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[𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉]

I think I would go if I were you. Just to close that chapter once and for all.

[BrokenHeartsHeal]

Go, drop a flower and bounce.

[Barbie Dangerous]

I haven't even called my cousins to give my condolences
not because I don't want to, but I don't know what to say or how to approach the situation
I'm lowkey scared because I don't know what kinda reception I'll get

I'm trying to work up the courage to call them

If you do reach out, don't start the convo with, "I know we've had our differences but.." etc. All you have to do is let them know that you thought of them and you wanted to reach out. That is, if you're comfortable doing so.

[Barbie Dangerous]

I think I would go if I were you. Just to close that chapter once and for all.

[Justaway_]

r u iyanla

[BigDawg]

Too much bullshit come with funerals. People's true colors jump out.

[MelMel]

Too much bullshit come with funerals. People's true colors jump out.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wanted to fight my gay uncle at my Grandma's funeral

[BigDawg]

Too much bullshit come with funerals. People's true colors jump out.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wanted to fight my gay uncle at my Grandma's funeral

My cousin called my mom to write an obituary for her brother that wasn't even dead yet, the man was in hospice but lived for like the next two weeks. My mom told her hell no, she does not fuck wit that lady at all.

[CREAM.]

You could at least show ur face at the Wake 

Bump the funeral 

[Annie]

Yall's responses are easing my fears
I was hoping I didn't come off as selfish, because that's definitely not me or the place I'm coming from, I just feel weird about it

but I definitely feel a bit better now, thanks

Send some flowers with I'm sorry for your loss

[Annie]

I think I would go if I were you. Just to close that chapter once and for all.

Yeah I would just get it over with
More to be support of other family members

[como la whore]

Does it make you a bad person for not going? Absolutely not. Especially if you and her were not on the best terms.

If going is absolutely not an option send some flowers or a card.

I don't know though if a family member hurt my feelings that badly I'm definitely not going to their funeral or sending them shit. That's just me though.

make your own decision and don't feel guilty about what YOU choose to do