White people are way too comfortable

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stillpretty

February 26, 2023, 02:01:51 PM Last Edit: February 26, 2023, 02:09:16 PM by Rio de Atlanta
I have a contractor working on my entry door which requires the door to be open obviously and my neighbor from down the hall decides to say hello to the contractor, make a few seconds of small talk with him and stroll past him to converse with me as I'm relaxing on my couch

Granted I've seen and conversed very briefly  with this guy plenty of times before but we are far from buddies .

I'm looking like did this man just walk his ass into my livingroom to chat it up with no clear green light from me to proceed?

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maybe I'm tripping but I feel that was a bit violation

I was nice tho cuz the contractor is making a shit ton of noise which I'm sure is disturbing everyone on my floor . So he wasn't complaining so I was just polite ...and confused lol
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Justice Jackson

February 26, 2023, 02:32:21 PM #1 Last Edit: February 26, 2023, 02:54:12 PM by Justice Jackson
You aren't trippin.  :udontlookok:  At most, if he saw you through the doorway while talking to the contractor he could have said "good afternoon, [your name]" from there. If he even knew or remembered your name. Strolling in is inappropriate behavior and he out of order
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Um, yes, that was rude. Some people have no boundaries.

stillpretty

Ok it's not just me

That's exactly what I think it is

Lack of boundaries

And home training tbh

My grandmother would drag tf out of me if she heard I did some mess like that
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Marilyn

February 26, 2023, 02:45:29 PM #4 Last Edit: February 26, 2023, 02:45:50 PM by Marilyn
Let's not make things comfortable for white people at all. He shouldn't have entered your condo. He should've actually stayed a few steps back from the entrance. I mean shit I'm sure the noise wasn't non-stop, the maintenance man could've turned off supplies for a few minutes to temporarily walk to him.

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stillpretty

February 26, 2023, 02:47:53 PM #5 Last Edit: February 26, 2023, 02:52:59 PM by Rio de Atlanta
Quote from: Marilyn on February 26, 2023, 02:45:29 PMLet's not make things comfortable for white people at all. He shouldn't have entered your condo. He should've actually stayed a few steps back from the entrance. I mean shit I'm sure the noise wasn't non-stop, the maintenance man could've turned off supplies for a few minutes to temporarily walk to him.
thats what I would have done

Stood at/slightly away from the entrance and waited for the actual resident to come to the door

And if they didn't come to the door maybe that means they don't feel like talking

An open door isn't an automatic invitation

Fnfnnfnfnf like wtf

Common sense really ain't that common
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Significant Discovery: First known Black American family of Kalmyk descent

Takeaways: Be prepared to pivot, even when you think you're on the right track. Be OK with being wrong so you can get things right.

Kalmyks are tribal Mongolic people who settled in Russia. It's estimated to be only 300,000 Kalmyk descendants worldwide - with only 3,000 in America.



Grandpa and his Grandma ❤️

Marilyn

Quote from: Rio de Atlanta on February 26, 2023, 02:47:53 PM
Quote from: Marilyn on February 26, 2023, 02:45:29 PMLet's not make things comfortable for white people at all. He shouldn't have entered your condo. He should've actually stayed a few steps back from the entrance. I mean shit I'm sure the noise wasn't non-stop, the maintenance man could've turned off supplies for a few minutes to temporarily walk to him.
thats what I would have done

Stood at the entrance and waited for the actual resident to come to the door

And if they didn't come to the door maybe that means they don't feel like talking

An open door isn't an automatic invitation

Fnfnnfnfnf like wtf

Common sense really ain't that common

And as far as noise, people just have to get the fuck over it reasonably. I hear neighbors having sex, the bed squeaking, occasional arguments, maintenance fixes, average noise partying, overweight people walking around...as long as courtesy hours are respected and everything is reasonable and rational, you have to get the fuck over it. Or get your own house.

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stillpretty

February 26, 2023, 03:07:53 PM #7 Last Edit: February 26, 2023, 03:10:18 PM by Rio de Atlanta
Quote from: Marilyn on February 26, 2023, 03:00:46 PM
Quote from: Rio de Atlanta on February 26, 2023, 02:47:53 PM
Quote from: Marilyn on February 26, 2023, 02:45:29 PMLet's not make things comfortable for white people at all. He shouldn't have entered your condo. He should've actually stayed a few steps back from the entrance. I mean shit I'm sure the noise wasn't non-stop, the maintenance man could've turned off supplies for a few minutes to temporarily walk to him.
thats what I would have done

Stood at the entrance and waited for the actual resident to come to the door

And if they didn't come to the door maybe that means they don't feel like talking

An open door isn't an automatic invitation

Fnfnnfnfnf like wtf

Common sense really ain't that common

And as far as noise, people just have to get the fuck over it reasonably. I hear neighbors having sex, the bed squeaking, occasional arguments, maintenance fixes, average noise partying, overweight people walking around...as long as courtesy hours are respected and everything is reasonable and rational, you have to get the fuck over it. Or get your own house.
he wasn't complaining about the noise at all

I think that was more so me just feeling bad that I wad causing so much noise on my floor which is usually very quiet

That work I needed done was gonna get done tho . Fjfjjfjfjjf complaints or not

Any reasonable human being should be able to realize it's just very temporary, unavoidable  noise
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Takeaways: Be prepared to pivot, even when you think you're on the right track. Be OK with being wrong so you can get things right.

Kalmyks are tribal Mongolic people who settled in Russia. It's estimated to be only 300,000 Kalmyk descendants worldwide - with only 3,000 in America.



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Jon

Some of them are really oblivious. Its a strange sense of entitlement. 

Marilyn

Quote from: Rio de Atlanta on February 26, 2023, 03:07:53 PM
Quote from: Marilyn on February 26, 2023, 03:00:46 PM
Quote from: Rio de Atlanta on February 26, 2023, 02:47:53 PM
Quote from: Marilyn on February 26, 2023, 02:45:29 PMLet's not make things comfortable for white people at all. He shouldn't have entered your condo. He should've actually stayed a few steps back from the entrance. I mean shit I'm sure the noise wasn't non-stop, the maintenance man could've turned off supplies for a few minutes to temporarily walk to him.
thats what I would have done

Stood at the entrance and waited for the actual resident to come to the door

And if they didn't come to the door maybe that means they don't feel like talking

An open door isn't an automatic invitation

Fnfnnfnfnf like wtf

Common sense really ain't that common

And as far as noise, people just have to get the fuck over it reasonably. I hear neighbors having sex, the bed squeaking, occasional arguments, maintenance fixes, average noise partying, overweight people walking around...as long as courtesy hours are respected and everything is reasonable and rational, you have to get the fuck over it. Or get your own house.
he wasn't complaining about the noise at all

I think that was more so me just feeling bad that I wad causing so much noise on my floor which is usually very quiet

That work I needed done was gonna get done tho . Fjfjjfjfjjf complaints or not

Any reasonable human being should be able to realize it's just very temporary, unavoidable  noise

I know. I was saying in general because noise was slightly brought up (even though you double confirmed the employees weren't conplaing).

In general, let Shandra walk around her place in peace. Just addressing general shared living issues (apartments, condos, town houses, etc)

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stillpretty

Quote from: Marilyn on February 26, 2023, 04:09:50 PM
Quote from: Rio de Atlanta on February 26, 2023, 03:07:53 PM
Quote from: Marilyn on February 26, 2023, 03:00:46 PM
Quote from: Rio de Atlanta on February 26, 2023, 02:47:53 PM
Quote from: Marilyn on February 26, 2023, 02:45:29 PMLet's not make things comfortable for white people at all. He shouldn't have entered your condo. He should've actually stayed a few steps back from the entrance. I mean shit I'm sure the noise wasn't non-stop, the maintenance man could've turned off supplies for a few minutes to temporarily walk to him.
thats what I would have done

Stood at the entrance and waited for the actual resident to come to the door

And if they didn't come to the door maybe that means they don't feel like talking

An open door isn't an automatic invitation

Fnfnnfnfnf like wtf

Common sense really ain't that common

And as far as noise, people just have to get the fuck over it reasonably. I hear neighbors having sex, the bed squeaking, occasional arguments, maintenance fixes, average noise partying, overweight people walking around...as long as courtesy hours are respected and everything is reasonable and rational, you have to get the fuck over it. Or get your own house.
he wasn't complaining about the noise at all

I think that was more so me just feeling bad that I wad causing so much noise on my floor which is usually very quiet

That work I needed done was gonna get done tho . Fjfjjfjfjjf complaints or not

Any reasonable human being should be able to realize it's just very temporary, unavoidable  noise

I know. I was saying in general because noise was slightly brought up (even though you double confirmed the employees weren't conplaing).

In general, let Shandra walk around her place in peace. Just addressing general shared living issues (apartments, condos, town houses, etc)

:omgwatshappening:
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yeah

There's def some noise to be expected with closer proximity

Long as it's not unreasonable and at a decent time I don't care . But luckily my neighbors are quiet for the most part

I'll take a lil neighborly noise in the high-rise over having to mow a lawn or worry about mess in a basement any day.

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Project started: 2014
Wrapped up: 2024

Significant Discovery: First known Black American family of Kalmyk descent

Takeaways: Be prepared to pivot, even when you think you're on the right track. Be OK with being wrong so you can get things right.

Kalmyks are tribal Mongolic people who settled in Russia. It's estimated to be only 300,000 Kalmyk descendants worldwide - with only 3,000 in America.



Grandpa and his Grandma ❤️

Aamerie.

he didnt realize the gloryhole was closed for the day


stillpretty

Quote from: L0NZ. on February 26, 2023, 06:34:26 PMhe didnt realize the gloryhole was closed for the day
I sent out a mass email this morning

but nice try
Project started: 2014
Wrapped up: 2024

Significant Discovery: First known Black American family of Kalmyk descent

Takeaways: Be prepared to pivot, even when you think you're on the right track. Be OK with being wrong so you can get things right.

Kalmyks are tribal Mongolic people who settled in Russia. It's estimated to be only 300,000 Kalmyk descendants worldwide - with only 3,000 in America.



Grandpa and his Grandma ❤️

Aamerie.



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