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Title: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 06, 2020, 05:43:59 PM
https://www.instagram.com/p/CCRl856g4cJ/

I've been eyeing some wigs lately, wonder what style king would like best
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 06, 2020, 05:47:28 PM
omg these comments are WILD

the trans community is so dangerous
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: reekz on July 06, 2020, 05:48:57 PM
He is stupid 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 06, 2020, 05:50:53 PM
oh wow... the women are FED tf up

kesha_mingo
This is NOT big facts‼️ they where attrActed to what looked like a female!

king6ix6ix5
You still have time to delete this Big dawg

jucintachantelle
But than everybody wonder why Trans death rate is so high ... this will definitely increase it... what's so wrong with telling the truth... "I was born a male".... than allow the man the opportunity to decide.... its the lying & scientific delusional for me...
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 05:51:53 PM
I mean.... If the penis is COMPLETELY gone then... they arent exactly men anymore so...

I dont get the comments fdffdfdjdfj
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 05:53:03 PM
Now if they still have a DICK then... come the fuck on. 
sdffffffffffffffffffff
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: reekz on July 06, 2020, 05:53:35 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 05:51:53 PM
I mean.... If the penis is COMPLETELY gone then... they arent exactly men anymore so...

I dont get the comments fdffdfdjdfj

trans·gen·der

Learn to pronounce
adjective

:denoting or relating to a person whose sense of personal identity and gender does not correspond with their birth sex.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Sinpool on July 06, 2020, 05:54:18 PM
Can't believe he said this with all his African Followers 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 06, 2020, 05:54:37 PM
I think King is fluid ... would love see him naked
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 06, 2020, 06:00:46 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 05:51:53 PM
I mean.... If the penis is COMPLETELY gone then... they arent exactly men anymore so...

I dont get the comments fdffdfdjdfj
ssssssssss

his hotep nigger fans are fuming

tommyx2_
So are you attracted to trans women?

yaboyfriendlilfriend
@tommyx2_ yes he is.

samisosa23456
@brandonrchard they are men period !!! I don't care what pills you take , what surgery you get , how many wigs and makeup you wear , your dna will always be male . You will never ovulate , never carry a child , you will never be a woman !! Any man who is with a man is gay period !!

astoldbydomdej
@wendy4darling What's it to me is this video. A gay man trying to normalize men being seen as women and saying it's normal to be attracted to a biological male. It's my business when y'all pushing delusion and mental illness. I didn't spread a lie. The lie is men believing they're women because they "feel" like it
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Kalifornia. on July 06, 2020, 06:04:49 PM
'denna ddy I gots a wig and some Fenty mess
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 06:05:16 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence
HJHHJ

I didnt click play. What did it say ?
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 06:06:20 PM
The trans fighters be RIGHT on some shit but then say some shit that just completely throws their mess out the window for me. 

like...LOOK. Use logic to get your point across COMPLETELY. 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Nine on July 06, 2020, 06:06:48 PM
Ehhh, I really do think trans gorls should disclose.

It's better for everyone involved in the long run.

also, this nigga talking is sexy.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:07:39 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:05:16 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence
HJHHJ

I didnt click play. What did it say ?
"ALOT of people are gonna disagree with me but I believe trans women ARE women "
............
(https://memeguy.com/photos/thumbs/mrw-i-hear-that-a-pregnant-friend-doesnt-quit-smoking-because-it-affects-only-the-lung-124725.gif)
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Sinpool on July 06, 2020, 06:07:52 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence

You're better than this

Stop your transphobia
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Kalifornia. on July 06, 2020, 06:08:29 PM
I know trans are blowing his DMs UP rn
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 06:08:46 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:07:39 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:05:16 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence
HJHHJ

I didnt click play. What did it say ?
"ALOT of people ate gonna disagree with me but I believe trans women ARE women "
............
(https://memeguy.com/photos/thumbs/mrw-i-hear-that-a-pregnant-friend-doesnt-quit-smoking-because-it-affects-only-the-lung-124725.gif)
yea ummmm.. nah
(https://i.ibb.co/wYF3c8G/giphy.gif)
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: reekz on July 06, 2020, 06:09:14 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:07:39 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:05:16 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence
HJHHJ

I didnt click play. What did it say ?
"ALOT of people are gonna disagree with me but I believe trans women ARE women "
............
(https://memeguy.com/photos/thumbs/mrw-i-hear-that-a-pregnant-friend-doesnt-quit-smoking-because-it-affects-only-the-lung-124725.gif)
Lol I wonder what Bill was disgusted by

:dead:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Quote from: Sufi Woman on July 06, 2020, 06:07:52 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence

You're better than this

Stop your transphobia
If u were not born a woman then ur NOT a fckn woman and no amount of surgery or makeup will change that.  Live ur life the way u want but NO
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 06:21:39 PM
Quote from: Gifted. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:52 PM
Someone recently said Trans women want to be seen as Women, but are quick to call women "Cis women" nowadays.

It really is hypocritical.
BINGO.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Nine on July 06, 2020, 06:31:42 PM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 06, 2020, 06:22:44 PM
that nigga in the vidya is fuckin hot.

but not him comparing hiding ur whole gender mess to fake jewelry and cars

:disgusted:
sdnfnsda;lfdsfmsd

yeah, the comparison was dumb af.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on July 06, 2020, 06:37:36 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

yeah it does to them?? you dont know any trans women? cause you would think diff if you did .
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Young on July 06, 2020, 06:39:22 PM
Woo!

And THIS is why he's my KING

:gorlonfire:

Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Edge gorl on July 06, 2020, 06:39:31 PM
Quote from: Bentley. THE Moderator. on July 06, 2020, 05:50:53 PM
oh wow... the women are FED tf up

kesha_mingo
This is NOT big facts‼️ they where attrActed to what looked like a female!

king6ix6ix5
You still have time to delete this Big dawg

jucintachantelle
But than everybody wonder why Trans death rate is so high ... this will definitely increase it... what's so wrong with telling the truth... "I was born a male".... than allow the man the opportunity to decide.... its the lying & scientific delusional for me...

nobody gives a fck bout they mad asses
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Young on July 06, 2020, 06:40:01 PM
And to the last statement 

*Transwomen are women in ESSENCE.

but 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

love him for posting this .
oof
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Edge gorl on July 06, 2020, 06:40:02 PM
if womens nd trans womens are gonna b in our own lanes

get yall CISSY asses offa trans topics
stop tryna push into our space! =)
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BrokenHeartsHeal on July 06, 2020, 06:40:44 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 05:53:03 PM
Now if they still have a DICK then... come the fuck on.
sdffffffffffffffffffff

All these fags know what they are  dealing with. I%u2019m sorry but the girls are not all that FISHY. These niggas be knowing and just black out when they get the outward reveal or sense that their tea will be clocked
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Edge gorl on July 06, 2020, 06:40:59 PM
Quote from: Young on July 06, 2020, 06:40:01 PM
And to the last statement

*Transwomen are women in ESSENCE.

but 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

love him for posting this .
oof

MMHMMMMM

nd womens kno it too
they jus JEALOUS nd IGNANT

men kno it too
they jus scared cuzza wat taquan n nem gon say bout his blck ass aftr blow sum tranny bac out!!
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Edge gorl on July 06, 2020, 06:41:52 PM
jus ta make u fags moe mad...guess wat...

jidenna ate my ass las july wen i came to tampa florida!
bam!
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: reekz on July 06, 2020, 06:49:12 PM
Bow started out as a trans girl. We was ok with it

https://www.instagram.com/p/CCUUv9GFjuy/?igshid=tc76iahvb10s (https://www.instagram.com/p/CCUUv9GFjuy/?igshid=tc76iahvb10s)
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:50:45 PM
Quote from: Troye on July 06, 2020, 06:37:36 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

yeah it does to them?? you dont know any trans women? cause you would think diff if you did .
Well tell the niggas u know they AIN'T women and nothing is ever gonna change that
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 06:53:49 PM
Quote from: Troye on July 06, 2020, 06:37:36 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

yeah it does to them?? you dont know any trans women? cause you would think diff if you did .
No. No I wouldnt.

Also. Sorry im not blinded by bias  :dead:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 06:54:30 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:50:45 PM
Quote from: Troye on July 06, 2020, 06:37:36 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

yeah it does to them?? you dont know any trans women? cause you would think diff if you did .
Well tell the niggas u know they AIN'T women and nothing is ever gonna change that
(https://i.ibb.co/Ws57bn9/85-F16520-ADCA-475-F-8-FE2-C06647-C1-E728.gif)
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Edge gorl on July 06, 2020, 06:55:06 PM
 :woohoo:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 06, 2020, 07:06:58 PM
Jdjdjdjdj his African fan base are casting spells right now
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Sinpool on July 06, 2020, 07:09:54 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:53:49 PM
Quote from: Troye on July 06, 2020, 06:37:36 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

yeah it does to them?? you dont know any trans women? cause you would think diff if you did .
No. No I wouldnt.

Also. Sorry im not blinded by bias  :dead:

You are blinded by bias

You don't care about them so anything negative you agree with

:dead:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 06, 2020, 07:11:18 PM
Quote from: Sufi Woman on July 06, 2020, 07:09:54 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:53:49 PM
Quote from: Troye on July 06, 2020, 06:37:36 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

yeah it does to them?? you dont know any trans women? cause you would think diff if you did .
No. No I wouldnt.

Also. Sorry im not blinded by bias  :dead:

You are blinded by bias

You don't care about them so anything negative you agree with

:dead:
kzkzd
Literally.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Edge gorl on July 06, 2020, 07:17:58 PM
sinny jus ended this whole thread plus tha baph'/bent' transphobie stoireline omg
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on July 06, 2020, 07:18:36 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence

your like so transphobic lol  :dead:

My thing is if you are attracted to that person and their female like qualities is what attracted you  then what is wrong with that

i mean whether its a dude or not does it feel like your with a dude?
thats what you base it on lol

if you feel it just a dude with a wig on then the vibe was off for you from the beginning

in the case of the former many men simply realize that its energy and vibe not genitalia
and thats how you can say its a woman

(http://pic100.picturetrail.com/VOL1164/13386359/23854331/412690161.jpg)
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 07:20:06 PM
Quote from: Sufi Woman on July 06, 2020, 07:09:54 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:53:49 PM
Quote from: Troye on July 06, 2020, 06:37:36 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

yeah it does to them?? you dont know any trans women? cause you would think diff if you did .
No. No I wouldnt.

Also. Sorry im not blinded by bias  :dead:

You are blinded by bias

You don't care about them so anything negative you agree with

:dead:
nothing I say is negative and nothing I saw in here was negative.

Facts aren't negative.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: klappa. on July 06, 2020, 07:48:56 PM
I take his point but the analogy of fake jewelry vs. concealing that one is trabs was absolutely ridiculous
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: klappa. on July 06, 2020, 07:59:42 PM
Quote from: Troye on July 06, 2020, 06:37:36 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

yeah it does to them?? you dont know any trans women? cause you would think diff if you did .

i don't agree with this notion.

i know some transwomen or transmen may want to be recognized as woman or man but they are not, and again that is OK. but it is unfair to suggest that one us non supportive or transphobic simply because they do not concede to the demands of certain trans individuals that call for ignoring fact and logic.

its like getting citizenship in another country and then demanding o be called a natural born citizen. you're not, and that's okay. but it doesn't mean that I don't support you or don't like you simply because I'm not calling you something you are not simply because you want me to.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 06, 2020, 08:10:20 PM
Quote from: Lew Scherzinger Norwood on July 06, 2020, 07:18:36 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence

your like so transphobic lol  :dead:

My thing is if you are attracted to that person and their female like qualities is what attracted you  then what is wrong with that

i mean whether its a dude or not does it feel like your with a dude?
thats what you base it on lol

if you feel it just a dude with a wig on then the vibe was off for you from the beginning

in the case of the former many men simply realize that its energy and vibe not genitalia
and thats how you can say its a woman

(http://pic100.picturetrail.com/VOL1164/13386359/23854331/412690161.jpg)
s

You humbling behind Vonc WRONG all the time sends me.

But ... all of that can be skipped and they can just say they are a transwoman :uhh:

Nobody deserves to play the guessing game. Some trans women emulate feminine looks very well. So A guy that's looking for a natural born woman is in danger of being deceived. You can't just write it off and say, "oh well you were attracted to her before!"

Well sure he was, he thought it was a woman :kii:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:10:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:07:39 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:05:16 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence
HJHHJ

I didnt click play. What did it say ?
"ALOT of people are gonna disagree with me but I believe trans women ARE women "
............
(https://memeguy.com/photos/thumbs/mrw-i-hear-that-a-pregnant-friend-doesnt-quit-smoking-because-it-affects-only-the-lung-124725.gif)

:plzstop: :plzstop:


Like I honestly think it's time we had this conversation, it's time to create a separate 3rd gender. They can fall under there. And that's ok.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:11:42 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

!!!!!
I'm Trans should be worn with pride.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 08:13:15 PM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:10:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:07:39 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:05:16 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence
HJHHJ

I didnt click play. What did it say ?
"ALOT of people are gonna disagree with me but I believe trans women ARE women "
............
(https://memeguy.com/photos/thumbs/mrw-i-hear-that-a-pregnant-friend-doesnt-quit-smoking-because-it-affects-only-the-lung-124725.gif)

:plzstop: :plzstop:


Like I honestly think it's time we had this conversation, it's time to create a separate 3rd gender. They can fall under there. And that's ok.

It's already in place tho trans-men and trans-women. They just don't want to fall up under it. Even though logic says..... :dead:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 08:13:38 PM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:11:42 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

!!!!!
I'm Trans should be worn with pride.
It's the embarrassment for me. I don't get it.


Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 06, 2020, 08:16:28 PM
Stand in your transition with complete PRIDE I'll say.

Well it's dangerous for them to say what they are..

:-/ you already flipped the switch.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:17:24 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 08:13:38 PM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:11:42 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

!!!!!
I'm Trans should be worn with pride.
It's the embarrassment for me. I don't get it.
Embarrassment from who? Themselves or society?
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on July 06, 2020, 10:07:51 PM
Quote from: Bentley. THE Moderator. on July 06, 2020, 08:10:20 PM
Quote from: Lew Scherzinger Norwood on July 06, 2020, 07:18:36 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 06, 2020, 06:03:52 PM
He lost me completely with that last sentence

your like so transphobic lol  :dead:

My thing is if you are attracted to that person and their female like qualities is what attracted you  then what is wrong with that

i mean whether its a dude or not does it feel like your with a dude?
thats what you base it on lol

if you feel it just a dude with a wig on then the vibe was off for you from the beginning

in the case of the former many men simply realize that its energy and vibe not genitalia
and thats how you can say its a woman

(http://pic100.picturetrail.com/VOL1164/13386359/23854331/412690161.jpg)
s

You humbling behind Vonc WRONG all the time sends me.

But ... all of that can be skipped and they can just say they are a transwoman :uhh:

Nobody deserves to play the guessing game. Some trans women emulate feminine looks very well. So A guy that's looking for a natural born woman is in danger of being deceived. You can't just write it off and say, "oh well you were attracted to her before!"

Well sure he was, he thought it was a woman :kii:

what did i say that was wrong
its a real thing if you feel like u vibin with a female u are regardless of what is physically there lol

but I am not saying we cannot call them transwomen

but transwomen are women TOOO

much like thick woman is a woman too
a ugly woman is a woman too
a mean woman is a woman too
trans women are women too

I think thats the issue

the ones who say dont call me trans are delusional
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 04:41:28 AM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:17:24 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 08:13:38 PM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:11:42 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

!!!!!
I'm Trans should be worn with pride.
It's the embarrassment for me. I don't get it.
Embarrassment from who? Themselves or society?
umm the whole point is that they believe they were born into the wrong body, calling themselves TRANSwomen highlights that.
TRANSwomen is a reminder, it underlines and capitalises all of the trauma, procedures, stigma they went through and will go through. Not all TRANSwomen want to be clocked and become a poster child for the trans community.
By calling themselves women it firms their beliefs and feelings that they are what they always thought they were, should be and now are.
A woman.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Sinpool on July 07, 2020, 04:50:42 AM
Clock them 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 04:56:11 AM
and I don't know why gays are so offended by trans
Unless a transman gooped them
:guys:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 04:56:23 AM
Quote from: coffelia_buchanan on July 06, 2020, 07:59:42 PM
Quote from: Troye on July 06, 2020, 06:37:36 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

yeah it does to them?? you dont know any trans women? cause you would think diff if you did .

i don't agree with this notion.

i know some transwomen or transmen may want to be recognized as woman or man but they are not, and again that is OK. but it is unfair to suggest that one us non supportive or transphobic simply because they do not concede to the demands of certain trans individuals that call for ignoring fact and logic.

its like getting citizenship in another country and then demanding o be called a natural born citizen. you're not, and that's okay. but it doesn't mean that I don't support you or don't like you simply because I'm not calling you something you are not simply because you want me to.
agreed.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:01:51 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 04:41:28 AM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:17:24 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 08:13:38 PM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:11:42 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

!!!!!
I'm Trans should be worn with pride.
It's the embarrassment for me. I don't get it.
Embarrassment from who? Themselves or society?
umm the whole point is that they believe they were born into the wrong body, calling themselves TRANSwomen highlights that.
TRANSwomen is a reminder, it underlines and capitalises all of the trauma, procedures, stigma they went through and will go through. Not all TRANSwomen want to be clocked and become a poster child for the trans community.
By calling themselves women it firms their beliefs and feelings that they are what they always thought they were, should be and now are.
A woman.
So basically being fair to themselves and to hell with everybody else.  If u don't have a handle on all that shit and can't own your reality than u don't need to do it,  am sorry.  Because at the end of the day,  Ur NOT a fckn woman and that's the reality of the situation. If me holding a mirror up to your face and calling it like it is bursts the bubble that u have encapsulated yourself in,  then oh fckn well.  U may wanna identify as a woman and ALL that stuff that u said but I have the fckn right to know who I'm involving myself with.  U don't get to hide those kinda things because it makes YOU feel better about yourself. 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 05:03:54 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:01:51 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 04:41:28 AM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:17:24 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 08:13:38 PM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:11:42 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

!!!!!
I'm Trans should be worn with pride.
It's the embarrassment for me. I don't get it.
Embarrassment from who? Themselves or society?
umm the whole point is that they believe they were born into the wrong body, calling themselves TRANSwomen highlights that.
TRANSwomen is a reminder, it underlines and capitalises all of the trauma, procedures, stigma they went through and will go through. Not all TRANSwomen want to be clocked and become a poster child for the trans community.
By calling themselves women it firms their beliefs and feelings that they are what they always thought they were, should be and now are.
A woman.
So basically being fair to themselves and to hell with everybody else.  If u don't have a handle on all that shit and can't own your reality than u don't need to do it,  am sorry.  Because at the end of the day,  Ur NOT a fckn woman and that's the reality of the situation. If me holding a mirror up to your face and calling it like it is bursts the bubble that u have encapsulated yourself in,  then oh fckn well.  U may wanna identify as a woman and ALL that stuff that u said but I have the fckn right to know who I'm involving myself with.  U don't get to hide those kinda things because it makes YOU feel better about yourself.
:ohwow:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:04:34 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:01:51 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 04:41:28 AM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:17:24 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 08:13:38 PM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:11:42 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

!!!!!
I'm Trans should be worn with pride.
It's the embarrassment for me. I don't get it.
Embarrassment from who? Themselves or society?
umm the whole point is that they believe they were born into the wrong body, calling themselves TRANSwomen highlights that.
TRANSwomen is a reminder, it underlines and capitalises all of the trauma, procedures, stigma they went through and will go through. Not all TRANSwomen want to be clocked and become a poster child for the trans community.
By calling themselves women it firms their beliefs and feelings that they are what they always thought they were, should be and now are.
A woman.
So basically being fair to themselves and to hell with everybody else.  If u don't have a handle on all that shit and can't own your reality than u don't need to do it,  am sorry.  Because at the end of the day,  Ur NOT a fckn woman and that's the reality of the situation. If me holding a mirror up to your face and calling it like it is bursts the bubble that u have encapsulated yourself in,  then oh fckn well.  U may wanna identify as a woman and ALL that stuff that u said but I have the fckn right to know who I'm involving myself with.  U don't get to hide those kinda things because it makes YOU feel better about yourself.
we ain't gonna agree on this one hun
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:07:10 AM
We aint but it's ok because I'm mature enough to agree to disagree  :ohwow:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:07:53 AM
Jdjdjd jdjdjd
Unlike Baph huh
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:08:32 AM
 :guys:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 05:11:23 AM
I'm not going to agree to disagree shit.
:unbothered: fuck that
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:17:37 AM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?
I'm sorry I love everyone
But this is what I still don't get..

Why is it so hard to simply embrace the word TRANWOMAN

:uhh:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: b7 on July 07, 2020, 05:20:49 AM
MANY straight men seek out trans women and some even pay to be in their presence and to get their rocks off. No one ever talks about that side of  :dead:  The man is the victim!  He didn't know!   

Yeah ok, love. You can tell yourself that because you can't wrap your head around a man finding a Trans Woman to be attractive. Keep sayin it! 

Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:22:28 AM
Yeah I don't get guys getting pissed when folks find out they fuck with trans 

you knew! :uhh:

also trans need to create a work force among their communities to end SEX WORK because they are the most vulnerable to murders and such 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:22:50 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:17:37 AM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?
I'm sorry I love everyone
But this is what I still don't get..

Why is it so hard to simply embrace the word TRANWOMAN

:uhh:
you can't MAKE someone embrace a label they don't personally identify with though :dead:
Is it for your benefit or for theirs
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:23:14 AM
And even after they done seeking em out, they still need to disclose their mess.  That nigga issue is HIS issue.  U just make sure u do what u supposed to do.  On my life,  I never feel bad when I hear sumn happened to a trans stemming from them not disclosing that info.  That's the game u chose to play
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 05:23:23 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:17:37 AM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?
I'm sorry I love everyone
But this is what I still don't get..

Why is it so hard to simply embrace the word TRANWOMAN

:uhh:
its really crazy to me. Idk.

I guess because I'm so open with who I am :wakemeupinsidebby: I just... do ME

Oof
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:24:02 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:22:50 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:17:37 AM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?
I'm sorry I love everyone
But this is what I still don't get..

Why is it so hard to simply embrace the word TRANWOMAN

:uhh:
you can't MAKE someone embrace a label they don't personally identify with though :dead:
Is it for your benefit or for theirs
It's for the sake of accepting your TRUTH..
we've progressed to the place of acknowledgement..
Let's stand in WHAT IS..

They are transwomen  :uhh:
There's not an insult to that
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:24:24 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:22:14 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:07:10 AM
We aint but it's ok because I'm mature enough to agree to disagree  :ohwow:
(https://media3.giphy.com/media/xT9KVLMzuagLc6b36U/200.gif)
Oh, not with u. Breaking u down is entertainment
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:24:33 AM
And for any trans that challenges that notion.. id like to think they live in some damn warped idea of anatomy 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:25:17 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:22:50 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:17:37 AM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?
I'm sorry I love everyone
But this is what I still don't get..

Why is it so hard to simply embrace the word TRANWOMAN

:uhh:
you can't MAKE someone embrace a label they don't personally identify with though :dead:
Is it for your benefit or for theirs
Both. Play with ya life if u want to :omf:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 05:25:57 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:22:50 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:17:37 AM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?
I'm sorry I love everyone
But this is what I still don't get..

Why is it so hard to simply embrace the word TRANWOMAN

:uhh:
you can't MAKE someone embrace a label they don't personally identify with though :dead:
Is it for your benefit or for theirs
well .... if you're on a date with someone. Getting to know things n shit. I don't wanna be lied to when we're talking about ourselves.  :disgusted: Now if a nigga doesn't ask you any questions to get to know you and just wanna fuck? Sure no need. I'll say.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:26:16 AM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 07, 2020, 05:25:57 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:22:50 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:17:37 AM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?
I'm sorry I love everyone
But this is what I still don't get..

Why is it so hard to simply embrace the word TRANWOMAN

:uhh:
you can't MAKE someone embrace a label they don't personally identify with though :dead:
Is it for your benefit or for theirs
well .... if you're on a date with someone. Getting to know things n shit. I don't wanna be lied to when we're talking about ourselves.  :disgusted: Now if a nigga doesn't ask you any questions to get to know you and just wanna fuck? Sure no need. I'll say.
what?
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:27:50 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:26:20 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:24:24 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:22:14 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:07:10 AM
We aint but it's ok because I'm mature enough to agree to disagree  :ohwow:
(https://media3.giphy.com/media/xT9KVLMzuagLc6b36U/200.gif)
Oh, not with u. Breaking u down is entertainment

more like chasing someone around a thread trying to convince them they're wrong
and you're right

Whatever u wanna call it,  it worked.  Here u are days later in a rage.  Kiiiiiiiiiii
:roflmao:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 05:28:00 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:23:14 AM
And even after they done seeking em out, they still need to disclose their mess.  That nigga issue is HIS issue.  U just make sure u do what u supposed to do.  On my life,  I never feel bad when I hear sumn happened to a trans stemming from them not disclosing that info.  That's the game u chose to play
this has me shaking. Jfjfjfjd
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:28:13 AM
But I mean say Nathan does wanna get to know ha.. 
I'd like to believe "I'm a transwoman" should come up in the first .. let's say.. 20 mins.
:uhh:

the girls need to be proud of who they are .. and them standing in their reality will inch the needle towards change and tolerance 

the secret shit only keeps u in harms way
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Sinpool on July 07, 2020, 05:28:50 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:01:51 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 04:41:28 AM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:17:24 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 08:13:38 PM
Quote from: Navyman on July 06, 2020, 08:11:42 PM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 06, 2020, 06:14:42 PM
Is it SO hard for them to call themselves

Trans-women?  :plzstop: women are women. You've .... TRANSitioned to something else. my GOD. like... Does the title of "woman" mean that much to you?

!!!!!
I'm Trans should be worn with pride.
It's the embarrassment for me. I don't get it.
Embarrassment from who? Themselves or society?
umm the whole point is that they believe they were born into the wrong body, calling themselves TRANSwomen highlights that.
TRANSwomen is a reminder, it underlines and capitalises all of the trauma, procedures, stigma they went through and will go through. Not all TRANSwomen want to be clocked and become a poster child for the trans community.
By calling themselves women it firms their beliefs and feelings that they are what they always thought they were, should be and now are.
A woman.
So basically being fair to themselves and to hell with everybody else.  If u don't have a handle on all that shit and can't own your reality than u don't need to do it,  am sorry.  Because at the end of the day,  Ur NOT a fckn woman and that's the reality of the situation. If me holding a mirror up to your face and calling it like it is bursts the bubble that u have encapsulated yourself in,  then oh fckn well.  U may wanna identify as a woman and ALL that stuff that u said but I have the fckn right to know who I'm involving myself with.  U don't get to hide those kinda things because it makes YOU feel better about yourself.

My heart aches.

This was such a painful read

My trans sisters and brothers!

You are...loved
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:29:26 AM
And I get the ... don't tell cuz u might be in harms way..
but ch..
why would u want to meet with someone and them not know ur trans?

thats weird to me 
in the span of y'all connecting.. ur not gonna magically turn into a natural born woman.. or snap a finger and make Daquan comfortable with dating a trans 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:29:35 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by
Jayden we aint calling them women.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:30:58 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by

This is a contradiction
So it's a trans thing in the former but in the latter.. they get to choose what they are called  :uhh:

I damn GUESS
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 05:31:30 AM
I'm sure that old pervert that hooked up with that 18 would've been still alive toDAY (for at least a few more weeks) If they what? Just flat out say they were trans. 
I'd also like to know how their situation escalated. I'm sure ole girl was talking about an exposure and King said nah. 

however.... it would've went under the radar a bit if he didn't.  Now the WHOLE world knows. Retard. 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:31:52 AM
It's the lack of PRIDE for me.. 

ion like dat 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:32:01 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:29:35 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by
Jayden we aint calling them women.
jdjdj and that's fine tbh
I and many others will
I don't have a horse in this race anyway
I think for me it's about empathy and understanding (not saying you guys don't have any) but for personally I don't feel right as black gay man demanding someone to "live their truth" when it's been a struggle to accept mine
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:32:39 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:30:58 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by

This is a contradiction
So it's a trans thing in the former but in the latter.. they get to choose what they are called  :uhh:

I damn GUESS
i used it as a blanket term because that's what we're discussing :dead:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:32:55 AM
And just to be fair,  a trans man AIN'T a fckn man either.  
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:33:02 AM
fucking faggot
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Sinpool on July 07, 2020, 05:33:38 AM
They lack empathy
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:33:39 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:32:39 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:30:58 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by

This is a contradiction
So it's a trans thing in the former but in the latter.. they get to choose what they are called  :uhh:

I damn GUESS
i used it as a blanket term because that's what we're discussing :dead:
n

But technically you're downplaying their experience
A blanket statement in such a large discussion?

Shouldn't ur post have simply said... WOMEN?  :blink:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 05:33:53 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:32:55 AM
And just to be fair,  a trans man AIN'T a fckn man either. 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:34:12 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:33:39 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:32:39 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:30:58 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by

This is a contradiction
So it's a trans thing in the former but in the latter.. they get to choose what they are called  :uhh:

I damn GUESS
i used it as a blanket term because that's what we're discussing :dead:
n

But technically you're downplaying their experience
A blanket statement in such a large discussion?

Shouldn't ur post have simply said... WOMEN?  :blink:
it should've said "sexual identity" tbh
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:34:47 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:34:12 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:33:39 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:32:39 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:30:58 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by

This is a contradiction
So it's a trans thing in the former but in the latter.. they get to choose what they are called  :uhh:

I damn GUESS
i used it as a blanket term because that's what we're discussing :dead:
n

But technically you're downplaying their experience
A blanket statement in such a large discussion?

Shouldn't ur post have simply said... WOMEN?  :blink:
it should've said "sexual identity" tbh
Then who are u referring to as "them"?
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 05:35:47 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:32:01 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:29:35 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by
Jayden we aint calling them women.
jdjdj and that's fine tbh
I and many others will
I don't have a horse in this race anyway
I think for me it's about empathy and understanding (not saying you guys don't have any) but for personally I don't feel right as black gay man demanding someone to "live their truth" when it's been a struggle to accept mine

Life really has been rough for a lot of us.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:36:05 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:34:47 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:34:12 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:33:39 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:32:39 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:30:58 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by

This is a contradiction
So it's a trans thing in the former but in the latter.. they get to choose what they are called  :uhh:

I damn GUESS
i used it as a blanket term because that's what we're discussing :dead:
n

But technically you're downplaying their experience
A blanket statement in such a large discussion?

Shouldn't ur post have simply said... WOMEN?  :blink:
it should've said "sexual identity" tbh
Then who are u referring to as "them"?
your mother faggot
Stop trying to pick a fight with me
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:36:28 AM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 07, 2020, 05:35:47 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:32:01 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:29:35 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by
Jayden we aint calling them women.
jdjdj and that's fine tbh
I and many others will
I don't have a horse in this race anyway
I think for me it's about empathy and understanding (not saying you guys don't have any) but for personally I don't feel right as black gay man demanding someone to "live their truth" when it's been a struggle to accept mine

Life really has been rough for a lot of us.
ok and did I say it hasn't
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 05:36:28 AM
Well. Not me. 

both parents of mine never cared abt me being gay :feelinmyself: so I've never had to hide
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:37:19 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:36:32 AM
if someone tells me they prefer to be called a woman i'll call them that

doesn't mean my personal definition or view on their identity changes

but it's hurting me none to simply entertain their request out of respect. why not


!!!
>><<
Personally don't see the big deal tbqf
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:39:07 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:30:54 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:27:50 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:26:20 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:24:24 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:22:14 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:07:10 AM
We aint but it's ok because I'm mature enough to agree to disagree  :ohwow:
(https://media3.giphy.com/media/xT9KVLMzuagLc6b36U/200.gif)
Oh, not with u. Breaking u down is entertainment

more like chasing someone around a thread trying to convince them they're wrong
and you're right

Whatever u wanna call it,  it worked.  Here u are days later in a rage.  Kiiiiiiiiiii
:roflmao:
no ones in a rage hun

I can't tell.  Approaching me unwarranted about some shit  we discussed days ago that has nothing to do with this thread.  Have u even been in here engaging before crawling up all wounded in my posts? :plzstop:
Boy, carry yo hurt ass on somewhere
Kiiiiiiii
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:39:52 AM
:guys:
bae wtf 
I'm just highlighting the errors of that way of thinking 
tranny was offensive .. but transwomen is a respectable term 
cancel culture and trans twitter has really pissed on the work of transgenders who fought for decades to be respected and embraced as trans women 

this "all women are women" movement is nanoscopic and extraneous 
no shade 
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 05:40:32 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:39:52 AM
:guys:

I'm just highlighting the errors of that way of thinking
tranny was offensive .. but transwomen is a respectable term
cancel culture and trans twitter has really pissed on the work of transgenders who fought for decades to be respected and embraced as trans women

this "all women are women" movement is nanoscopic and extraneous
no shade
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:40:41 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:32:01 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:29:35 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by
Jayden we aint calling them women.
jdjdj and that's fine tbh
I and many others will
I don't have a horse in this race anyway
I think for me it's about empathy and understanding (not saying you guys don't have any) but for personally I don't feel right as black gay man demanding someone to "live their truth" when it's been a struggle to accept mine
Hmmmm, I see this.  I don't agree BUT i see
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:41:30 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:36:32 AM

but it's hurting me none to simply entertain their request out of respect. why not
u don't feel that it diminishes the plight of natural born women?  :unsure:

Like if someone called a tanned up Mexican.. "a black king".. I'm gonna damn side eye it..
NO.

that's just a crispy chalupa
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:44:21 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:40:23 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:39:07 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:30:54 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:27:50 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:26:20 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:24:24 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:22:14 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:07:10 AM
We aint but it's ok because I'm mature enough to agree to disagree  :ohwow:
(https://media3.giphy.com/media/xT9KVLMzuagLc6b36U/200.gif)
Oh, not with u. Breaking u down is entertainment

more like chasing someone around a thread trying to convince them they're wrong
and you're right

Whatever u wanna call it,  it worked.  Here u are days later in a rage.  Kiiiiiiiiiii
:roflmao:
no ones in a rage hun

I can't tell.  Approaching me unwarranted about some shit  we discussed days ago that has nothing to do with this thread.  Have u even been in here engaging before crawling up all wounded in my posts? :plzstop:
Boy, carry yo hurt ass on somewhere
Kiiiiiiii
engaging!

sdsdds vonc
*sigh*
Hi afro
(https://i.pinimg.com/originals/48/d5/43/48d54319e156db0566b600ce29f36fb7.jpg)

Now back to the regularly scheduled programming  :dead:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Sinpool on July 07, 2020, 05:46:09 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:41:30 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:36:32 AM

but it's hurting me none to simply entertain their request out of respect. why not
"a black king"..

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bp3GvjSngLp/?igshid=12fnt37fhs0xs
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:47:09 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:40:41 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:32:01 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 07, 2020, 05:29:35 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:27:28 AM
Nxnxxnxndndn you know what lemme leave this trans thing alone  :dead:
I just don't personally understand why it's hard to call them whatever they want to be called by
Jayden we aint calling them women.
jdjdj and that's fine tbh
I and many others will
I don't have a horse in this race anyway
I think for me it's about empathy and understanding (not saying you guys don't have any) but for personally I don't feel right as black gay man demanding someone to "live their truth" when it's been a struggle to accept mine
Hmmmm, I see this.  I don't agree BUT i see
:letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 05:51:12 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:46:14 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:41:30 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:36:32 AM

but it's hurting me none to simply entertain their request out of respect. why not
u don't feel that it diminishes the plight of natural born women?  :unsure:

Like if someone called a tanned up Mexican.. "a black king".. I'm gonna damn side eye it..
NO.

that's just a crispy chalupa
i mean it's not like im climbing up on a podium with an audience

or going to twitter with a "hear ye hear ye" mess

it's just Shalequa (who was born Dayquan), telling me...in that moment
"fro, i don't like to be referred to as a transwoman".

if that's my homegirl telling me that i'm not gonna turn around 5 minutes later and say
"so about you being a transwoman...how does that feel sis? :woohoo: "

it's just about what's respectful in that moment.
does that change my views? no.

i've met plenty "spanish" people who look like wesley snipes but will correct u for calling them black
simply cuz they speak spanish
do i snicker a bit to myself? yes. but i will call them what they prefer to entertain them
which is usually "jlo" or "ricky martin" etc.
nxjdjsks

I agree actually
Cuz it really ain't gone bring no sweat out me
I guess I just can't understand why being called what your kind essentially fought to be called is .. insulting or short changing..

It just escapes me.
And honestly .. it comes off greedy.

I just feel that being a woman is indeed monolithic ...
Just as I believe transwomen and men are ... I'd never correlate drag queens or cross dressers with them

:trannyjblige:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:55:27 AM
I mean if someone new joined at work and they've transitioned
But has announced that they would like to be known as a WOMAN, I'm not gonna jump up on the table and tell her she's a damn man and she'll be referred to as such because "technically" she is one :dead:
There's a sensitivity there imo
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 05:56:02 AM
Eh
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 05:56:51 AM
Can you actually articulate sumn for once
Instead of quoting
:guys:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 06:00:04 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:56:51 AM
Can you actually articulate sumn for once
Instead of quoting
:guys:
ive done that many times on this topic. I'd literally be repeating some posts verbatim. So... ima just QUOTE what I like. You good? Nigger
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Sinpool on July 07, 2020, 06:00:25 AM
It seems like you guys just have no respect what so ever for Trans though

its weird how y'all will call each other girl/sis sometimes even as an insult but can't extend the same courtesy for someone who identifies as a woman and actually wants to be called that
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 06:01:57 AM
They want us to say it cause we mean it and believe in it. Not calling them that for fun and kii kiis

.... I don't think that's what they want  :disgusted:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 06:03:40 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:57:59 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:51:12 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:46:14 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 05:41:30 AM
Quote from: Blindian in da ATL on July 07, 2020, 05:36:32 AM

but it's hurting me none to simply entertain their request out of respect. why not
u don't feel that it diminishes the plight of natural born women?  :unsure:

Like if someone called a tanned up Mexican.. "a black king".. I'm gonna damn side eye it..
NO.

that's just a crispy chalupa
i mean it's not like im climbing up on a podium with an audience

or going to twitter with a "hear ye hear ye" mess

it's just Shalequa (who was born Dayquan), telling me...in that moment
"fro, i don't like to be referred to as a transwoman".

if that's my homegirl telling me that i'm not gonna turn around 5 minutes later and say
"so about you being a transwoman...how does that feel sis? :woohoo: "

it's just about what's respectful in that moment.
does that change my views? no.

i've met plenty "spanish" people who look like wesley snipes but will correct u for calling them black
simply cuz they speak spanish
do i snicker a bit to myself? yes. but i will call them what they prefer to entertain them
which is usually "jlo" or "ricky martin" etc.
nxjdjsks

I agree actually
Cuz it really ain't gone bring no sweat out me
I guess I just can't understand why being called what your kind essentially fought to be called is .. insulting or short changing..

It just escapes me.
And honestly .. it comes off greedy.

I just feel that being a woman is indeed monolithic ...
Just as I believe transwomen and men are ... I'd never correlate drag queens or cross dressers with them

:trannyjblige:
i totally agree that womanhood for a natural born woman is a whole different experience

and i actually understand why many of them get upset when they see trans women trying to claim their whole mess, i'd be pissed too if had to deal with period cramps on a monthly basis and some man tosses on a wig and lipstick and gets to say they're the same thing as me. the fuck

but i'm big on respecting people's self-identity
if i know them. and have interactions with them

that's a lot of unnecessary negative energy and tension in the atmosphere to overlook their request.
That's real
Hmph.

Ima see with time if I feel they should've be lumped in with women
I'll see
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 06:04:24 AM
Quote from: Sufi Woman on July 07, 2020, 06:00:25 AM
It seems like you guys just have no respect what so ever for Trans though

its weird how y'all will call each other girl/sis sometimes even as an insult but can't extend the same courtesy for someone who identifies as a woman and actually wants to be called that
A woman is a woman
A transwoman is a transwoman

Shut up
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Sinpool on July 07, 2020, 06:05:20 AM
We talk about trans women lot

how do y'all feel about Transmen

:disgusted:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 06:08:13 AM
Quote from: Sufi Woman on July 07, 2020, 06:05:20 AM
We talk about trans women lot

how do y'all feel about Transmen

:disgusted:
Are they WOMEN or transwomen?

:disgusted:

Make up y'all damn mind
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 06:08:28 AM
Quote from: Sufi Woman on July 07, 2020, 06:05:20 AM
We talk about trans women lot

how do y%u2019all feel about Transmen

:disgusted:
i like to see them get fucked/used.

But outside of that? Them and that arm skin penis (the ones that cave n get it) aren't men.
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 06:09:46 AM
Quote from: G on July 07, 2020, 06:08:13 AM
Quote from: Sufi Woman on July 07, 2020, 06:05:20 AM
We talk about trans women lot

how do y'all feel about Transmen

:disgusted:
Are they WOMEN or transwomen?

:disgusted:

Make up y'all damn mind
:dead:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 07, 2020, 06:10:37 AM
 :disgusted: Why even keep putting "trans" in front of women n men
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: GLOCK on July 07, 2020, 06:11:03 AM
!!!

make it make sense girls :disgusted:
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 06:18:50 AM
Quote from: Snow on tha Bluff. on July 07, 2020, 06:00:04 AM
Quote from: Jayda X on July 07, 2020, 05:56:51 AM
Can you actually articulate sumn for once
Instead of quoting
:guys:
ive done that many times on this topic. I'd literally be repeating some posts verbatim. So... ima just QUOTE what I like. You good? Nigger
no
Title: Re: Jidenna picks a side on transphobia
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on July 07, 2020, 06:19:44 AM
Quote from: Sufi Woman on July 07, 2020, 06:00:25 AM
It seems like you guys just have no respect what so ever for Trans though

its weird how y'all will call each other girl/sis sometimes even as an insult but can't extend the same courtesy for someone who identifies as a woman and actually wants to be called that
true