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[CHOKE]

But if their energy is toxic and bringing u down
Sometimes u gotta cut em loose 🤷🏽

[ATLien]

basically.

Kinda defeats the purpose of having friends if they bring nothing but negative tea to ur life 

unless u actually enjoy engaging in that mess with them 🤷🏾

[Hatsumomo]

I had to cut off a long term friend. Every time she got a boyfriend she wanted to get me and him into it with each other and she kept trying to start arguments with me out of the blue. I think she called herself liking me. 

[klappa.]

I had to cut off a long term friend. Every time she got a boyfriend she wanted to get me and him into it with each other and she kept trying to start arguments with me out of the blue. I think she called herself liking me.

makin the womens moist huh

[Young]

I have a hard Time doing the kind of thing. 

I can be too forgiving at times 

[CHOKE]

We both indirectly shade each other

She'll send me a pic of her funny looking bby and I'll reply asking what I should eat for dinner without acknowledging it

She'll bring up embarrassing mess that happened at a party and I'll kii like I don't hate her for bringing it up

But that mess weighs on u after a while and she recently took it too far

[ATLien]

I have a hard Time doing the kind of thing.

I can be too forgiving at times

i think it almost always depends on the length/depth of the friendship

Even if I have someone around who is negative all the time , if I know it's something more recent for them and unusual behavior due to situations in their life of course I'd understand and stick it in with them .

But if it's someone I barely fuck with like that on some deep shit and all they have for me is a bunch of mess and negativity nonstop . Snip muthafuckin snip

Let's keep it playful fun and light . Too much real shit to be focused on and working towards without letting anything slow me down or distract me too much .

[𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉]

We both indirectly shade each other

She'll send me a pic of her funny looking bby and I'll reply asking what I should eat for dinner without acknowledging it

She'll bring up embarrassing mess that happened at a party and I'll kii like I don't hate her for bringing it up

But that mess weighs on u after a while and she recently took it too far

That sounds exhausting.
If you can't even have serious conversations then that's not a friendship.

[CHOKE]

We both indirectly shade each other

She'll send me a pic of her funny looking bby and I'll reply asking what I should eat for dinner without acknowledging it

She'll bring up embarrassing mess that happened at a party and I'll kii like I don't hate her for bringing it up

But that mess weighs on u after a while and she recently took it too far

That sounds exhausting.
If you can't even have serious conversations then that's not a friendship.

!!!!!!!!!!!

It was so surface level but that's why I used for so long but I knew it wasn't real when I told her she was out of line and we weren't talkin anymore and she couldn't even apologize

It'll take a few weeks for me to completely forget ha but she was my closest sis for a min

[CHOKE]

I still might tell ha husband she got a nig on the side tho 🤷🏽

[Young]

I have a hard Time doing the kind of thing.

I can be too forgiving at times

i think it almost always depends on the length/depth of the friendship

Even if I have someone around who is negative all the time , if I know it's something more recent for them and unusual behavior due to situations in their life of course I'd understand and stick it in with them .

But if it's someone I barely fuck with like that on some deep shit and all they have for me is a bunch of mess and negativity nonstop . Snip muthafuckin snip

Let's keep it playful fun and light . Too much real shit to be focused on and working towards without letting anything slow me down or distract me too much .

dddsdddddddddd

right. true.

I have female friends that love to gossip and just SIT on the phone..I can't handle it

[FUCK Bey]

I have a hard Time doing the kind of thing.

I can be too forgiving at times

Same. I can tolerate a lot, but a boundary that I'm 1000% firm with is public embarrassment. If you embarrass me one time, that's it.

SNNDNDNFNDNDNFMNDNDNDFFFG

[ATLien]

I can handle a lil gossip

me and my bestie can be on the phone for hours talking about just mess but we eventually switch it to more Serious tea . it's variety . Really feel like we have grown together .

when I think "toxic" I think someone who's always hating on other people ... downing people constantly ... just misery personified . I wouldn't be able to deal

nothing worse to me than someone who needs to put others down to elevate themselves . If I need to spend 50% of our conversation wondering why I'm still talking to u there's a problem

If u feel a need to elevate urself just ... elevate urself . Thinking others will be ur stepping stools to that is a simply figment of ur imagination . After all the mess u talk , ull still be at square one .

[FUCK Bey]

But at the same time.... idk. I have a tendency to just silently remove myself from friendships without explanation. People think that's childish/toxic because you don't give the other person an opportunity to be aware and change...

But I know myself... and it takes a lot for me to get mad... so if I'm at the point where I'm ready to detach from you, there's really no resolution. I'm done.

[Vonc2002]

Dropping a friend isnt that hard for me.  If I chose to unfriend someone then it's warranted.  I'm a good friend so I don't have a high tolerance for bullshit.  I actually probably move TOO fast to cut someone off actually tbh