For not dating transwomen
The growing "super straight" community is now calling everyone who disagree with their movement "superphobic".
https://twitter.com/SaLeMvsUniverse/status/1367795611517546496
Take back your power, kings! :supluv:
#superstupid
i think calling someone transphobic because they prefer a naturally born woman is ridiculous
what if the man has plans to have kids? unfortunately science hasn't brought us to a place where transwomen can do that
there's still a distinction between these two types of women that is significant
even plenty of transwomen admit that they prefer a natural born man and not transmen.
but then there's people who intentionally set out to offend the trans community with being extra. def reasonable to check them
this guy actually seems to be doing a bit much, but sometimes people go HARD once someone labels them some sort of "phobic" for expressing their honest opinions. he may have had just innocently stated that he likes natural born women, was jumped on and is now on this mission to roll his neck and let the trans community have it.
I like it tbh
I always side eye niggas who think a bbc is acceptable as long as it comes with a wig and a pushup bra
Yup we're here. We exist and we matter.
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 12:43:04 PM
i think calling someone transphobic because they prefer a naturally born woman is ridiculous
And I'm a supernigger
I make children with multiple women, commit crimes and then blame the white man for it all
🙅🏾♂️
How many baby mommas you got my nigga
Quote from: L0NZ. on March 06, 2021, 01:11:10 PM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 12:43:04 PM
i think calling someone transphobic because they prefer a naturally born woman is ridiculous
!!!!! I don't understand how someone not wanting to get in bed with you makes them "phobic" :uhh:....... this generation is so sensitive and fucking weird.
Quote from: yummy on March 06, 2021, 01:26:36 PM
And I'm a supernigger
I make children with multiple women, commit crimes and then blame the white man for it all
🙅🏾♂️
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This just sounds like a regular straight blacks man
:guys:
Quote from: Trey on March 06, 2021, 01:46:47 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on March 06, 2021, 01:11:10 PM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 12:43:04 PM
i think calling someone transphobic because they prefer a naturally born woman is ridiculous
!!!!! I don't understand how someone not wanting to get in bed with you makes them "phobic" :uhh:....... this generation is so sensitive and fucking weird.
!!!!!!!!
are gays "heterophobic" ??? like, make it make damn SENSE
Quote from: yummy on March 06, 2021, 01:26:36 PM
And I'm a supernigger
I make children with multiple women, commit crimes and then blame the white man for it all
🙅🏾♂️
thtbvtvvfvffgggnjttb
Shuj' have super aid btw!!
Aint no tramny out hea evn eyeing down straight niggas like tht💀
Men jus want attention
I like my niggas femmy nd fruity like say....drais n oph'
but just like the J boot situation this is an attempt to cause offense and be ignorant out loud :dead:
Like if you aren't attracted to trans...than that's just fine, no one is bashing you for it.
But making it a "HEAR YE HEAR YE" announcement calling yourself SUPERstraight like you're one upping yourself against the regular straights is just stupid
and looking at who's posting that silly hashtag it seems like they don't even attract cis-woman never mind trans anyway
It's just another way to take masculinity to the extreme
everyday the human race lowers the Conga bar of intelligence lower and lower and manages to shimmy under it with ease
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 12:43:04 PM
i think calling someone transphobic because they prefer a naturally born woman is ridiculous
what if the man has plans to have kids? unfortunately science hasn't brought us to a place where transwomen can do that
there's still a distinction between these two types of women that is significant
even plenty of transwomen admit that they prefer a natural born man and not transmen.
but then there's people who intentionally set out to offend the trans community with being extra. def reasonable to check them
this guy actually seems to be doing a bit much, but sometimes people go HARD once someone labels them some sort of "phobic" for expressing their honest opinions. he may have had just innocently stated that he likes natural born women, was jumped on and is now on this mission to roll his neck and let the trans community have it.
Exactly.
Even the gays are getting in formation. We tide too.
https://twitter.com/Julio_Vichon/status/1368118966862876674?s=20
https://twitter.com/SebastianPott10/status/1368157035477499908?s=20
I've seen a lot of gay pornstars saying gay men are getting upset with them cause they film with trans men and rightfully so. You are bi or pan, not gay. Leave us alone.
Quote from: Jayda X on March 06, 2021, 02:47:29 PM
but just like the J boot situation this is an attempt to cause offense and be ignorant out loud :dead:
Like if you aren't attracted to trans...than that's just fine, no one is bashing you for it.
But making it a "HEAR YE HEAR YE" announcement calling yourself SUPERstraight like you're one upping yourself against the regular straights is just stupid
and looking at who's posting that silly hashtag it seems like they don't even attract cis-woman never mind trans anyway
i do think he's doing a lot but he could be one of those people who got jumped on after making a more tame expression
"I prefer natural born women." (which could actually be a reply to a question asked as opposed to an announcement mess)
"You're transphobic af 🗣🗣 !!! You're hateful ! Everyone get him!! He'll change his mind within 24 hours!"
I feel as if sometimes people try to beat someone into submission . Some people will run and hide once that happens ...
But Some people will actually step into the roles of what they're being accused of if it's done enough . Kinda like the partner who gets accused of cheating nonstop . Eventually they gon just be like shit well ur callin me a cheater I'll show u one 🤷🏾
This seems like he's punching back in some way. I could be wrong tho
Quote from: Jayda X on March 06, 2021, 02:47:29 PM
but just like the J boot situation this is an attempt to cause offense and be ignorant out loud :dead:
Like if you aren't attracted to trans...than that's just fine, no one is bashing you for it.
But making it a "HEAR YE HEAR YE" announcement calling yourself SUPERstraight like you're one upping yourself against the regular straights is just stupid
and looking at who's posting that silly hashtag it seems like they don't even attract cis-woman never mind trans anyway
It's just another way to take masculinity to the extreme
But do you think calling someone transphobic, when they're not, is also offensive, loud and ignorant? Are we sure that's not an attack, where someone has the right to become defensive and make up these things, as silly as we may think they are? I can def see someone saying "Im not attractive to trans" to a trans person, and there not being a "then thats just fine" reaction.
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Quote from: L0NZ. on March 06, 2021, 02:56:54 PM
Quote from: Jayda X on March 06, 2021, 02:47:29 PM
but just like the J boot situation this is an attempt to cause offense and be ignorant out loud :dead:
Like if you aren't attracted to trans...than that's just fine, no one is bashing you for it.
But making it a "HEAR YE HEAR YE" announcement calling yourself SUPERstraight like you're one upping yourself against the regular straights is just stupid
and looking at who's posting that silly hashtag it seems like they don't even attract cis-woman never mind trans anyway
It's just another way to take masculinity to the extreme
But do you think calling someone transphobic, when they're not, is also offensive, loud and ignorant? Are we sure that's not an attack, where someone has the right to become defensive and make up these things, as silly as we may think they are? I can def see someone saying "Im not attractive to trans" to a trans person, and there not being a "then thats just fine" reaction.
Tbh hardly see people being called Trans-phobic or labelled as such when they say they're not attracted to trans.
I see it when they're called freaks, confused, trannies or other ignorant slurs
Quote from: Jayda X on March 06, 2021, 03:11:40 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on March 06, 2021, 02:56:54 PM
Quote from: Jayda X on March 06, 2021, 02:47:29 PM
but just like the J boot situation this is an attempt to cause offense and be ignorant out loud :dead:
Like if you aren't attracted to trans...than that's just fine, no one is bashing you for it.
But making it a "HEAR YE HEAR YE" announcement calling yourself SUPERstraight like you're one upping yourself against the regular straights is just stupid
and looking at who's posting that silly hashtag it seems like they don't even attract cis-woman never mind trans anyway
It's just another way to take masculinity to the extreme
But do you think calling someone transphobic, when they're not, is also offensive, loud and ignorant? Are we sure that's not an attack, where someone has the right to become defensive and make up these things, as silly as we may think they are? I can def see someone saying "Im not attractive to trans" to a trans person, and there not being a "then thats just fine" reaction.
Tbh hardly see people being called Trans-phobic or labelled as such when they say they're not attracted to trans.
I see it when they're called freaks, confused, trannies or other ignorant slurs
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I've def seen people called transphobic cuz they dont want to date trans women , even when they hadn't expressed anything derogatory about them.
this is really new to some of y'all?
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Basically: if you're not open to the idea of dating a transwoman, you're transphobic .
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 03:19:54 PM
I've def seen people called transphobic cuz they dont want to date trans women , even when they hadn't expressed anything derogatory about them.
this is really new to some of y'all?
I've never seen it
And when it does happen it'a usually prefixed with something derogatory
I don't think people realize how serious it is to brand someone as being transphobic ... and how offended , defensive and sometimes vengeful people will be if you call them that .
the word is literally thrown around like rice .
so here u have someone now who's playing around on the lines of transphobia . Yes he is clearly being an asshole . But He's basically mocking how quickly people are to label others things
"I'm now super straight ! Anyone who disagrees with me has a phobia issue! If u don't wanna date me ur hateful !😩 " is what I'm getting from this.
Quote from: Jayda X on March 06, 2021, 03:29:05 PM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 03:19:54 PM
I've def seen people called transphobic cuz they dont want to date trans women , even when they hadn't expressed anything derogatory about them.
this is really new to some of y'all?
I've never seen it
i shared an example above of someone flat out calling people transphobic if they're not open to dating trans women
Can u see the screenshot
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 03:31:17 PM
I don't think people realize how serious it is to brand someone as being transphobic ... and how offended , defensive and sometimes vengeful people will be if you call them that .
the word is literally thrown around like rice .
so here u have someone now who's playing around on the lines of transphobia . Yes he is clearly being an asshole . But He's basically mocking how quickly people are to label others things
"I'm now super straight !
!!! Thats what I got from it, especially his tone when he said that
For many hetero people, having their own biological kids with another person is a big thing in the back of their minds when dating . "First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby in the baby carriage." is still a thing for a lot of people lol . People literally plan and dream of these things .
How unfair and unreasonable is it to label someone as hateful because they exclusively seek out people who can fulfill their dreams . People who were genetically engineered to procreate with them from birth .
I can understand lashing the attention seeking losers who jump on twitter with foolery , but cmon .
Trans people at the most are not online shouting at cis-men calling them transphobic because they're not sexual attracted to them, they don't all of a sudden expect ci-men and women to automatically have a sudden sexual attraction to them because they had some surgery :dead:
They're realistic and just want respect at the end of the day
This is just a over handed ignorant finger back to a small issue that largely doesn't even come from the trans community itself. They need to take issue with the SJW's that overly police people, not trans.
who knew masculinity was so fragile
Quote from: L0NZ. on March 06, 2021, 03:34:29 PM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 03:31:17 PM
I don't think people realize how serious it is to brand someone as being transphobic ... and how offended , defensive and sometimes vengeful people will be if you call them that .
the word is literally thrown around like rice .
so here u have someone now who's playing around on the lines of transphobia . Yes he is clearly being an asshole . But He's basically mocking how quickly people are to label others things
"I'm now super straight !
!!! Thats what I got from it, especially his tone when he said that
nfnfnfnfnnn
Quote from: Jayda X on March 06, 2021, 03:40:35 PM
Trans people at the most are not online shouting at cis-men calling them transphobic because they're not sexual attracted to them, they don't all of a sudden expect ci-men and women to automatically have a sudden sexual attraction to them because they had some surgery :dead:
They're realistic and just want respect at the end of the day
This is just a over handed ignorant finger back to a small issue that largely doesn't even come from the trans community itself. They need to take issue with the SJW's that overly police people, not trans.
i don't think this guy is complex enough to really pinpoint who he takes issue with
He's kinda just shooting out With a blindfold on
But that's what happens when ppl feel policed . Especially if it may be unwarranted .They push back , they rebel. They get edgy.
Quote from: You'nt know nann ho! on March 06, 2021, 02:42:22 PM
Aint no tramny out hea evn eyeing down straight niggas like tht💀
Men jus want attention
I like my niggas femmy nd fruity like say....drais n oph'
Gorl you gotta aim higher. :udontlookok:
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Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 03:19:54 PM
I've def seen people called transphobic cuz they dont want to date trans women , even when they hadn't expressed anything derogatory about them.
this is really new to some of y'all?
No. It's just nowhere near common enough for it to be important topic of discussion when we have prevalent transphobia online and in the streets. Poor them.
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 03:31:17 PM
I don't think people realize how serious it is to brand someone as being transphobic
It's really not, unfortunately. :dead:
Afro and Lonz got stomped out in here.
Quote from: JCJ on March 06, 2021, 08:01:19 PM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 03:31:17 PM
I don't think people realize how serious it is to brand someone as being transphobic
It's really not, unfortunately. :dead:
nnnn !!!
Actually it's kind of...acceptable to be a transphobic girl in this day and age.
do any of you agree a hetero man is transphobic if he is not open to the idea of dating a transwoman?
it may not be so much about being branded as transphobic being the worst thing in the world right now
but more about taking a conversation from 1 to 200 in milliseconds.
turning an everyday person who may be relatively tolerant into a villain because they won't get in bed with someone who wasn't born naturally a woman.
"nah im good on dating transwomen but thanks"
"YOURE HATEFUL! PHOBIC! OMG HOW DO U SLEEP AT NIGHT?"
It's the wild accusations that are often completely unreasonable and baseless
no trans gorl gives a shit to be hon'
all tha dick tht get thrown at us hybrid queens....nd we thinkin bout sum random on da damns intanet?
its not realistic
shutup mops head
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Quote from: Nine Fushiguro. on March 06, 2021, 08:11:01 PM
Quote from: JCJ on March 06, 2021, 08:01:19 PM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 03:31:17 PM
I don't think people realize how serious it is to brand someone as being transphobic
It's really not, unfortunately. :dead:
nnnn !!!
Actually it's kind of...acceptable to be a transphobic girl in this day and age.
We've made some strides...but no careers have ended because of it. :dead:
I guess that makes me Supergay
Quote from: JCJ on March 06, 2021, 08:51:30 PM
Quote from: Nine Fushiguro. on March 06, 2021, 08:11:01 PM
Quote from: JCJ on March 06, 2021, 08:01:19 PM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 03:31:17 PM
I don't think people realize how serious it is to brand someone as being transphobic
It's really not, unfortunately. :dead:
nnnn !!!
Actually it's kind of...acceptable to be a transphobic girl in this day and age.
!!!!
Who's truly been cancelled or ended because of some derogatory trans mess?
We've made some strides...but no careers have ended because of it. :dead:
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 08:15:34 PM
do any of you agree a hetero man is transphobic if he is not open to the idea of dating a transwoman?
If you ask a cis, straight male why they have a blanket refusal to date a trans woman and they're honest about it, chances are their reason is rooted in transphobia.
Quote from: Bella. on March 06, 2021, 10:33:26 PM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 08:15:34 PM
do any of you agree a hetero man is transphobic if he is not open to the idea of dating a transwoman?
If you ask a cis, straight male why they have a blanket refusal to date a trans woman and they're honest about it, chances are their reason is rooted in transphobia.
do you agree that a hetero man is transphobic for not considering trans women as romantic interests?
that seems to be the message being pushed by a lot of people
I think it's pretty ambitious to say or imply that all hetero men have deep rooted hatred for trans women
But let's flip it
if you call up a gay person (or trans woman) and ask them "would u have sex with a trans man?"
a lot of responses would be "Chile some of them be lookin good but I need real dick in my bed at the end of the day lol!!"
is this truly a transphobic response or a persons way of expressing their preference, in a way which simply may not be politically correct?
And would you have sex with or build a relationship with a trans man yourself? As in, a man who was born a woman and still has their vagina down below?
If not, you're transphobic by twitter definition. You are hateful , you are intolerant .
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 03:19:54 PM
I've def seen people called transphobic cuz they dont want to date trans women , even when they hadn't expressed anything derogatory about them.
this is really new to some of y'all?
Quote from: JCJ on March 06, 2021, 08:51:30 PM
Quote from: Nine Fushiguro. on March 06, 2021, 08:11:01 PM
Quote from: JCJ on March 06, 2021, 08:01:19 PM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 03:31:17 PM
I don't think people realize how serious it is to brand someone as being transphobic
It's really not, unfortunately. :dead:
nnnn !!!
Actually it's kind of...acceptable to be a transphobic girl in this day and age.
We've made some strides...but no careers have ended because of it. :dead:
People have lost their job because of transphobia, not many but they have.
Maya Forstater in the UK is a relatively well know example; she tweeted something along the lines of "you cant change your biological sex".
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maya_Forstater_v_Centre_for_Global_Development_(2019)
The only other example that I know of is a Seahawks radio host getting suspended after a corny gender self-ID joke
https://www.seattletimes.com/sports/seahawks/seahawks-suspend-radio-host-dori-monson-after-transphobic-tweet/
Wait, did I assume their gender?
:damselindistress:
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 12:35:14 AM
Quote from: Bella. on March 06, 2021, 10:33:26 PM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 08:15:34 PM
do any of you agree a hetero man is transphobic if he is not open to the idea of dating a transwoman?
If you ask a cis, straight male why they have a blanket refusal to date a trans woman and they're honest about it, chances are their reason is rooted in transphobia.
do you agree that a hetero man is transphobic for not considering trans women as romantic interests?
that seems to be the message being pushed by a lot of people
I think it's pretty ambitious to say or imply that all hetero men have deep rooted hatred for trans women
I think you get more mileage in identifying phobic beliefs rather than flat out labeling the person. No one wants to be labeled as racist or homo/transphobic these days, despite a high amount of people having views rooted in racism or homo/transphobia. The conversation shuts down immediately and they're on the defensive.
And I never used the word hatred, they literally have a phobia. Toxic masculinity and societal pressure can be a bitch.
i dont see how adding super means no trans
biostr8 would be more like it
Quote from: Bella. on March 07, 2021, 06:01:34 AM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 12:35:14 AM
Quote from: Bella. on March 06, 2021, 10:33:26 PM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 06, 2021, 08:15:34 PM
do any of you agree a hetero man is transphobic if he is not open to the idea of dating a transwoman?
If you ask a cis, straight male why they have a blanket refusal to date a trans woman and they're honest about it, chances are their reason is rooted in transphobia.
do you agree that a hetero man is transphobic for not considering trans women as romantic interests?
that seems to be the message being pushed by a lot of people
I think it's pretty ambitious to say or imply that all hetero men have deep rooted hatred for trans women
I think you get more mileage in identifying phobic beliefs rather than flat out labeling the person. No one wants to be labeled as racist or homo/transphobic these days, despite a high amount of people having views rooted in racism or homo/transphobia. The conversation shuts down immediately and they're on the defensive.
And I never used the word hatred, they literally have a phobia. Toxic masculinity and societal pressure can be a bitch.
let's just go with the literal definition of phobia, although we know by now that many use the "phobics" to describe what they feel is hatred
But I'll play along. Let's go with the literal definition
So a man saying that he has no interest in having sex with another person who may have a penis is an
extreme and irrational fear of trans people?
Is it not possible for him to be cool and friendly with trans people , but just not be romantically and sexually interested in them?
50 Cent comfortably poses with what is clearly a trans woman for a pic , but if she asks to suck his dick afterwards and he refuses, he is now trans phobic? He now has an irrational and extreme fear of trans people because he didn't agree to sex afterwards?
Help me understand this.
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Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 12:55:59 AM
But let's flip it
if you call up a gay person (or trans woman) and ask them "would u have sex with a trans man?"
a lot of responses would be "Chile some of them be lookin good but I need real dick in my bed at the end of the day lol!!"
is this truly a transphobic response or a persons way of expressing their preference, in a way which simply may not be politically correct?
And would you have sex with or build a relationship with a trans man yourself? As in, a man who was born a woman and still has their vagina down below?
If not, you're transphobic by twitter definition. You are hateful , you are intolerant .
ffff I mean, have your genital preferences but the response is still pretty transphobic with a smidge of gatekeeping on the side. You're refusing to consider dating all x because you believe all x have y, when that might not be the case. It's the blanket statement that's the issue.
Quote from: Bella. on March 07, 2021, 06:52:02 AM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 12:55:59 AM
But let's flip it
if you call up a gay person (or trans woman) and ask them "would u have sex with a trans man?"
a lot of responses would be "Chile some of them be lookin good but I need real dick in my bed at the end of the day lol!!"
is this truly a transphobic response or a persons way of expressing their preference, in a way which simply may not be politically correct?
And would you have sex with or build a relationship with a trans man yourself? As in, a man who was born a woman and still has their vagina down below?
If not, you're transphobic by twitter definition. You are hateful , you are intolerant .
ffff I mean, have your genital preferences but the response is still pretty transphobic with a smidge of gatekeeping on the side. You're refusing to consider dating all x because you believe all x have y, when that might not be the case. It's the blanket statement that's the issue.
if you're saying someone is "literally" transphobic for not wanting to have sex with trans people , I don't think that's correct
Because I can make that statement myself and hug up on a trans man with no problem 5 minutes later . There's no extreme or irrational fear of them.
I'm just not going down to eat his cooch . I don't think saying that is transphobic . It may be insensitive or politically incorrect depending on who you're speaking with. As in, I wouldn't say this directly to a trans male person. Doing so , especially in a playful manner, could be seen as disrespectful. But I'll say it to another cis gay person in private convo
I think that it may be more reasonable to specifically say that some people could have a fear of HAVING SEX with trans people as opposed to saying they're just extremely and irrationally afraid of them altogether. Those are two totally different things. And I thInk that even saying they're fearful of sex isn't completely accurate but it'd be slightly more sensible. And less of a needless, low key assassination on someone's CHARACTER.
If I ever met Toni in person she'd probably have to summon her security cuz I'd be all over her . But if goddess asked me to eat her cooch backstage and I decline it doesn't mean I'm scared of her or scared of women. I fucking love women. I just can't see myself fucking them. Or dating them, or building relationships with them. Ghbhbbbbbb
like...wats so hard about this?
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Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 07:00:35 AM
Quote from: Bella. on March 07, 2021, 06:52:02 AM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 12:55:59 AM
But let's flip it
if you call up a gay person (or trans woman) and ask them "would u have sex with a trans man?"
a lot of responses would be "Chile some of them be lookin good but I need real dick in my bed at the end of the day lol!!"
is this truly a transphobic response or a persons way of expressing their preference, in a way which simply may not be politically correct?
And would you have sex with or build a relationship with a trans man yourself? As in, a man who was born a woman and still has their vagina down below?
If not, you're transphobic by twitter definition. You are hateful , you are intolerant .
ffff I mean, have your genital preferences but the response is still pretty transphobic with a smidge of gatekeeping on the side. You're refusing to consider dating all x because you believe all x have y, when that might not be the case. It's the blanket statement that's the issue.
if you're saying someone is "literally" transphobic for not wanting to have sex with trans people , I don't think that's correct
Because I can make that statement myself and hug up on a trans man with no problem 5 minutes later . There's no extreme or irrational fear of them.
I'm just not going down to eat his cooch . I don't think saying that is transphobic . It may be insensitive or politically incorrect depending on who you're speaking with. As in, I wouldn't say this directly to a trans male person. Doing so , especially in a playful manner, could be seen as disrespectful. But I'll say it to another cis gay person in private convo
That isn't what I'm saying and now we're getting into semantics/whataboutisms. I understand the definition of transphobia has evolved, but in your specific example about cis, straight men not wanting to be with any trans women (even if they have the desired genetalia), the fear can stem from fear of association which is why I said toxic masculinity can be a bitch.
Gender and sexuality are becoming more nuanced, so while I am hesitant to label someone as transphobic for making a blanket statement that could be in rooted in transphobia, I don't think it should be dismissed either without looking into the "why".
Quote from: Bella. on March 07, 2021, 08:09:51 AM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 07:00:35 AM
Quote from: Bella. on March 07, 2021, 06:52:02 AM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 12:55:59 AM
But let's flip it
if you call up a gay person (or trans woman) and ask them "would u have sex with a trans man?"
a lot of responses would be "Chile some of them be lookin good but I need real dick in my bed at the end of the day lol!!"
is this truly a transphobic response or a persons way of expressing their preference, in a way which simply may not be politically correct?
And would you have sex with or build a relationship with a trans man yourself? As in, a man who was born a woman and still has their vagina down below?
If not, you're transphobic by twitter definition. You are hateful , you are intolerant .
ffff I mean, have your genital preferences but the response is still pretty transphobic with a smidge of gatekeeping on the side. You're refusing to consider dating all x because you believe all x have y, when that might not be the case. It's the blanket statement that's the issue.
if you're saying someone is "literally" transphobic for not wanting to have sex with trans people , I don't think that's correct
Because I can make that statement myself and hug up on a trans man with no problem 5 minutes later . There's no extreme or irrational fear of them.
I'm just not going down to eat his cooch . I don't think saying that is transphobic . It may be insensitive or politically incorrect depending on who you're speaking with. As in, I wouldn't say this directly to a trans male person. Doing so , especially in a playful manner, could be seen as disrespectful. But I'll say it to another cis gay person in private convo
That isn't what I'm saying and now we're getting into semantics/whataboutisms. I understand the definition of transphobia has evolved, but in your specific example about cis, straight men not wanting to be with any trans women (even if they have the desired genetalia), the fear can stem from fear of association which is why I said toxic masculinity can be a bitch.
Gender and sexuality are becoming more nuanced, so while I am hesitant to label someone as transphobic for making a blanket statement that could be in rooted in transphobia, I don't think it should be dismissed either without looking into the "why".
well I know we are getting into semantics now but you're the one who introduced "they are LITERALLY transphobic" into our mess.
Nfnfnfnfnf I was simply meeting u where u seemed to be at with this.
And of course some people definitely base their sexual preferences and/or chosen social interactions in what could be a need to disassociate themselves in some way ..... Even if they are actually attracted to it . (see pic above of young buck who was seen distancing himself from the trans woman and was later exposed for fuckin them behind closed doors)
That's not what I am disagreeing with
I'm saying just because a hetero man has zero interest in sleeping with another person who will pull out a penis in bed .. it does not automatically mean he is transphobic . Of COURSE it's case by case but I am specifically addressing those who make these outrageous blanket statements . As in, "If you're a hetero man and u don't wanna fuck a trans woman, you're transphobic. Period! Lolz no need to say anything else . Don't care about ur reasoning :-P "
I am actually addressing people who don't give two shits about the "why". :omf:
Does that make sense ?
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 07:25:31 AM
I think that it may be more reasonable to specifically say that some people could have a fear of HAVING SEX with trans people as opposed to saying they're just extremely and irrationally afraid of them altogether. Those are two totally different things. And I thInk that even saying they're fearful of sex isn't completely accurate but it'd be slightly more sensible. And less of a needless, low key assassination on someone's CHARACTER.
If I ever met Toni in person she'd probably have to summon her security cuz I'd be all over her . But if goddess asked me to eat her cooch backstage and I decline it doesn't mean I'm scared of her or scared of women. I fucking love women. I just can't see myself fucking them. Or dating them, or building relationships with them. Ghbhbbbbbb
like...wats so hard about this?
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well i like women too but i dont want them as friends or in my circle at alll lol
but its better to say i want penis or i want vagina if were speaking sexually
thats only if its really about wanting the bio ness
but even if you present a stud with a vagina lets say for a gay man lol well dunno bout that response
but its not transphobic to say you want natural; born man or woman
were not going to just ignore someone having a dick even if you do acknowledge how they identify :plzstop:
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 08:20:28 AMNfnfnfnfnf I was simply meeting u where u seemed to be at with this
Meet me the fuck outside, how 'bout that?
:trannyjblige:
ffffff and yeah, it sounds like we're having two different conversations here.
Quote from: Bella. on March 07, 2021, 08:55:54 AM
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 08:20:28 AMNfnfnfnfnf I was simply meeting u where u seemed to be at with this
Meet me the fuck outside, how 'bout that?
:trannyjblige:
nothing but space n opportunity :cheerup:
Quote from: Bella. on March 07, 2021, 08:56:16 AM
ffffff and yeah, it sounds like we're having two different conversations here.
like..
there are people out there who literally conclude "you're transphobic" just because a hetero man won't have sex with a trans woman
with no care of whether it's an actual preference, underlying hatred, a need to disassociate himself...
it's like....me no care. u don't want trans sex, you are afraid of them. you are hateful. you have a phobia you need to work on. period.
i'm just saying, can we at least take time to actually think about the "why" before pulling out a gun and going to work on someone's character?
that's why i feel a lot of people go HARD once they're accused of it . you are ultimately taking digs at their CHARACTER when u pull the "phobics" out of your pocket in 2021.
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Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 06:48:26 AM
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I personally don't think it's transphobic if a man prefers someone he can reproduce with. it's natural to want that. Some people have fucked up delivery but I mean I GET it.
not losing sleep over any man who doesn't want me I have enough that do
:trannyjblige:
Quote from: chula. on March 07, 2021, 09:45:46 AM
I personally don't think it's transphobic if a man prefers someone he can reproduce with. it's natural to want that. Some people have fucked up delivery but I mean I GET it.
not losing sleep over any man who doesn't want me I have enough that do
:trannyjblige:
speak awn it
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there are definitely men out there who go completely out of their way to let everyone know teas that no one asked them about.
"HEAR YE HEAR YE....I DONT FUCK WITH TRANNIES PERIOD. JUST WANNA LET YALL KNOW THAT . DONT WANT THEM ANYWHERE NEAR ME ACTUALLY!"
like ok :ummwhat: nice to know i guess
but if a man is being asked "Hi, I'm a transwoman. Wanna fuck?" and he says no thanks, that Is not (automatically) transphobia.
Quote from: chula. on March 07, 2021, 09:45:46 AM
I personally don't think it's transphobic if a man prefers someone he can reproduce with. it's natural to want that. Some people have fucked up delivery but I mean I GET it.
not losing sleep over any man who doesn't want me I have enough that do
:trannyjblige:
Hey luv
Quote from: Bella. on February 10, 2021, 01:17:15 PM
Quote from: chula. on February 10, 2021, 10:28:49 AM
I also got some new info from Tee (regarding Phil)
it's not looking good
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n
Put your Ouija board down and find Max's missing chromosome.
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Any updates?
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Quote from: chula. on March 07, 2021, 09:31:33 AM
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Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 06:48:26 AM
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What was that one girl we used to kii at? Who was big and burly as fuck but dainty and all about her makeup and mess
Quote from: ton on March 07, 2021, 10:37:11 AM
Quote from: chula. on March 07, 2021, 09:31:33 AM
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Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 06:48:26 AM
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What was that one girl we used to kii at? Who was big and burly as fuck but dainty and all about her makeup and mess
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Quote from: Bella. on March 07, 2021, 10:33:41 AM
Quote from: chula. on March 07, 2021, 09:45:46 AM
I personally don't think it's transphobic if a man prefers someone he can reproduce with. it's natural to want that. Some people have fucked up delivery but I mean I GET it.
not losing sleep over any man who doesn't want me I have enough that do
:trannyjblige:
Hey luv
Quote from: Bella. on February 10, 2021, 01:17:15 PM
Quote from: chula. on February 10, 2021, 10:28:49 AM
I also got some new info from Tee (regarding Phil)
it's not looking good
(https://49.media.tumblr.com/a62e1895b3b09adf822a0d576675bbf6/tumblr_nhoq9jASxP1saykaxo1_400.gif)
n
Put your Ouija board down and find Max's missing chromosome.
(https://49.media.tumblr.com/a62e1895b3b09adf822a0d576675bbf6/tumblr_nhoq9jASxP1saykaxo1_400.gif)
Any updates?
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yeah.
lita is still homeless
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Quote from: ton on March 07, 2021, 10:37:11 AM
Quote from: chula. on March 07, 2021, 09:31:33 AM
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Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 06:48:26 AM
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What was that one girl we used to kii at? Who was big and burly as fuck but dainty and all about her makeup and mess
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queen lisa
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I wonder how queen is doing
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Quote from: ton on March 07, 2021, 10:37:11 AM
Quote from: chula. on March 07, 2021, 09:31:33 AM
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Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 06:48:26 AM
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What was that one girl we used to kii at? Who was big and burly as fuck but dainty and all about her makeup and mess
Kaeli
Quote from: Tutikliatlay on March 07, 2021, 06:48:26 AM
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Yuck
Nnn the way young buck is leanT
Quote from: L0NZ. on March 07, 2021, 05:21:38 PM
Nnn the way young buck is leanT
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Quote from: You'nt know nann ho! on March 06, 2021, 02:42:22 PM
Aint no tramny out hea evn eyeing down straight niggas like tht💀
Men jus want attention
I like my niggas femmy nd fruity like say....drais n oph'
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