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[Amazing]

He is only 22. You should have the upper hand in the relationship.

[Cartierline]

Yeah him saying all that shit after meeting once is a red flag.

I'm getting emotionally manipulative vibes from all of this. Don't let the fact that you're super attracted to him physically cloud your judgment sis.

[Purple Moon]

Baby doll you are always having man problems. You need to be single for a min and find yourself again.

yes i do and then i post about it lol but i hadnt had a date date in over a year prior to this. Im comfortable by myself.

[Nonchalantboi]

he's basically super clingy and has potential to be very possessive.

however...i have to somewhat hold u accountable here because...

u said in the beginning of ur post that you two were both acting like  a couple even though you barely knew one another - after having sex with each other.

i think u may have missed an opportunity to set realistic expectations of where you see this whole thing going and establishing boundaries before you started playing "couple" with him.

so when u saw your name spelled out on his profile ....it made u cringe but it was just yet another instance of him continuing to act as if you two are an official couple of some sort - only in his very romantic, super clingy way.

u may need to just have a very real conversation with him as to where you're at, and really establish those boundaries. don't be shy about expressing , very clearly, what makes you uncomfortable and letting him know a pace/speed that you're comfortable with moving forward.

if you're actually interested in him establish the boundaries and have the convo, if you're not interested, cut him loose so you'll waste no more of his time or your time - and don't stick around out of pity or some feeling of obligation.

As 'Fro said you did kinda enable that early behavior and from the first stage of red flags you should have establish boundaries. But anyways it's not gonna work out cause that's too much in a early stage stage of courting I would have ghost that nigga every since

[Russian Roulette]

he's basically super clingy and has potential to be very possessive.

however...i have to somewhat hold u accountable here because...

u said in the beginning of ur post that you two were both acting like  a couple even though you barely knew one another - after having sex with each other.

i think u may have missed an opportunity to set realistic expectations of where you see this whole thing going and establishing boundaries before you started playing "couple" with him.

so when u saw your name spelled out on his profile ....it made u cringe but it was just yet another instance of him continuing to act as if you two are an official couple of some sort - only in his very romantic, super clingy way.

u may need to just have a very real conversation with him as to where you're at, and really establish those boundaries. don't be shy about expressing , very clearly, what makes you uncomfortable and letting him know a pace/speed that you're comfortable with moving forward.

if you're actually interested in him establish the boundaries and have the convo, if you're not interested, cut him loose so you'll waste no more of his time or your time - and don't stick around out of pity or some feeling of obligation.

yes afro, i played along too much, honestly because it felt good and although unexpected, his attention and closeness were probably something I was longing for for a while.

I will talk to him tomorrow.

i totally understand

u met a nice guy who was handsome and u had a great time with him...its been a while since youve been dating
so i can def see how u coulda fell into the whole "i feel like ive known u my whole life!!!  " tea

but i think ur kinda snapping out of it now and getting back to reality, while he's still in that space emotionally.

so i'd be gentle with him - whatever you decide to do....because at this point it wouldn't be unreasonable for him to think u are both on the same page in this lovey dovey LaLa land that was created

[SouravMay]

I would immediately end it by the way. You have to check your self esteem if someone can impress you so quickly. Because he does not know you at all to be loving you like that. He can only love the idea of you. Toss him!

[United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳]

Do you like being controlled and told what to do at all times? If so, stay with him.

[Amazing]

He is 22 years old! Tell him to shut the fuck up and get on his fucking knees.

[Purple Moon]

He is 22 years old! Tell him to shut the fuck up and get on his fucking knees.

he already did and that part was fun lol maybe he liked it too much and is obsessed now

[Purple Moon]

I would immediately end it by the way. You have to check your self esteem if someone can impress you so quickly. Because he does not know you at all to be loving you like that. He can only love the idea of you. Toss him!

i am definitely looking inwards to see if there are some issues like that, but tbh i never felt the same way that he claims he does. It is what it is and i'll end this today, thank you for the advice!

[Purple Moon]

he's basically super clingy and has potential to be very possessive.

however...i have to somewhat hold u accountable here because...

u said in the beginning of ur post that you two were both acting like  a couple even though you barely knew one another - after having sex with each other.

i think u may have missed an opportunity to set realistic expectations of where you see this whole thing going and establishing boundaries before you started playing "couple" with him.

so when u saw your name spelled out on his profile ....it made u cringe but it was just yet another instance of him continuing to act as if you two are an official couple of some sort - only in his very romantic, super clingy way.

u may need to just have a very real conversation with him as to where you're at, and really establish those boundaries. don't be shy about expressing , very clearly, what makes you uncomfortable and letting him know a pace/speed that you're comfortable with moving forward.

if you're actually interested in him establish the boundaries and have the convo, if you're not interested, cut him loose so you'll waste no more of his time or your time - and don't stick around out of pity or some feeling of obligation.

yes afro, i played along too much, honestly because it felt good and although unexpected, his attention and closeness were probably something I was longing for for a while.

I will talk to him tomorrow.

i totally understand

u met a nice guy who was handsome and u had a great time with him...its been a while since youve been dating
so i can def see how u coulda fell into the whole "i feel like ive known u my whole life!!!  " tea

but i think ur kinda snapping out of it now and getting back to reality, while he's still in that space emotionally.

so i'd be gentle with him - whatever you decide to do....because at this point it wouldn't be unreasonable for him to think u are both on the same page in this lovey dovey LaLa land that was created

thank you ❤️ Yea when he said I love you today I thought to myself this is it and I just sent him a message saying I like him but it ain't happening and that I'm sorry if i made it seem that way. Nervous about his reaction but glad it's out now.