Really? Honestly.... I feel like it was pretty genuine from both sides. Kandi just has to move at her own pace... which was exhausting to watch play out on tv, but actually makes sense in real life.
I think the real issue is that they're just only compatible with having a friendship at surface level. Kandi is a VERY honest and impartial person... if she feels that you're wrong, she's gonna say it. Whereas Porsha has a very childlike view of loyalty and friendship, where if you call her out on her shit and don't stand by her at all times, you're against her.
They're just not compatible on a deeper level because they define friendship so differently.