Do you just settle to avoid being alone?

Started by BAPHOMET., July 19, 2016, 05:11:06 PM

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Quote from: Jonovan on July 19, 2016, 06:01:27 PM
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Quote from: Jonovan on July 19, 2016, 05:16:37 PM
i feel like everyone has to do that at some point.
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Nah. We all have to realize that there will be things about someone that we don't always like, but "settling" suggests something else entirely, and I'm never doing it lol
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Even if you're in your late 40's, early 50's and still haven't found what you are looking for?

Shit, at that point...if you are sane, have a 401K & a clean bill of health...I'll take it. I don't have to be in love or even find you cute.  :kii:

I'm okay with being alone now (in fact I prefer it @ this age) but when I enter that age bracket I can't imagine still being alone.


!!! Your priorities change as you get older. It could even be a open relationship as long as they come home to me.  :'(


BAPHOMET.



BigDawg


LOONA.

Quote from: Kurama on July 19, 2016, 05:23:27 PM
Im fully okay with being alone. I enjoy it most times.


I don't think I settle, I am flexible though. Allowing for people to have room for growth rather than demanding they be all I want in a boyfriend immediately.

BigDawg

Personally being alone doesnt scare me as much as devoting time and energy to someone that is not worthy and is only around to take what I allow them to have. My biggest problem has always been giving more of myself than the other person deserved. Then I got hurt. Then I got angry and withdrew. Then I found out that wasnt beneficial to anyone....most importantly me. With all that said, I no longer put stock into being with the one for the moment to fill a void. I would much rather allow that good energy find me and devote my time to taking care of me and becoming a better person.

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Quote from: Kurama on July 19, 2016, 05:23:27 PM
Im fully okay with being alone. I enjoy it most times.


I don't think I settle, I am flexible though. Allowing for people to have room for growth rather than demanding they be all I want in a boyfriend immediately.
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I don't even look tbh. I just prefer things to happen and fall into place on its own. I just don't see myself settling for something I don't want... Especially since I enjoy my personal space n privacy so much. I more so look for a best friend, not "the perfect partner".... Like until then, I'm good... Im willing to wait. :dead:


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no sir ree booooooooobbb

I cannot deal with a situation that makes me unhappy

i will buy body pillows

and i have 2



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Quote from: TheNextLew on July 19, 2016, 10:58:27 PM
no sir ree booooooooobbb

I cannot deal with a situation that makes me unhappy

i will buy body pillows

and i have 2
:wub:

whatever

Right now no I don't settle.

But once I get upper age like 40-50's it will be more about companionship instead of the perfect one.

I don't want to be that gay single black uncle lmao nahhhh

I do want a fam of my own one day.

Gilgamesh.

July 20, 2016, 07:25:11 AM #54 Last Edit: July 20, 2016, 02:48:04 PM by Gilgamesh.
Not settling. In the past three years i've compromised a lot for someone, and the very things I chose to overlook initially end up being major issues later on. I always say, two people that won't lie to you; God and yourself. If your instinct is telling you something's not right, you're betting off leaving it alone or letting them know what you expect before either one of you are too invested.

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Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 20, 2016, 07:25:11 AM
Not settling. In the past three years i've comporimsied a lot for someone, and the very things I chose to overlook initially end up being major issues later down the road. I always say, two people thatwon't lie to you; God and yourself. If your instict is telling you something not right, you're betting off leaving it alone or letting them know what you expect before either one fo you are too invested.
!!!!

It just becomes a MESS for both involved

Real