How do you guys cope with homophobic parents/siblings/fam in general?

Started by navyn, October 15, 2015, 06:29:29 PM

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COD.


AIDS!

Just when I was beginning to warm up to you
You remind me why I don't like you
Just closed minded, ignorant and unaware :dead:

Not everyone has a accepting and understanding family but to label someone stupid and selfish because they want to share their sexuality with their family is just damn ignorant.


AIDS!


COD.

Quote from: RED on October 16, 2015, 05:09:48 AM
Just when I was beginning to warm up to you
You remind me why I don't like you
Just closed minded, ignorant and unaware :dead:

Not everyone has a accepting and understanding family but to label someone stupid and selfish because they want to share their sexuality with their family is just damn ignorant.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wasn't Malc on the dl for years?  :overit:
like.....the last person who should be telling anyone how to handle anything.

AIDS!

Quote from: .CodyJade. on October 16, 2015, 05:11:09 AM
Quote from: RED on October 16, 2015, 05:09:48 AM
Just when I was beginning to warm up to you
You remind me why I don't like you
Just closed minded, ignorant and unaware :dead:

Not everyone has a accepting and understanding family but to label someone stupid and selfish because they want to share their sexuality with their family is just damn ignorant.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wasn't Malc on the dl for years?  :overit:
like.....the last person who should be telling anyone how to handle anything.
!!! :uhh:
One would think it's more selfish of the family to want to to keep your sexuality hidden just for their comfort ideology
'Eat ass! Ew!! No! Can't fathom!'

I hope his brother clocks his Grindr account and outs him to his family and and gets  sent back to Nigeria

COD.

Like....gay people face ENOUGH scrutiny. The basic thing that most gay/lesbian people want is to know that their family loves and accepts them regardless.

AIDS!

Quote from: .CodyJade. on October 16, 2015, 05:14:11 AM
Like....gay people face ENOUGH scrutiny. The basic thing that most gay/lesbian people want is to know that their family loves and accepts them regardless.
jjjjj
and if they're 'stupid' and 'selfish' for wanting to feel loved and accepted by their family...
Then fuck everyone else


COD.

Quote from: RED on October 16, 2015, 05:13:28 AM
Quote from: .CodyJade. on October 16, 2015, 05:11:09 AM
Quote from: RED on October 16, 2015, 05:09:48 AM
Just when I was beginning to warm up to you
You remind me why I don't like you
Just closed minded, ignorant and unaware :dead:

Not everyone has a accepting and understanding family but to label someone stupid and selfish because they want to share their sexuality with their family is just damn ignorant.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wasn't Malc on the dl for years?  :overit:
like.....the last person who should be telling anyone how to handle anything.
!!! :uhh:
One would think it's more selfish of the family to want to to keep your sexuality hidden just for their comfort ideology
'Eat ass! Ew!! No! Can't fathom!'

I hope his brother clocks his Grindr account and outs him to his family and and gets  sent back to Nigeria

:plzstop:

and I like Malc' it's just that I can't believe some of the stuff he types sometimes  :plzstop: it's mind blowing.


AIDS!


Miranda

It is stupid because you know the reaction, and it is selfish because you want your parents to deal with something, you needed years to deal with yourself. I am not saying this jugdementally or in a combative fashion, moreso as advice. It breaks my heart to hear about a grown man being victim of scrutiny within their family. Why give them that leverage, why make it dependent on their reaction whether you are ok with your sexual preference. Unless you marry I really do not think there is a need to announce you like to suck penis, especially if you can't pay your own rent. The same with girls wanting to bring guys over or talk dating drama, sis if you got your own house you can also have man problems.


AIDS!


COD.

Quote from: Miranda on October 16, 2015, 05:18:25 AM
It is stupid because you know the reaction, and it is selfish because you want your parents to deal with something, you needed years to deal with yourself.

But you're assuming that all parents would have a problem with it. That's not the case. And 9 times out of 10, they already KNOW anyways  :plzstop: it's not some big reveal! surprise! i'm a fag!
:cheerup:

But yea, like Jayden said I'm out.

Let me go finish this book
:overit: