there's definitely a difference and if this is true, it breaks my heart
I have my own thoughts on Toni tbh but out of love and respect for goddess I'll keep them to myself since I don't know certain things for sure
But I'll say that the Braxtons in general seem to have this love for anything White or seemingly White adjacent .
"Snowflakes" as they call them. It's all hehe and haha but there's a lot of truth in their jokes when you look at certain things. Including Trina's random valley girl accent and her ex-husband , etc.
Which is why I was slow to rush to Toni's defense when that whole chrishean mess went down. Her acting like she didn't want that younger Black girl to touch her. I was being nice by calling goddess "bougie" and "uppity" but sometimes she comes across as anti-Black. Very anti-"ghetto".
Yes chrishean is a mess but she's very young and has time to grow. Nothing wrong with holding her hand if she's reaching out to you.
My heart breaks for denim cuz he's on the spectrum and I'd imagine that makes him more vulnerable for certain things. Looking around and seeing his family with a bunch of plastic surgery, talking about how they love them some snowflake men , etc. that undoubtedly can have an influence on how he feels about himself.
This is why it's important to check anti-blackness when you see it. Even the "jokes" about someone's Blackness. It's not funny and there are real, far-reaching consequences behind it.