Quote from: Harlem on January 03, 2022, 06:01:14 PM
I hope she's promoting that she's healthy being this big and stop hyping that she's big for this fake self awareness motive... Missy had to dead that fat shit once her health was compromised and I'm sure Lizzo ain't that far away
mo'nique was lucky enough to have a husband who loved her enough to not care about her getting upset with him for telling her true tea
and he approached it the right way.
he didn't make it about her being more "cute" or "sexy"...or anything to do with how she looks . he framed the entire conversation around her children and encouraged her to think more of them.
she def get upset with him at first for saying what she didn't want to hear but we see how quickly she got in line.
he came @ her with something she could NOT argue. there's certain things you can argue with - which is whether being a certain size is more or less "attractive" or "sexy". but some things cannot be argued - like when it comes to the human body and the effect that a crazily excessive amount of weight can have on it.
it's been studied, confirmed, and documented. in disneyland we could all balloon to whatever sizes we wanted and not worry about anything going wrong. hell, i wish i could
cheese wontons galore .
but unfortunately we live in a real world where there are real consequences.
