My thoughts on straight men...

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BigDawg

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He cute?
I thought he was when I first saw him.
Nice build, tall, very dark nice skin, big arms definitely my type.
and I remember when I dropped something outside the office, he ran to pick it up for me. I thought he was really sweet and I could tell he liked me.

but he's so immature. once I got to know him it really turned me off.
like, you're older than me. an we're in the office. grow up a bit. and learn to differentiate the time and place for what you're trying to give.

Maybe it is a coping mechanism to deal with the emotions of potentially being something other than straight. Maybe he just likes you and doesnt know how to express it.
I have a feeling he's never really talked to a man before. He's just so reckless and sloppy with it. No sort of finesse with his approach. I dunno, I'm kinda done trying to figure him out.  :dead:

I talked to my best friend about it and she just ended up blaming me. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: she said it's the way I dress freely, I have longer hair, carry myself in a certain way.....and that I may be confusing him. which is pretty much in line with what you're saying.....he just doesn't know what to do.

I don't think he realizes how blunt he is with it though....my coworkers are noticing how he always picks on me in a flirtatious manner. :plzstop: they be giggling but be side eyeing him. :udontlookok: cuz he'll play with me and then turn around and talk about his ex girlfriends and mess.

He wants to mess love...he just dont know how to say it


snidhhshshsdhsdhsdhsdhhshh

I think a part of me likes him too. But I don't wanna admit it cuz he's so damn silly and reckless. I think if I didn't like him and was really uncomfortable I would have gone to HR by now. He always makes fun of how I simply roll my eyes whenever he talks mess to me. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
i try to give him unbothered "leave me alone" mess.


But i think he sees thru it. cuz he keeps on pressing it. :plzstop: :plzstop:

:stressed: I just wish he was more smooth. that's all.
but part of me wants to give him a chance. i need to start talking to more guys, not just one at a time.
Aww...

Just keep an open mind. He may just show a side of him that is more endearing.

Herb.

September 27, 2015, 09:42:09 PM #31 Last Edit: September 27, 2015, 09:42:27 PM by Herb.
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Quote from: BigDawg on September 27, 2015, 07:33:09 PM
He cute?
I thought he was when I first saw him.
Nice build, tall, very dark nice skin, big arms definitely my type.
and I remember when I dropped something outside the office, he ran to pick it up for me. I thought he was really sweet and I could tell he liked me.

but he's so immature. once I got to know him it really turned me off.
like, you're older than me. an we're in the office. grow up a bit. and learn to differentiate the time and place for what you're trying to give.

Maybe it is a coping mechanism to deal with the emotions of potentially being something other than straight. Maybe he just likes you and doesnt know how to express it.
I have a feeling he's never really talked to a man before. He's just so reckless and sloppy with it. No sort of finesse with his approach. I dunno, I'm kinda done trying to figure him out.  :dead:

I talked to my best friend about it and she just ended up blaming me. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: she said it's the way I dress freely, I have longer hair, carry myself in a certain way.....and that I may be confusing him. which is pretty much in line with what you're saying.....he just doesn't know what to do.

I don't think he realizes how blunt he is with it though....my coworkers are noticing how he always picks on me in a flirtatious manner. :plzstop: they be giggling but be side eyeing him. :udontlookok: cuz he'll play with me and then turn around and talk about his ex girlfriends and mess.

He wants to mess love...he just dont know how to say it


snidhhshshsdhsdhsdhsdhhshh

I think a part of me likes him too. But I don't wanna admit it cuz he's so damn silly and reckless. I think if I didn't like him and was really uncomfortable I would have gone to HR by now. He always makes fun of how I simply roll my eyes whenever he talks mess to me. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
i try to give him unbothered "leave me alone" mess.


But i think he sees thru it. cuz he keeps on pressing it. :plzstop: :plzstop:

:stressed: I just wish he was more smooth. that's all.
but part of me wants to give him a chance. i need to start talking to more guys, not just one at a time.
Aww...

Just keep an open mind. He may just show a side of him that is more endearing.
:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:
luh u :stressed:

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Herb.

September 27, 2015, 09:50:47 PM #33 Last Edit: September 27, 2015, 09:51:06 PM by Herb.
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BigDawg

Quote from: BigDawg on September 27, 2015, 09:31:54 PM
Quote from: Herb. on September 27, 2015, 09:07:16 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on September 27, 2015, 08:55:20 PM
Quote from: Herb. on September 27, 2015, 08:12:21 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on September 27, 2015, 07:49:40 PM
Quote from: Herb. on September 27, 2015, 07:36:14 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on September 27, 2015, 07:33:09 PM
He cute?
I thought he was when I first saw him.
Nice build, tall, very dark nice skin, big arms definitely my type.
and I remember when I dropped something outside the office, he ran to pick it up for me. I thought he was really sweet and I could tell he liked me.

but he's so immature. once I got to know him it really turned me off.
like, you're older than me. an we're in the office. grow up a bit. and learn to differentiate the time and place for what you're trying to give.

Maybe it is a coping mechanism to deal with the emotions of potentially being something other than straight. Maybe he just likes you and doesnt know how to express it.
I have a feeling he's never really talked to a man before. He's just so reckless and sloppy with it. No sort of finesse with his approach. I dunno, I'm kinda done trying to figure him out.  :dead:

I talked to my best friend about it and she just ended up blaming me. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: she said it's the way I dress freely, I have longer hair, carry myself in a certain way.....and that I may be confusing him. which is pretty much in line with what you're saying.....he just doesn't know what to do.

I don't think he realizes how blunt he is with it though....my coworkers are noticing how he always picks on me in a flirtatious manner. :plzstop: they be giggling but be side eyeing him. :udontlookok: cuz he'll play with me and then turn around and talk about his ex girlfriends and mess.

He wants to mess love...he just dont know how to say it


snidhhshshsdhsdhsdhsdhhshh

I think a part of me likes him too. But I don't wanna admit it cuz he's so damn silly and reckless. I think if I didn't like him and was really uncomfortable I would have gone to HR by now. He always makes fun of how I simply roll my eyes whenever he talks mess to me. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
i try to give him unbothered "leave me alone" mess.


But i think he sees thru it. cuz he keeps on pressing it. :plzstop: :plzstop:

:stressed: I just wish he was more smooth. that's all.
but part of me wants to give him a chance. i need to start talking to more guys, not just one at a time.
Aww...

Just keep an open mind. He may just show a side of him that is more endearing.

Luh yew tew

:stressed:

Stewie

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thanks guys. its amazing how ppl find simple things so interesting ssss