pops up on a timeline with pics from a baby shower outta NOWHERE, with their "baby mama"
bitch i literally froze. like
i am completely in shock.
the pressure to be heteronormative is real af in these streets
ive seen this before, but more so when i first came to the south. and i didn't know those people - it was just super clear they were gay, and they were just MARRIED. not having kids with these women. and it kinda made sense considering much of the south is the "bible belt".
but this is the first time i've seen someone from my neck of the woods that i actually know doing this.
hits totally different.
but ive seen this persons father and his entire aura just screams "dont bring that gay shit near me." very macho . dripping with Black hypermasculinity.
all i can say is that it made SENSE why he was deep in the closet, once i saw his dad. who knows what he's heard from his family growing up.
he's actually more on the feminine side naturally, but he suppresses it - and it still JUMPS out here and there. it all made sense.
i know theres such a thing as bisexuality and obviously if they did this the natural way, that could be a strong possibility.
but i def wonder if his baby mama knows tea.
and i wonder if he felt pressured to do this. cuz that would be sad af. people (especially his dad) asking "why u aint got no kid yets? or a wife?
eveything ok? "
