Do you care about what people DON'T like you.

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RekeRig

Quote from: MosDef on December 20, 2015, 04:10:53 PM
Not really...BUT I'd be concerned if no one liked me.
I try to remain my cognizant of how I come off to people, so I try not to get too comfortable in my "I don't give a fuck, this is me" attitude.

RekeRig

Quote from: COD. on December 20, 2015, 04:12:28 PM
That's always been a huge flaw of mine. I have severe social anxiety and always have the feeling that someone is judging me. Like I can walk in a room and be a nervous WRECK because I think everyone is looking at me and judging. So naturally I often crave the acceptance of others.

I hate it.....but it's something I have to work on.
:19k:
well in case i haven't told you lately, you kinda slay lmao!!

:cheerup:

RekeRig

Quote from: Herbie on December 20, 2015, 04:15:17 PM
Quote from: MosDef on December 20, 2015, 04:10:53 PM
Not really...BUT I'd be concerned if no one liked me.
I try to remain my cognizant of how I come off to people, so I try not to get too comfortable in my "I don't give a fuck, this is me" attitude.
Great answer. As I said in my previous post to QUEtie, I think to some degree we all care about it. We're human, we NEED acceptance. We need love, we need friendship, cannot survive with it. And that's scientifically proven.

And it is DEFINITELY important to be careful about the way you come off to others. I'm especially careful when I am @ work. Speaking with peers, superiors, etc. Being liked sometimes is the difference between keeping a job and losing it. that's real.
!!! its the key to advancement and longevity, period. The "dont give a fuck" girls aint really doin shit with their lives, more often than not. And that isn't a shot at anyone on the first page saying they dont care about what people think

Im talking about the ignorant ones that are rude and just flat out ignorant and dont understand tone, delivery, and decorum  :dead: "who cares? doin me! lmao!!"

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you'll be doing that unemployment line too

RekeRig

Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 20, 2015, 04:39:37 PM
Quote from: MosDef on December 20, 2015, 04:35:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 20, 2015, 04:22:29 PM
Quote from: King on December 20, 2015, 04:16:34 PM
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oh unbothered! didn't even notice!

yall are full of shit
Not everyone craves attention or acceptance. Not everyone is gonna like u and really it don't fckn matter if they do. I think people who really care about being liked are a bit insecure tbfh

this seriously sounds a tad bit bitter/bothered
you can't walk around life not giving a fuck if people like you or not.
who wouldn't want to be accepted? now morphing or conforming into a different person just to gain acceptance is a different story.

True, not everyone is going to like you. But the ones that DO like you, you should care enough that they like you and try to maintain it.

lolz what if you had a friend and they said "I like you" then you fire back with "I don't care if you like me or not"  :uhh:

Long story short, you should care to an extent imo....
Well let me rephrase because I see ur point. I hold the friendships I have very high in regard. I am the person I am and those who fuck with me, I fck with wholeheartedly. I'm just not going in trying to impress people or being something that I'm not in order to be friends with someone. Of course I'd LIKE to have great friendships and relationships in life but if they don't work out that way, it won't make or break me
yes! i like this

COD.

Quote from: RIG on December 21, 2015, 03:21:43 AM
Quote from: COD. on December 20, 2015, 04:12:28 PM
That's always been a huge flaw of mine. I have severe social anxiety and always have the feeling that someone is judging me. Like I can walk in a room and be a nervous WRECK because I think everyone is looking at me and judging. So naturally I often crave the acceptance of others.

I hate it.....but it's something I have to work on.
:19k:
well in case i haven't told you lately, you kinda slay lmao!!

:cheerup:

thanks rig bby.
means a lot coming from you.

fine self
:howfestive:

RekeRig

Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 05:23:35 PM
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Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 04:37:14 PM
well I'm not really liikeable and I think no one cares about me anyways

melly  :dead: this self-deprecating thing you do is what's unlikable

:stressed: it's how I cope
I like when self-deprecation comes in the form of comedy :supluv:

!!!!!!!!
your aint funny though

:diddraispoot:

you're extremely likable. not sure how many of us need to remind ya