Actually... I kinda get where she's coming from, it's just coming off extremely aggressive and insensitive. I think it's more of a like "well damn.... I mean, I would've brought my baby too then." She kinda feels like Ashley is getting special treatment.
BUT... I feel like she should've been more understanding as a THIRD time mother and this being Ashley's first baby.
As a third time mother, you're looking for ANY opportunity for a break.
It's different. And she should know that.