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Title: it makes such a difference
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on March 08, 2021, 07:45:19 AM
to sit and actually have a conversation with a member of an oppressed group that you may not be very familiar with or have much direct experience with

Putting aside your own personal assumptions , theories. Shutting your mouth and listening. Being prepared to realize how ignorant and foolish some of your questions may be to them. Being prepared to be corrected . Accepting the correction .

Not allowing your pride or ego to get in the way.

Whether that group be black women, natives , black people in general ... if more people did this they would have a COMPLETELY different outlook.

So it's not so much about JUST having the conversation , but making sure your ego is in the back pocket  and ur humility is in the front pocket as u approach the table.

Title: Re: it makes such a difference
Post by: CHOKE on March 08, 2021, 07:55:24 AM
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Title: Re: it makes such a difference
Post by: pCj on March 08, 2021, 07:56:28 AM
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Title: Re: it makes such a difference
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on March 08, 2021, 08:00:10 AM
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Title: Re: it makes such a difference
Post by: DopeSoul. on March 08, 2021, 08:12:56 AM
Quote from: Child of the Sun on March 08, 2021, 07:45:19 AM
to sit and actually have a conversation with a member of an oppressed group that you may not be very familiar with or have much direct experience with

Putting aside your own personal assumptions , theories. Shutting your mouth and listening. Being prepared to realize how ignorant and foolish some of your questions may be to them. Being prepared to be corrected . Accepting the correction .

Not allowing your pride or ego to get in the way.

Whether that group be black women, natives , black people in general ... if more people did this they would have a COMPLETELY different outlook.

So it's not so much about JUST having the conversation , but making sure your ego is in the back pocket  and ur humility is in the front pocket as u approach the table.
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Title: Re: it makes such a difference
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Title: Re: it makes such a difference
Post by: DopeSoul. on March 08, 2021, 08:13:59 AM
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Title: Re: it makes such a difference
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on March 08, 2021, 08:16:06 AM
And one thing I must add is approaching the table realizing that you don't have a right or a "pass" to do what u want just because you have blood ties to the group

you are not truly family if you're not taking time to learn more so U can do better . U don't care .

all skinfolk ain't kinfolk .
Title: Re: it makes such a difference
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on March 08, 2021, 08:17:48 AM
Quote from: DopeSoul. on March 08, 2021, 08:13:59 AM
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Title: Re: it makes such a difference
Post by: DopeSoul. on March 08, 2021, 08:19:28 AM
Quote from: Child of the Sun on March 08, 2021, 08:17:48 AM
Quote from: DopeSoul. on March 08, 2021, 08:13:59 AM
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Title: Re: it makes such a difference
Post by: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on March 08, 2021, 04:34:37 PM
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Title: Re: it makes such a difference
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on March 08, 2021, 05:04:08 PM
Quote from: DopeSoul. on March 08, 2021, 08:13:59 AM
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Title: Re: it makes such a difference
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on March 08, 2021, 05:04:47 PM
Quote from: 𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉 on March 08, 2021, 04:34:37 PM
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