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[Herb.]

And he's petty as well.

If he really wanted the mess to end he could have told her where he took them to get the haircut.

He was low key antagonizing her and she was using her kids as pawns in their game.

They're both wrong, and he learns how to communicate if he wants to avoid his car getting keyed up.

[Herb.]

She was clearly more aggressive but he's not innocent. That's all I'm saying.
Like most people who co-parent after divorce or separation, they're playing tit for tat

[L0NZ.]

They got their hair cut at the barbershop. I know it's hard for Carla to fathom but, that's most likely where he took them, to get a haircut.

[MAY]

The're both dumb as hell.

She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.

I mean, why did he need to tell her where they got it cut? What's the purpose?

Is she gonna go get the hair and glue it back on their scalps?

[L0NZ.]

Him saying "bar-ber-shop" to her mental ass is not going to cure her bitterness.

[Herb.]

Are we sure???...cuz those shape ups look atrocious

I wouldn't be surprised if it were done at home.

[L0NZ.]

The're both dumb as hell.

She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.

I mean, why did he need to tell her where they got it cut? What's the purpose?

Is she gonna go get the hair and glue it back on their scalps?

Probably. With her crazy ass.

[MAY]

still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences

like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off

but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.

If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.

Chile.

So what abut everything else we've been discussing.

Not this excuse for her.

My point is, you guys are saying this has NOTHING to do with the haircut. I just don't agree, even after watching more of this. Nothing at all? Not even in the least bit? I believe cultural differences definitely may come into play here a bit.

I don't think there are any cultural differences.

They are in Louisiana. She gives a Creole mess, which is pretty much considered Black, or a strain of.
Her mother is clearly a light skinned Black woman.

This bitch is just being petty. He left her & got with another chick, and she can't deal.

He probably got tired of her controlling ways and her mother meddling in their mess.

[MAY]

She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.

Im sorry.

You would NOT NOT NOT run up on a child in the backseat with 21 questions if you were mad about some hair.

You wouldn't scream rape and bloody murder if someone nudges you to get you out of said child's face.

You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.

You wouldnt call the police over some hair.

The bitterness she displayed...ch..bitch would have used anyyyyythingggg to initiate a confrontation.

!!!!
Notice how when the hair thing didn't work she started with the jackets.

[Herb.]

still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences

like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off

but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.

If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.

Chile.

So what abut everything else we've been discussing.

Not this excuse for her.

My point is, you guys are saying this has NOTHING to do with the haircut. I just don't agree, even after watching more of this. Nothing at all? Not even in the least bit? I believe cultural differences definitely may come into play here a bit.

I don't think there are any cultural differences.

They are in Louisiana. She gives a Creole mess, which is pretty much considered Black, or a strain of.
Her mother is clearly a light skinned Black woman.

This bitch is just being petty. He left her & got with another chick, and she can't deal.

He probably got tired of her controlling ways and her mother meddling in their mess.

But Creoles (if they are in fact Creole) do actually have their own culture...perhaps one of the most diverse , and are known for separating themselves from other Blacks...yes the social constructs that are in place say that they are simply "black", but they consider themselves to be their own little world separate from others...much like their ancestors who were Free People of Color and gave a regal "above it all" tea, and owned slaves even though they were of African descent themselves.



Don't mean to get that deep into it, but culture differences are definitely present in that community.

[RAY7]

Hhghghghgg

[L0NZ.]

She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.

Im sorry.

You would NOT NOT NOT run up on a child in the backseat with 21 questions if you were mad about some hair.

You wouldn't scream rape and bloody murder if someone nudges you to get you out of said child's face.

You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.

You wouldnt call the police over some hair.

The bitterness she displayed...ch..bitch would have used anyyyyythingggg to initiate a confrontation.

!!!!
Notice how when the hair thing didn't work she started with the jackets.

And everything else.

Like I said, if not the haircuts, it woulda been anything else.

[Buy The Stars✨]

The're both dumb as hell.

She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.

why does "where" matter?

[martian]

poor kids. them crying in the background broke my heart.

i agree though, he could have just said where they got the haircuts and said he was trying to help but that next time he'll consult with her first. done.

[Young]

The're both dumb as hell.

She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.

I mean, why did he need to tell her where they got it cut? What's the purpose?

Is she gonna go get the hair and glue it back on their scalps?

Right. She clearly didn't care where either. Hence her talking about everything else once she realized he wa spaying the girl dust.
That question was just a way for her to get more out of him .
She's clearly crazy.