As much as this is shaking the table to say .
Thank god for whites because without us fighting thru slavery Im not sure we would be as accomplished as we are had we not had to fight thru it (reading that gives me SAW vibes)
and also them leading us back to our own humanity by fighting for gay and trans rights and issues we swept it under the rug in shame and cursed our family and told our men dont be a sissy meanwhile whites waving that flag
eventho white ppul had selfish motives for fighting for gay and trans (because whites were feeling oppression and discrimination that we normalized)
everyday I see blacks embracing more of their humanity and it honestly took white ppul leading the charge before we got on board
and some ppul still cant navigate in their communities and family and often turn to a white partner for the support and freedom they need
they definetly lead the charge accepting their own complexities and embracing them alot better thats something we had to learn from them