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[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

there's so many people saying "omg mo'nique noooooo!! u were just getting back invited to the party! dont fuck it up!"

people see her speaking out as some sort of knee jerk reaction that needs to be better controlled but she's actually very intentional with what she does and says

not everyone is gonna put money before morals and what they stand for.

she's clearly not a "go along to get along" type of woman that's gonna just be quiet when she disagrees with something just for the sake of keeping a check in her purse and not pissing anyone off.

people are so used to seeing people go along to get along that when someone doesn't do it, it's like "OMG r u crazy! dont fumble da bag!"

yes there are real social consequences and even financial consequences for not playing certain games, but the fact that she's willing to take those risks is commendable to me. not many are built for that.

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Her entire rhetoric is self serving. Afro, why are you so invested in this discussion? I see you're on here arguing with everyone again. You aren't tired of the same cycles? 

[L0NZ.]

there's LEVELS to this hun.

and what Oprah did was definitely bottom level and is barely even in the same ballpark as speaking on information put out by DL himself on YouTube.

it's one thing to say, "she shouldn't have included that interview DL did in their battle. i didn't like that."
that's understandable.

but it's another thing to attempt to make a direct comparison to what she did and what Oprah did.

Do you think Monique ignored the possible trauma his daughter could re-live, by including it in this highly publicized event? Whether it's public information already or not, no one was talking about it.

Do you think she was wrong to exploit that, just to "drag" DL that night? And when people called her out on it, says "let's not play this game, that can't happen, I can't cause more trauma for that baby" ..... do you think that's playing in their faces by gaslighting, a mental abuse tactic she's learned second hand from her current abuser, Daddy

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

Her entire rhetoric is self serving. Afro, why are you so invested in this discussion? I see you're on here arguing with everyone again. You aren't tired of the same cycles?

i honestly dont see it as arguing .

"arguing" is petty IMO.

this is an interesting discussion to me. my take on it is obviously unpopular but it'll still be love at the end of this thread.

i don't see it as "them vs. me". i see it as logic vs logic, opinion vs opinion
it doesn't always have to be super deep. im chillin tbh

and it takes more than one to tango. as in, im clearly not the only one "invested" in this story.

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Her entire rhetoric is self serving. Afro, why are you so invested in this discussion? I see you're on here arguing with everyone again. You aren't tired of the same cycles?

i honestly dont see it as arguing .

"arguing" is petty IMO.

this is an interesting discussion to me. my take on it is obviously unpopular but it'll still be love at the end of this thread.

i don't see it as "them vs. me". i see it as logic vs logic, opinion vs opinion
it doesn't always have to be super deep. im chillin tbh

I don't know. This seems to be a reoccurring theme with you. I'd like to think of you as a contrarian of some sort but also someone who pursues discussions with others for the art of debate. It's just not healthy.

And I've read through most of the thread, some of this got a bit passive aggressive and warmly hostile.

I think you might need a vacation from the board, you're doing that thing again.

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Oh, you had a change of heart and updated your response. 

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

there's LEVELS to this hun.

and what Oprah did was definitely bottom level and is barely even in the same ballpark as speaking on information put out by DL himself on YouTube.

it's one thing to say, "she shouldn't have included that interview DL did in their battle. i didn't like that."
that's understandable.

but it's another thing to attempt to make a direct comparison to what she did and what Oprah did.

Do you think Monique ignored the possible trauma his daughter could re-live, by including it in this highly publicized event? Whether it's public information already or not, no one was talking about it.

Do you think she was wrong to exploit that, just to "drag" DL that night? And when people called her out on it, says "let's not play this game, that can't happen, I can't cause more trauma for that baby" ..... do you think that's playing in their faces by gaslighting, a mental abuse tactic she's learned second hand from her current abuser, Daddy

well i saw his history with him not only ignoring his daughter's claims, but casually putting the info out there as well relevant to his timeline ...it was literally one of the first things i posted in this thread

so even if i wanted to i couldn't back up and say "omg that had NOTHING to do with this!!  "
i found it relevant in his bigger picture. 

i can understand someone feeling differently though. but i think it's relevant and wasn't surprised someone tapped her on teh shoulder to show her.

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

Her entire rhetoric is self serving. Afro, why are you so invested in this discussion? I see you're on here arguing with everyone again. You aren't tired of the same cycles?

i honestly dont see it as arguing .

"arguing" is petty IMO.

this is an interesting discussion to me. my take on it is obviously unpopular but it'll still be love at the end of this thread.

i don't see it as "them vs. me". i see it as logic vs logic, opinion vs opinion
it doesn't always have to be super deep. im chillin tbh

I don't know. This seems to be a reoccurring theme with you. I'd like to think of you as a contrarian of some sort but also someone who pursues discussions with others for the art of debate. It's just not healthy.

And I've read through most of the thread, some of this got a bit passive aggressive and warmly hostile.

I think you might need a vacation from the board, you're doing that thing again.

well the fact that you seem to think i entered this thread a contrarian to begin with
i understand how that can be concerning to u.

u think im just watching to see what everyone else says - just to say something in opposition and argue.
sffsssf

but i can assure u thats not the case. how i feel is how i feel and what i say is what i mean.

dont worry boo im good.

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

Oh, you had a change of heart and updated your response.

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a lil edit mess never hurt nobody.

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[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

luv u my lil sugar honey ice tea 😘😘

[PRESSED]

luv u my lil sugar honey ice tea 😘😘

love u too boo 
Monique is wrong.

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

luv u my lil sugar honey ice tea 😘😘

love u too boo 
Monique is wrong.

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That's all u had tah say

[Rxxf]

I don't know what else was said in here... but I stand with Mo'Nique. 

[ssw4919]

Her entire rhetoric is self serving.

Yes.  I'm seeing tons of people and commenters saying they will no longer support her after mentioning DL's daughter.  She went too far.