How do you deal with racial microaggression?

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Quote from: Baph. on August 17, 2018, 08:18:42 PM
I had an incident happen yearssss back when I worked at the Armani Exchange down here. If everyone can refrain from making this into a joke.

I didn?t know how to take it at the time when the manager was complimenting me on my work and was shading the black guy that was my co-worker at the same time.

The other guy had gotten on a little before i did and I guess he hadn?t been doing s up to standard. Idk. From what I saw the guy did a damn good job. But the manager was talking to me, just shooting the breeze. Asking me personal questions about what do I do outside of the job was like was I in college (was at the time) and my nationality/ethnicity or whatever  :uhh: and then he brought up about the other guy and was shading him down, and said he was wondering what he was  :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: because he had googled his last name n shit. Like what the FUCK. I called my mom about it and she told me to report to Corporate. I was hesitant at first.... because I didn?t want the shit to not get him fired and then he retaliate on some bitch shit.  :hmph:

But I did it anyway and he did indeed get fired  :tistheseas:
sddddddddddddddd

does the black guy not look black? and do you not look black?

either way what a dummy  :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:

i dont say ANYTHING even potentially offensive at work

dont trust NOBODY

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: ton on August 17, 2018, 08:23:38 PM
Quote from: Baph. on August 17, 2018, 08:18:42 PM
I had an incident happen yearssss back when I worked at the Armani Exchange down here. If everyone can refrain from making this into a joke.

I didn?t know how to take it at the time when the manager was complimenting me on my work and was shading the black guy that was my co-worker at the same time.

The other guy had gotten on a little before i did and I guess he hadn?t been doing s up to standard. Idk. From what I saw the guy did a damn good job. But the manager was talking to me, just shooting the breeze. Asking me personal questions about what do I do outside of the job was like was I in college (was at the time) and my nationality/ethnicity or whatever  :uhh: and then he brought up about the other guy and was shading him down, and said he was wondering what he was  :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: because he had googled his last name n shit. Like what the FUCK. I called my mom about it and she told me to report to Corporate. I was hesitant at first.... because I didn?t want the shit to not get him fired and then he retaliate on some bitch shit.  :hmph:

But I did it anyway and he did indeed get fired  :tistheseas:
sddddddddddddddd

does the black guy not look black? and do you not look black?

either way what a dummy  :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:

i dont say ANYTHING even potentially offensive at work

dont trust NOBODY
black people come in so many different variations. I personally couldn?t say yes or no.


But the guy had dreads. EXTREMELY neat ones at that and kept a fresh line.
I think the racist faggot was wondering if he was Jamaican or something like that. But the way he was saying it was strange and the fact he took time to google this mans last name n shit.   :udontlookok: that shit still blows me every time I think about and that was 5 years ago 



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Quote from: Baph. on August 17, 2018, 08:35:27 PM
Quote from: ton on August 17, 2018, 08:23:38 PM
Quote from: Baph. on August 17, 2018, 08:18:42 PM
I had an incident happen yearssss back when I worked at the Armani Exchange down here. If everyone can refrain from making this into a joke.

I didn?t know how to take it at the time when the manager was complimenting me on my work and was shading the black guy that was my co-worker at the same time.

The other guy had gotten on a little before i did and I guess he hadn?t been doing s up to standard. Idk. From what I saw the guy did a damn good job. But the manager was talking to me, just shooting the breeze. Asking me personal questions about what do I do outside of the job was like was I in college (was at the time) and my nationality/ethnicity or whatever  :uhh: and then he brought up about the other guy and was shading him down, and said he was wondering what he was  :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: because he had googled his last name n shit. Like what the FUCK. I called my mom about it and she told me to report to Corporate. I was hesitant at first.... because I didn?t want the shit to not get him fired and then he retaliate on some bitch shit.  :hmph:

But I did it anyway and he did indeed get fired  :tistheseas:
sddddddddddddddd

does the black guy not look black? and do you not look black?

either way what a dummy  :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:

i dont say ANYTHING even potentially offensive at work

dont trust NOBODY
black people come in so many different variations. I personally couldn?t say yes or no.


But the guy had dreads. EXTREMELY neat ones at that and kept a fresh line.
I think the racist faggot was wondering if he was Jamaican or something like that. But the way he was saying it was strange and the fact he took time to google this mans last name n shit.   :udontlookok: that shit still blows me every time I think about and that was 5 years ago
well we know that

but every white thinks we all look like flavor flav

i work with 3 black men daily and i cant tell you how many times white bitches come back saying "YEAH YOU HELPED ME YESTERDAY" and im like girl... I WAS OFF IN MY DAMNS BED YESTERDAY :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: THAT NIGGA HAS TWISTS, I HAVE A FADE BITCH! :hmph:

But death, I understand. They're just... curious about us. I never understood it. But I dunno what it means to be white. I'm just glad we both recognize that bullshit. Nothing makes me cringe more than a black person who gets HAPPY when a white person recognizes them in some kind of way, or 'lets them in their circle'



Sinpool

Quote from: Andrais. on August 17, 2018, 07:48:13 PM
djkkdd

White people love that "you're so different from other black people rotfl!" mess like that's supposed to be a compliment fffff

Or when they go on and on about how pretty a darkskin girl is. Wow so you're so chocolate and beautiful haha     


ok but like the kii is white people claim that black people talk too much about race

but legit all my life myself and other black people always AVOID talking about race around white people.

it's the white people I've been around who always have to feel the need to remind me I'm black.

Like when Black Panther was coming, I was like I wanna see and they we're lke "haha cause you're black?"

White people do that shit all the time and non black people live for it. The way this one asian faggot I knew used to always do a stereotypical "me no understand you! me no speaka engrish" to make the whites cackle.  :uhh:


Sinpool

Girl the way my damn college teachers used to call me every other black persons name

It got to the point where me and my best friend were always called by each others name despite the fact that we look NOTHING alike.

I mean I had a fucking Afro/Dreads and he had a fade & tiny fro but they still called us each other.

:plzstop:


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Quote from: Knix on August 17, 2018, 08:42:58 PM
Quote from: Andrais. on August 17, 2018, 07:48:13 PM
djkkdd

White people love that "you're so different from other black people rotfl!" mess like that's supposed to be a compliment fffff

Or when they go on and on about how pretty a darkskin girl is. Wow so you're so chocolate and beautiful haha     


ok but like the kii is white people claim that black people talk too much about race

but legit all my life myself and other black people always AVOID talking about race around white people.

it's the white people I've been around who always have to feel the need to remind me I'm black.

Like when Black Panther was coming, I was like I wanna see and they we're lke "haha cause you're black?"

White people do that shit all the time and non black people live for it. The way this one asian faggot I knew used to always do a stereotypical "me no understand you! me no speaka engrish" to make the whites cackle.  :uhh:
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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white people OBSESS over it. and I think its because they know the white race IS racist and trash

I honestly dont give a fuck what you are as long as youre a decent person

But they like to kii about race to 'break the ice' but theyre just... weird as fuck. My jokes to break the ice have nothing to do with race, EVER :dead:

fedswatchin

Quote from: DidYouEvenKnowVersace? on August 17, 2018, 02:35:13 PM
Like blatant racism and ignorance is so much easier to deal with because it's THERE but microaggression is something else, YOU know it's there but you can't PROVE it dddd
it's something only a poc can pick up  :uhh:
:stressed:

fedswatchin