Toxic & abusive friendships

Started by LOONA., March 05, 2016, 08:08:10 PM

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throwintheTAL

Quote from: BENTLEY! on March 06, 2016, 10:42:34 AM
cause I've kinda been where he is before

where I've become friends with someone that I had a connection with, but they claimed they weren't ready
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RekeRig

Quote from: L0NZ. on March 06, 2016, 12:16:07 AM
Quote from: Drais. on March 06, 2016, 12:12:31 AM
So I just end the friendship?

Le sigh   



:uhm:

I mean how close are ya'll? If you're talking every day and ki'ing over Starbucks and nordstrom bags then stop that shit. Just distance yourself. You don't have to terminate the friendship completely but let it fizzle to where its comfortable for you. Hopefully during the process he'll actually, genuinely lose feelings for you.
!!!

:loose2when:

Yes, lonz

BAPHOMET.



RekeRig

Quote from: Herbie on March 06, 2016, 12:35:01 AM
Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 08:08:10 PM
When is it time to call it quits?

:stressed:   

it'll be clear when it's time to punch.

u know the feelings and situation way better than the bsource gorls will.
go on ur intuition hun. if u even have to ask then its probably time to pack your jansport, wigger.

friendship isn't something u should be worried about. it's one of those things that should actually make life easier and more enjoyable.


biiiiiiiiitch

:loose2when:

RekeRig

Quote from: BENTLEY! on March 06, 2016, 10:31:48 AM
Quote from: RIG on March 06, 2016, 04:43:29 AM
Quote from: Ntwadumela on March 05, 2016, 08:21:14 PM
Maya Angelou once said that when a person shows you who they truly are , believe them .
that sounds pretty, but discernment is the key to me. sometimes people simply fuck up depending on the mental space they are in at that time, or their surroundings/toxic environment ...  whatever, it can be anything

of course it all depends on the situation, but at this point in my life, if im choosing to call you a FRIEND, you better believe its not just because we have shit in common or some other basic BS. It's likely because we have a real connection and i saw something in you & vice versa. So ...  i may give you the benefit of the doubt unless a clear pattern is forming.
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I've always felt that quote was too simple. I'm sure she meant much more context to it.
right

:plzstop:

Love her though

RekeRig

Quote from: L0NZ. on March 06, 2016, 10:37:47 AM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on March 06, 2016, 10:31:48 AM
Quote from: RIG on March 06, 2016, 04:43:29 AM
Quote from: Ntwadumela on March 05, 2016, 08:21:14 PM
Maya Angelou once said that when a person shows you who they truly are , believe them .
that sounds pretty, but discernment is the key to me. sometimes people simply fuck up depending on the mental space they are in at that time, or their surroundings/toxic environment ...  whatever, it can be anything

of course it all depends on the situation, but at this point in my life, if im choosing to call you a FRIEND, you better believe its not just because we have shit in common or some other basic BS. It's likely because we have a real connection and i saw something in you & vice versa. So ...  i may give you the benefit of the doubt unless a clear pattern is forming.
!!!!

I've always felt that quote was too simple. I'm sure she meant much more context to it.

Right. Its not always them showing you something negative that you should believe. If they can show you they are remorseful, believe them the same. If they can show you they are trustworthy, believe them.
ack!!

I miss you

RekeRig

Quote from: BENTLEY! on March 06, 2016, 10:42:34 AM
cause I've kinda been where he is before

where I've become friends with someone that I had a connection with, but they claimed they weren't ready

but calling me and texting me all the time like a relationship

then when I moved on, they wanted to meet up and give a "oh am ready to be in a relationship, was just so scared before" speech

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