Also , another example is Jacob kohinoor
he was always openly gay but def played up the whole "trade" thing ... until he eventually transitioned
again, one extreme to another . And the gorls accused him of doing it for attention because it was so extreme .....but I def believed him when he said that he played trade and stayed in that role although that wasn't who he really wanted to be.
I think she really enjoys being a woman and had to get up enough courage to just give up all of her "sex appeal" she had goin with the gorls and stop playing into their trade boy fantasies to live her own truth.
tbese things happen in the community .