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Title: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 14, 2020, 08:25:17 AM
i'm jumping back into tea and i've been approached by some pretty "eligible bachelors"...

i've promised myself i will use my brain and THINK before entertaining someone
use the information and visuals presented to assess whether they could be a potential fit and move forward
but that's what it's all about anyway, isn't it?

ssdsdsdsd  :woohoo:

all that "omgah! prince charmings on his way! luv luv luv! omg ur so hot wow thats all i need to know! like mary said, luh is all we need!" mess is cute and all
but i have bigger catfish to fry. and season to perfection! lolz

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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: CHOKE on December 14, 2020, 08:55:15 AM
Quote from: king of hearts on December 14, 2020, 08:25:17 AM
use the information and visuals presented to assess whether they could be a potential fit and move forward

but that's what it's all about anyway, isn't it?


Well when you put it like that

Yeah

It really is like picking a cute fit
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 14, 2020, 09:01:36 AM
Quote from: Choke on December 14, 2020, 08:55:15 AM
Quote from: king of hearts on December 14, 2020, 08:25:17 AM
use the information and visuals presented to assess whether they could be a potential fit and move forward

but that's what it's all about anyway, isn't it?


Well when you put it like that

Yeah

It really is like picking a cute fit
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: JCJ on December 14, 2020, 09:22:32 AM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: L0NZ. on December 14, 2020, 09:30:09 AM
cellent 
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 14, 2020, 09:33:46 AM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Amazing on December 14, 2020, 09:51:17 AM
I don't know if I will ever be able to settle down. I like variety.

Is having several partners acceptable now?  :letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on December 14, 2020, 10:13:18 AM
Emotions are the best part of dating. Need a little drama to spice things up a bit. Show me how much you want me, roleplay even. :supluv:
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 14, 2020, 10:16:44 AM
Quote from: TinaSnow on December 14, 2020, 10:13:18 AM
Emotions are the best part of dating. Need a little drama to spice things up a bit. Show me how much you want me, roleplay even. :supluv:
well yeah I have no issues with THEIR emotions being on 10 lolz

But I wanna think clearly as possible
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Purple Moon on December 14, 2020, 03:22:50 PM
Quote from: king of hearts on December 14, 2020, 10:16:44 AM
Quote from: TinaSnow on December 14, 2020, 10:13:18 AM
Emotions are the best part of dating. Need a little drama to spice things up a bit. Show me how much you want me, roleplay even. :supluv:
well yeah I have no issues with THEIR emotions being on 10 lolz

But I wanna think clearly as possible
looooool
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: JCJ on December 14, 2020, 04:30:05 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on December 14, 2020, 09:30:09 AM
cellent

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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Hotfuzz07 on December 14, 2020, 04:43:35 PM
Quote from: I'm on the Borderline on December 14, 2020, 09:51:17 AM
I don't know if I will ever be able to settle down. I like variety.

Is having several partners acceptable now?  :letsmessfag:


^ I'm in an open relationship for 4 years now, I can't imagine being in an exclusive one.  :ohwow:
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: BranNu on December 14, 2020, 05:24:36 PM
Quote from: I'm on the Borderline on December 14, 2020, 09:51:17 AM
I don't know if I will ever be able to settle down. I like variety.

Is having several partners acceptable now?  :letsmessfag:

You could have an open relationship
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 14, 2020, 05:39:08 PM
Top contender right now is this curry Indian cutie that hit me up.

He's a business analyst . Super sweet and stable.
I love smart guys so that was already a turn on.

White men are completely out of the question for me. Like a strong NO

But there was one who hit me up who is a lawyer.
He wasn't bad looking at all so I put him in the "hmmm" pile.

If I happen to date a white man he'd have to be top tier . No trailer trash , broke scraps. No wiggle room for exceptions. But still i highly doubt it . Am mean it's 2020 .
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: CHOKE on December 14, 2020, 05:42:01 PM
The Bachelorette

Girl hush and fuck all of them shit
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on December 14, 2020, 05:44:59 PM
Quote from: Choke on December 14, 2020, 05:42:01 PM
The Bachelorette

Girl hush and fuck all of them shit
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 14, 2020, 05:51:43 PM
Quote from: Choke on December 14, 2020, 05:42:01 PM
The Bachelorette

Girl hush and fuck all of them shit
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 14, 2020, 05:59:06 PM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Kaeli. on December 14, 2020, 06:26:54 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on December 14, 2020, 10:13:18 AM
Emotions are the best part of dating. Need a little drama to spice things up a bit. Show me how much you want me, roleplay even. :supluv:
girl don't nobody want no dry white pussy
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Barbie Dangerous on December 14, 2020, 06:53:00 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on December 14, 2020, 06:26:54 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on December 14, 2020, 10:13:18 AM
Emotions are the best part of dating. Need a little drama to spice things up a bit. Show me how much you want me, roleplay even. :supluv:
girl don't nobody want no dry white pussy
You bitter, black bitch.
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 17, 2020, 05:42:46 PM
so there's this one guy who is a building engineer

He's Kinda hot. At first glance when he hit me up I thought he was spicy white ... and I'm not really looking to play in the snow so I placed him in the "hmmm maybe" pile - him actually being cute and having a great job was reason enough to consider overlooking the white part .

But after looking more closely I was like wai... I don't think he's spicy white . He may be Latino. Something about him was giving me ethnic . And he's super handsome so I decided to move forward.

We're talking now... he shared that he's in the process of working on a project for a skyscraper . I kinda luv that he has a manly man type job. And he just seems like a real laid back masculine guy. With a beard and all.

When he told me he's originally from Miami I was like DING DING DING! I knew it . 🤣🤣 It's very likely he's a spic as I thought he was  .... miami is full of them fhbdndndnddn

Bring on the salsa papi 💃🏾💃🏾
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: JCJ on December 18, 2020, 01:32:47 AM
Quote from: Kaeli. on December 14, 2020, 06:26:54 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on December 14, 2020, 10:13:18 AM
Emotions are the best part of dating. Need a little drama to spice things up a bit. Show me how much you want me, roleplay even. :supluv:
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: JCJ on December 18, 2020, 01:35:22 AM
I can't breathe
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 19, 2020, 08:34:12 AM
ok so things with the papi building engineer are getting a lil heavy

sfsfsfsfsff

he kinda made his intentions clear - that he's looking for someone to take care of. spend money on, love.

asking me if i've ever been "spoiled" before....
and i had to CHECK myself cuz i was so close to saying some shit like "well yeah, i spoil MYSELF all the time! :plea: "

so quick to make it known how in control i am.

but i kinda had to tap myself on the shoulder and say ..."sis...let's chat for a bit."
like, put the whole "independent womuh! doin it on my own! boss bitch! strong black womuh!" thing away for a second. just a second sis. promise it won't hurt.
this kinda man does NOT care about that. it doesn't matter to him. and that's OK. breathe sis. :calmdownsis:
just because it doesn't matter to him doesn't mean it doesn't matter at ALL

just sit back and allow this man to lay out his intention and the role he'd like to take if things move forward in peace
without rolling your neck with some "DID U HEAR THAT? GOT MY OWN STUFF! RUNNIN DA SHOW! LOOK @ ME!" mess.

being completely honest with myself - i can actually see myself with someone like him.
slightly older, attractive, more coin, low key.

i'm not stocking my fridge with Lean Cuisine dinners and pulling owt the best version of myself just to end up with some regular okie doke ass nigga.
ssfsfsfsfsffsfsfs
like, keep it real.

i'm already able to love on and enjoy the company of my "equals" , when my gorls come over.
like they are tonight for some pizza wings and games. sfsfsfsfsfsf

i'm totally ok with my man not being my equal. as long as he's UP and not DOWN from me.
we'll see. :woohoo:



Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Justaway_ on December 19, 2020, 09:15:46 AM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 19, 2020, 09:17:15 AM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Justaway_ on December 19, 2020, 09:35:46 AM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 19, 2020, 09:37:21 AM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Justaway_ on December 19, 2020, 10:02:34 AM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 19, 2020, 10:05:54 AM
Quote from: Justaway_ on December 19, 2020, 10:02:34 AM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: HUGO on December 19, 2020, 10:53:48 AM
ffffff this entire thread of lies

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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 19, 2020, 10:55:19 AM
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Hey there hug'

Hope life's well for u.
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: HUGO on December 19, 2020, 11:05:49 AM
ffffffff all is well muffin.
Hope the same for yew. I see you're still a dreamer..you dream a lot in your sleep


:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 19, 2020, 11:08:41 AM
Quote from: Glock's HUSBAND on December 19, 2020, 11:05:49 AM
ffffffff all is well muffin.
Hope the same for yew. I see you're still a dreamer..you dream a lot in your sleep


:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
glad to hear everything's well luv.
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Justaway_ on December 19, 2020, 11:47:22 AM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 19, 2020, 11:54:56 AM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: JCJ on December 19, 2020, 12:31:11 PM
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on December 19, 2020, 03:41:36 PM
Quote from: fancy. on December 19, 2020, 08:34:12 AM
ok so things with the papi building engineer are getting a lil heavy

sfsfsfsfsff

he kinda made his intentions clear - that he's looking for someone to take care of. spend money on, love.

asking me if i've ever been "spoiled" before....
and i had to CHECK myself cuz i was so close to saying some shit like "well yeah, i spoil MYSELF all the time! :plea: "

so quick to make it known how in control i am.

but i kinda had to tap myself on the shoulder and say ..."sis...let's chat for a bit."
like, put the whole "independent womuh! doin it on my own! boss bitch! strong black womuh!" thing away for a second. just a second sis. promise it won't hurt.
this kinda man does NOT care about that. it doesn't matter to him. and that's OK. breathe sis. :calmdownsis:
just because it doesn't matter to him doesn't mean it doesn't matter at ALL

just sit back and allow this man to lay out his intention and the role he'd like to take if things move forward in peace
without rolling your neck with some "DID U HEAR THAT? GOT MY OWN STUFF! RUNNIN DA SHOW! LOOK @ ME!" mess.

being completely honest with myself - i can actually see myself with someone like him.
slightly older, attractive, more coin, low key.

i'm not stocking my fridge with Lean Cuisine dinners and pulling owt the best version of myself just to end up with some regular okie doke ass nigga.
ssfsfsfsfsffsfsfs
like, keep it real.

i'm already able to love on and enjoy the company of my "equals" , when my gorls come over.
like they are tonight for some pizza wings and games. sfsfsfsfsfsf

i'm totally ok with my man not being my equal. as long as he's UP and not DOWN from me.
we'll see. :woohoo:

👍🏾
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: Amazing on December 19, 2020, 03:50:14 PM
Bby send him my way when you're done with him.  :young:
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: JCJ on December 19, 2020, 04:24:05 PM
This damn essay  :dead:
Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: CHOKE on December 19, 2020, 04:58:52 PM
Removing those curls from your skull


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Title: Re: Removing emotion from the dating process
Post by: stillpretty on December 19, 2020, 05:05:11 PM
Quote from: Choke on December 19, 2020, 04:58:52 PM
Removing those curls from your skull


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