Quote from: Coc' Crisp on January 31, 2016, 11:31:08 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 31, 2016, 11:29:18 PM
1) which state
2) how long have u been together
I'm in Memphis and fag wants to swoop me away to Nebraska for career. 
4 years, on and off. 
I wouldn't move for some on and off mess.
unless you have a promising job lined up and mess
otherwise this sounds like you'd have to depend on him until you get on your own feet
and that's a got damn no no. if it was 4 years strong i'd say do it
but 4 rocky years, seems really fickle.
if ur able to secure a job for urself then go. a job that pays well enough to sustain u in case u guys break up
otherwise, especially considering Nebraska is a fucking tumbleweed zone, if u have no friends or family there i wouldn't budge.