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[LOONA.]

Yh most apologies are probably bullshit.

Honestly if you're someone that has to apologizes for shit all the time you need to start looking in the mirror and figuring out wtf is wrong with you.     

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I apologize when I'm wrong or even when I feel like I might have hurt someone's feelings when it wasn't my intent.

If I said what I said then it is what the fuck it is.

Moving on to me means I will live on like you don't exist. I don't do the back and forth.

[b7]

My family apologizes

I don't though often, because I'm never wrong

I rarely apologize because I'm usually not in the wrong.

I keep to myself. People love to start mess and when I pop off they give a "how dare!" mess but oh fckn well. Stop trying me.     

shut up babe

[b7]

Yeah I agree completely. Luckily me and my mom have gotten to a place where she can admit being wrong or apologize for things, still takes some convincing though.


I think a few folks hit the nail on the head for me. People see apologies or admitting fault as being weak. Same as they do emotions. It's about power also. If someone can admit that they're wrong, they simultaneously admit that the other person was right (giving them the upper hand).

I really wish people didn't think like this, but I think that hinders folks from owning their shit too.

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Sometimes it's just best to move forward, anyway.

I just got over some mess with my coworker, I think I vented here a bit about it. She stepped out of line and forgot that we were colleagues, not boss/employee. She got put back in her place, and I could tell she was angry about it for weeks but I honestly didn't care. BUT, it was affecting our WORK relationship. That's what concerned me.

We recently started being nice/cordial again, and for the sake of better TEAMWORK I am glad that we did. Part of me was like, maybe I should apologize for the misunderstanding we had, etc. But then I was like , for what? She stepped out of line, got out of pocket, and had to be checked. What is there to apologize about? We good.

And everything's still fine.
With or without some Oprah moment

chile thats how it is kinda with my immediate supervisor
work related she gets checked on her laziness and bs
she doesn't like me but

outside of work related stuff we are really cool

but we dont hang out or anything after work its just we clash alot on work related topics

but i have 2 other more knowledgeable and  caring supervisors i can bring stuff too so my immediate supervisor is kind of a non factor

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

My family apologizes

I don't though often, because I'm never wrong

I rarely apologize because I'm usually not in the wrong.

I keep to myself. People love to start mess and when I pop off they give a "how dare!" mess but oh fckn well. Stop trying me.     

shut up babe

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[LOONA.]

Lew go away   

[GRAND]

My family apologizes

I don't though often, because I'm never wrong

I rarely apologize because I'm usually not in the wrong.

I keep to myself. People love to start mess and when I pop off they give a "how dare!" mess but oh fckn well. Stop trying me.     

shut up babe

!!

Fck this fag

[Kurama]

Yh most apologies are probably bullshit.

Guess Ill keep mine then, dyke