White men have more freedom to be out and open, they don't have stigmas attached like black men. Most black men are more discreet with their homosexuality. White men come out and next thing you know they are with a group of gays on fire island lmao.
Alot of black men will be fucking men exclusively, but post a meme with a man and woman talking about #goals. It's a sight to watch. lmao
I think the black gay community, we need to come out more and be more visible and unapologetic about our sexual orientation. Not just feminine gays, who take the heat and abuse because most of us can hide behind the appearance of looking masculine. It's not even a "I just dont like people in my business" it's a don't want to be perceived as gay because gay=feminine thing.
This is my opinion.