples. I love seeing when men of all
races can genuinely appreciate and cherish Black beauty.
Quote from: Stewie on December 07, 2015, 09:39:39 AM
ugh asian men are so fucking beautiful....its a shame most of them don't look at themselves as handsome...
I think he's a handsome guy
Quote from: Stewie on December 07, 2015, 07:48:43 AM
the last one is crazy
his asian parents must've had a heart attack...marrying a black woman with 4 children
but they keep talking about spiritual connection with God.
But are they physically attracted to each other?
His mom doesn't use
Quote from: Herbie on December 07, 2015, 08:38:14 AM
Quote from: Hazeleyes on December 07, 2015, 03:34:46 AM
No longer are they limiting themselves to "dark chocolate" men while those same men put them down for a long haired redbone. I have been noticing that light skinned and non black men really appreciate African beauty whereas most straight dark skinned men have that lil wayne mentality. Don't get me wrong I love seeing two dark skinned people together, but I also love that dark skinned black women are waking up to the double standard and exploring their options.
I've been saying this for the longest time.
nnnnn
been hip!You've been saying it for like a month :dead:
I like seeing stuff like this. I hate when black women are so closed off to interracial dating. I have a close female friend that thinks it's gross :dead:
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 07, 2015, 11:38:15 AM
Quote from: Herbie on December 07, 2015, 08:38:14 AM
Quote from: Hazeleyes on December 07, 2015, 03:34:46 AM
No longer are they limiting themselves to "dark chocolate" men while those same men put them down for a long haired redbone. I have been noticing that light skinned and non black men really appreciate African beauty whereas most straight dark skinned men have that lil wayne mentality. Don't get me wrong I love seeing two dark skinned people together, but I also love that dark skinned black women are waking up to the double standard and exploring their options.
I've been saying this for the longest time.
nnnnn
been hip!
You've been saying it for like a month :dead:
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Quote from: Hazeleyes on December 07, 2015, 03:34:46 AM
No longer are they limiting themselves to "dark chocolate" men while those same men put them down for a long haired redbone.
Sad and powerful statement.
i was just watching this couple on youtube
they're adorable!
Quote from: LiiVE on December 07, 2015, 11:49:47 AM
i was just watching this couple on youtube
they're adorable!
sddsddssd
Awww, I like them. She's beautiful
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on December 07, 2015, 11:29:43 AM
Quote from: Stewie on December 07, 2015, 07:48:43 AM
the last one is crazy
his asian parents must've had a heart attack...marrying a black woman with 4 children
but they keep talking about spiritual connection with God.
But are they physically attracted to each other?
His mom doesn't use
The screencap alone has me hunched
Quote from: Herbie on December 07, 2015, 08:38:14 AM
Quote from: Hazeleyes on December 07, 2015, 03:34:46 AM
No longer are they limiting themselves to "dark chocolate" men while those same men put them down for a long haired redbone. I have been noticing that light skinned and non black men really appreciate African beauty whereas most straight dark skinned men have that lil wayne mentality. Don't get me wrong I love seeing two dark skinned people together, but I also love that dark skinned black women are waking up to the double standard and exploring their options.
I've been saying this for the longest time.
BEEN SAID!Boy, if u don't....
xxxx
Never understood the light vs dark thing. Am attracted to athletic body types, nice facial features and big dicks
Skin color never mattered
Yeah as long as you're black, I'm good :feelinmyself:
Quote from: Phantom on December 07, 2015, 12:11:46 PM
Yeah as long as you're black, I'm good :feelinmyself:
Are u racist?
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 07, 2015, 12:12:26 PM
Quote from: Phantom on December 07, 2015, 12:11:46 PM
Yeah as long as you're black, I'm good :feelinmyself:
Are u racist?
yh
He called me a spear chucker once :everythingok:
Yeah. I could care less about race.
Black, White, Latin, Middle Eastern, Asian, etc.
If you're hot, you're hot.
Quote from: CarseyWerner on December 07, 2015, 08:55:19 AM
(http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y236/bannerboi/yP9yPGk.gif) (http://s6.photobucket.com/user/bannerboi/media/yP9yPGk.gif.html) I don't support the erasure of black love
I think I'm just a bigger advocate for black women FINDING LOVE lol. It makes no sense for a black woman to be so loyal when that loyalty isn't reciprocated. You also have to look at it statistically. If quality black women outnumber quality black men 3 to 1, what are they supposed to do share a nigga? Just look at the gender ratio's at HBC's, its slim pickings for the black woman who is all about "black love", especially when half of the decent men would rather have a latina or a white girl with a booty
:letsmessfag:
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on December 07, 2015, 07:33:40 AM
I enjoy seeing black women open up their playing field as well.
Ive also noticed an appreciation of women with Afrocentric features by white and asian men. I think dark women are magical! Im happy they're finding love with men who genuinely appreciate their beauty as is.
I wish more brothers found our darker hued women appealing but black men (straight and gay) are the biggest contributers to colorism yet they make it seem like its the black women who deal with it exclusively.
I have seen first hand black women turn down good black men because they were not thugs. Calling them lame, boring, etc.
But as Soon as that same black man with morals turn around and dates a white woman, he's looked at as satan :plzstop:
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on December 07, 2015, 11:29:43 AM
Quote from: Stewie on December 07, 2015, 07:48:43 AM
the last one is crazy
his asian parents must've had a heart attack...marrying a black woman with 4 children
but they keep talking about spiritual connection with God.
But are they physically attracted to each other?
His mom doesn't use
jjdfkjdjfdjfh she REALLY doesnt....they way she's INSPECTING the babys mug at the 6:45 mark. omff
Quote from: Genesis on December 07, 2015, 12:46:15 PM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on December 07, 2015, 07:33:40 AM
I enjoy seeing black women open up their playing field as well.
Ive also noticed an appreciation of women with Afrocentric features by white and asian men. I think dark women are magical! Im happy they're finding love with men who genuinely appreciate their beauty as is.
I wish more brothers found our darker hued women appealing but black men (straight and gay) are the biggest contributers to colorism yet they make it seem like its the black women who deal with it exclusively.
I have seen first hand black women turn down good black men because they were not thugs. Calling them lame, boring, etc.
But as Soon as that same black man with morals turn around and dates a white woman, he's looked at as satan :plzstop:
I understand what you are saying but that still doesnt change the fact that black men don't celebrate our darker hued sisters. Look at hip hop.
Women dating bad boys isnt something that is exclusive to black women. It's no different than a white girl dating her punk meth head boyfriend. It's about maturity. Sometimes women need to mature and have experiences to know what they really need.
Men of color contribute to the idea that thugs/athletes/rappers are the ideal black men. Women typically are drawn to the ideals within their community. Thats regardless of race.
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on December 07, 2015, 01:44:41 PM
Quote from: Genesis on December 07, 2015, 12:46:15 PM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on December 07, 2015, 07:33:40 AM
I enjoy seeing black women open up their playing field as well.
Ive also noticed an appreciation of women with Afrocentric features by white and asian men. I think dark women are magical! Im happy they're finding love with men who genuinely appreciate their beauty as is.
I wish more brothers found our darker hued women appealing but black men (straight and gay) are the biggest contributers to colorism yet they make it seem like its the black women who deal with it exclusively.
I have seen first hand black women turn down good black men because they were not thugs. Calling them lame, boring, etc.
But as Soon as that same black man with morals turn around and dates a white woman, he's looked at as satan :plzstop:
I understand what you are saying but that still doesnt change the fact that black men don't celebrate our darker hued sisters. Look at hip hop.
Women dating bad boys isnt something that is exclusive to black women. It's no different than a white girl dating her punk meth head boyfriend. It's about maturity. Sometimes women need to mature and have experiences to know what they really need.
Men of color contribute to the idea that thugs/athletes/rappers are the ideal black men. Women typically are drawn to the ideals within their community. Thats regardless of race.
I agree. It just goes both ways. Most black men want a lightskin/mixed chick while most black women want a low down dirty thug. Hip hop is to blame for some of it, but at the same time black men arent the only ones at fault for that foolishness, black women are too.
she's bossy as fuck though...and aggressive....i hope their marriage lasts
[youtube start=510]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W1Vzl8r2QK0[/youtube]
oh god ....they're dragging her in the comments.....i think they like the asian guy but not her
Quote from: Stewie on December 07, 2015, 02:16:00 PM
oh god ....they're dragging her in the comments.....i think they like the asian guy but not her
In that long ass video they talked about how she is working on her aggressiveness so at least she knows its an issue. Plus there are some moments where she plays the cutesy role, but yeah she can be a mess. Her meltdown in this video was ridiculous!
Watch at the 10 min mark.
Quote from: Genesis on December 07, 2015, 02:07:17 PM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on December 07, 2015, 01:44:41 PM
Quote from: Genesis on December 07, 2015, 12:46:15 PM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on December 07, 2015, 07:33:40 AM
I enjoy seeing black women open up their playing field as well.
Ive also noticed an appreciation of women with Afrocentric features by white and asian men. I think dark women are magical! Im happy they're finding love with men who genuinely appreciate their beauty as is.
I wish more brothers found our darker hued women appealing but black men (straight and gay) are the biggest contributers to colorism yet they make it seem like its the black women who deal with it exclusively.
I have seen first hand black women turn down good black men because they were not thugs. Calling them lame, boring, etc.
But as Soon as that same black man with morals turn around and dates a white woman, he's looked at as satan :plzstop:
I understand what you are saying but that still doesnt change the fact that black men don't celebrate our darker hued sisters. Look at hip hop.
Women dating bad boys isnt something that is exclusive to black women. It's no different than a white girl dating her punk meth head boyfriend. It's about maturity. Sometimes women need to mature and have experiences to know what they really need.
Men of color contribute to the idea that thugs/athletes/rappers are the ideal black men. Women typically are drawn to the ideals within their community. Thats regardless of race.
I agree. It just goes both ways. Most black men want a lightskin/mixed chick while most black women want a low down dirty thug. Hip hop is to blame for some of it, but at the same time black men arent the only ones at fault for that foolishness, black women are too.
This is why I love Ciara and Russell together. She is showing girls who have that mentality that the educated "good guy" is an option too.
this is nothing new. not "ive been noticing."
This baby inspection BXBXBBXBBVXVX
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why is their a nigger couple in the OP if this is about interracial relations
Quote from: Lion Babe on December 07, 2015, 04:59:30 PM
KJFNFF
why is their a nigger couple in the OP if this is about interracial relations
Its not necessarily about interracial couples but more so about Dark Skinned black women worshiping dark skinned black men when the favor isn't returned.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 07, 2015, 11:38:15 AM
Quote from: Herbie on December 07, 2015, 08:38:14 AM
Quote from: Hazeleyes on December 07, 2015, 03:34:46 AM
No longer are they limiting themselves to "dark chocolate" men while those same men put them down for a long haired redbone. I have been noticing that light skinned and non black men really appreciate African beauty whereas most straight dark skinned men have that lil wayne mentality. Don't get me wrong I love seeing two dark skinned people together, but I also love that dark skinned black women are waking up to the double standard and exploring their options.
I've been saying this for the longest time.
nnnnn
been hip!
You've been saying it for like a month :dead:
actually I originally said this months ago
In regards to my 2 male cousins on my dads side of the family.
I kinda looked at them like :uhh: for always going for white women but after a while it clicked. My dads side of the family is damn near pure west African blood. U can see it in their features. Full lips , beautiful dark skin ... Thick hair... My cousins fully represent west African beauty.
But I noticed they were insecure a lot about their looks... I'm looking at them like :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: do u not see ur selves? :plzstop: :plzstop: but it made sense after I thought about it. Black girls ain't checking for them, or at least they've been made to feel that way thru messages directly and/or indirectly sent to them. And it makes me angry.
So yes , I've "been hip". I've seen the effects of this in my own family.
ssssssss
Yawl stay worried about some skin color n mess tho
And it don't even be interesting or relevant stuff sometimes :kii:
Like in this instance....
Who fucking cares who black women sleep with. We're all ghey here last I checked :dead:
"Oh black womah found power in light dick! Praise to ha!"
Damn you gorls :kii:
Quote from: RIG on December 07, 2015, 04:09:45 AM
Im curious ... are u a darker skinned guy?
ssssssssssssss
There's definitely something underlying!
twinny...We "stay worried" about a lot of things on this site that are irrelevant to and have absolutely no impact our own lives.
At least this is a discussion regarding things that impact our community. Which is more than can be said about 95% of the mess we talk about on here. (Emphasis on we... I'm definitely not excluded. )