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Title: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: herbie on July 09, 2020, 09:19:15 AM
Your thoughts? whether it be a str8 or gay couple

Can a nigga go out and FUCK a bit and still thoroughly love his womuh?

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Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: Young on July 09, 2020, 09:22:15 AM
Quote from: Niggerhontas ✊🏾🐺 on July 09, 2020, 09:19:15 AM
Your thoughts? whether it be a str8 or gay couple

Can a nigga go out and FUCK a bit and still thoroughly love his womuh?

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I think "thoroughly" love; no .
But he can still (in his mind) be in love with his girl and cheat. A lot of men don't equate sex to love as one in the same.

None the less, he isn't loving his woman efficiently , if he's out here slinging dack behind his Queen's back
Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: CHOKE on July 09, 2020, 09:23:45 AM
Yes


:dead:

Sex and love are not the same

As soon as people realize this their relationships will be so much better
Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: Young on July 09, 2020, 09:26:41 AM
Quote from: Niggerhontas ✊🏾🐺 on July 09, 2020, 09:26:14 AM
Quote from: I ❤️ USA on July 09, 2020, 09:23:45 AM
Yes


:dead:

Sex and love are not the same

As soon as people realize this their relationships will be so much better
would u let ur man go out and FUCK a bit?

long as he comes back home

:plzstop: :plzstop:

Woo
Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: CHOKE on July 09, 2020, 09:29:48 AM
Quote from: Niggerhontas ✊🏾🐺 on July 09, 2020, 09:26:14 AM
Quote from: I ❤️ USA on July 09, 2020, 09:23:45 AM
Yes


:dead:

Sex and love are not the same

As soon as people realize this their relationships will be so much better
would u let ur man go out and FUCK a bit?

long as he comes back home

Yes and I told him day 1 he could as long as he let me know first so we're safe.

I don't equate sex and love, the two aren't even remotely the same it's like a fucking hand shake to me that feels good

Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: RAY7 on July 09, 2020, 09:35:37 AM
ppl are being swingers, having open relationships, cheating etc so yea
cant believe this is a big question in 2020
Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on July 09, 2020, 09:38:09 AM
Quote from: 89 on July 09, 2020, 09:35:37 AM
ppl are being swingers, having open relationships, cheating etc so yea
cant believe this is a big question in 2020
Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: Young on July 09, 2020, 09:55:03 AM
Quote from: 89 on July 09, 2020, 09:35:37 AM
ppl are being swingers, having open relationships, cheating etc so yea
cant believe this is a big question in 2020

!!!

This too

Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: reekz on July 09, 2020, 10:26:47 AM
Yes.

if a nigga says no, he's an emotional cancer lol
Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: L0NZ. on July 09, 2020, 10:33:18 AM
lee me alone, stay out late, or don't even calllll..... long as you come home

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=syICrqXvcy4 (https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=syICrqXvcy4)
Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: BRockaBaby on July 09, 2020, 10:40:54 AM
Key word is thoroughly so with that word in the question, I think NO. But then again i'm the biggest sucker for love and monogamy so I may not be the "best" person to ask.

There's also different levels/types of love. You can love someone as a person but not be IN love with them or love them romantically which in my opinion, is what ties in the sex and commitment. So if you end up having a DESIRE to sleep with other woman, then that romantic level of love you once had with your partner probably no longer exists or definitely doesn't exist on the level it once did. I believe a part of "love" in a romantic sense is committing to someone sexually. It's a piece of the pie so when that piece is no longer solid or full, then the love is no longer in a romantic space.
Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: Kalifornia. on July 09, 2020, 12:22:27 PM
Quote from: 89 on July 09, 2020, 09:35:37 AM
ppl are being swingers, having open relationships, cheating etc so yea
cant believe this is a big question in 2020

Are you faithful to your girl?
Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: BAPHOMET. on July 09, 2020, 12:26:09 PM
 :disgusted: well.... if they're not being honest about it then no.
You dont love them or respect them.

Now if they're TELLING you whats what. Then I can agree.
Title: Re: this question is making its way around the net
Post by: Amazing on July 09, 2020, 12:37:47 PM
Quote from: Niggerhontas ✊🏾🐺 on July 09, 2020, 09:26:14 AM
Quote from: I ❤️ USA on July 09, 2020, 09:23:45 AM
Yes


:dead:

Sex and love are not the same

As soon as people realize this their relationships will be so much better
would u let ur man go out and FUCK a bit?

long as he comes back home

Yes.

I actively encourage it cos I need some variety in my life too.

My ex used to get so mad when I suggested he fuck around. I was fucking around chile.