i'm over this whole coming out bullshit, it comes off as self-centered and makes us look desperate for anybodies attention. They already don't care for us, why throw in their faces, for them to do some off the wall shit. My folks really showed my how family don't mean a damn thing. Gay people are perceived as ppl with mental disorders and thats why ppl don't take us seriously. I'd rather live in a closet doing my own thing than out for ppl to do off the wall shit. I mean look at Queen Latifah, perfect example of someone doing her own thing. Why yall wanna known as the gay guy, I wanna be known as a human working towards success. This gay agenda has really hurt our community more than helped. I mean seriously how many gay youth are in mental psych wards or homeless since 2011 --- HUNDREDS even THOUSANDS. I wish Hollywood never jump on the bandwagon and let us live in seclusion. Too many of our gay brothers and sisters have died trying to just live their lives as NORMAL people. Now we're a circus act for all to come and see and laugh. I'm fucking over it.