we live in a society where getting engaged/married is something to announce , an accomplishment of sorts
so to see someone do just that is not surprising to me.
we will question certain things, but in the next breath we will tell someone else "thats why u dont got a man, no one wants ur ass." this is just how society operates.
we can't pretend it doesn't operate this way when it's convenient, then actively participate in things that contribute to the very things we question. many of us participate in one way or another.
i stress "us" and "we" cuz i'm not excluded.
that being said, only thing i had to say to kipp about his news is congratulations a couple weeks ago.
if he is happy, that's a blessing for him. regardless of the source of happiness.
now...back to GHan .
pretty self