Quote from: Buy The Stars✨ on January 21, 2023, 11:59:57 AMThat's why for the first date I prefer something more low key. Like Starbucks or ice cream or just go walk in the park and talk. Cause I'm not about to spend that much on a first date at all.
i think keeping it simple for the first meeting protects both people involved
for me it's about saving time. not wasting it
something quick with no heavy expectations ....where there's no elaborate plan of me spending hours with you in case the chemistry is not there .
make the expectation clear that it's a quick meet up so after 10 or 15 minutes when i say "ok gotta run so nice meeting you" there's no huge surprise.
there's nothing fun about being wined and dined by a man you have absolutely no interest in. IMO
i can buy my own mess otw back home, plop in front of Hulu and have the rest of the night to myself instead.
but, if he's what i expected him to be and he offers to extend our quick meet up. of course

why not, im free lolz