Wendy blames her SON for bank securing her money

Started by stillpretty, February 12, 2025, 01:55:35 PM

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stillpretty

where are the people on here who were arguing with me about "family!"

 :usuresis:

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Ulysses

This thing blames everyone else but herself for her current state, huh?

stillpretty

February 12, 2025, 02:00:49 PM #2 Last Edit: February 12, 2025, 02:02:35 PM by The First Black Kalmyks
Quote from: Ulysses on February 12, 2025, 01:58:04 PMThis thing blames everyone else but herself for her current state, huh?
what shes saying checks out

the bank flagged crazy spending on her account, rightfully so.

kevin is a 20 something year old young man who prob doesn't fully understand that money can run out. especially if he's been around it his entire life.

people saying that "family!" should handle everything aren't thinking far enough.

for wendy's sake, thankfully her bank caught onto the mess.

she worked so hard and at least deserves the reserved funds that will help get her the care shes gonna need for the rest of her life.
Project started: 2014
Wrapped up: 2024

Significant Discovery: First known Black American family of Kalmyk descent

Takeaways: Be prepared to pivot, even when you think you're on the right track. Be OK with being wrong so you can get things right.

Kalmyks are tribal Mongolic people who settled in Russia. It's estimated to be only 300,000 Kalmyk descendants worldwide - with only 3,000 in America.



Grandpa and his Grandma ❤️

Ulysses

Quote from: The First Black Kalmyks on February 12, 2025, 02:00:49 PM
Quote from: Ulysses on February 12, 2025, 01:58:04 PMThis thing blames everyone else but herself for her current state, huh?
what shes saying checks out

the bank flagged crazy spending on her account, rightfully so.

kevin is a 20 something year old young man who prob doesn't fully understand that money can run out. especially if he's been around it his entire life.

people saying that "family!" should handle everything aren't thinking far enough.

for wendy's sake, thankfully her bank caught onto the mess.

she worked so hard and at least deserves the reserved funds that will help get her the care shes gonna need for the rest of her life.

And this isn't Wendy's fault? For allowing her GROWN son to do this?

Are we also going to pretend a man in his mid 20s doesn't understand the concept of money?

stillpretty

February 12, 2025, 03:00:57 PM #4 Last Edit: February 12, 2025, 03:04:01 PM by The First Black Kalmyks
Quote from: Ulysses on February 12, 2025, 02:13:42 PM
Quote from: The First Black Kalmyks on February 12, 2025, 02:00:49 PM
Quote from: Ulysses on February 12, 2025, 01:58:04 PMThis thing blames everyone else but herself for her current state, huh?
what shes saying checks out

the bank flagged crazy spending on her account, rightfully so.

kevin is a 20 something year old young man who prob doesn't fully understand that money can run out. especially if he's been around it his entire life.

people saying that "family!" should handle everything aren't thinking far enough.

for wendy's sake, thankfully her bank caught onto the mess.

she worked so hard and at least deserves the reserved funds that will help get her the care shes gonna need for the rest of her life.

And this isn't Wendy's fault? For allowing her GROWN son to do this?

Are we also going to pretend a man in his mid 20s doesn't understand the concept of money?
kevin is 24 , def at that age where he's gonna wanna ball out to impress his friends and the women

He's gonna wanna have fun . This is to be expected of a 24 year old guy. It's not unheard of.

Men aren't fully mature at 24 . At all. And that is scientific fact btw , not my opinion. Look it up . His prefrontal cortex isn't even fully developed at 24.

But this isn't in Wendy's best interest considering her mental state - not being capable of managing her stuff as she normally would

I can def see Kevin taking advantage of that.

This is very common in these situations which is why family is NOT always the best option to handle things
Project started: 2014
Wrapped up: 2024

Significant Discovery: First known Black American family of Kalmyk descent

Takeaways: Be prepared to pivot, even when you think you're on the right track. Be OK with being wrong so you can get things right.

Kalmyks are tribal Mongolic people who settled in Russia. It's estimated to be only 300,000 Kalmyk descendants worldwide - with only 3,000 in America.



Grandpa and his Grandma ❤️


stillpretty

Project started: 2014
Wrapped up: 2024

Significant Discovery: First known Black American family of Kalmyk descent

Takeaways: Be prepared to pivot, even when you think you're on the right track. Be OK with being wrong so you can get things right.

Kalmyks are tribal Mongolic people who settled in Russia. It's estimated to be only 300,000 Kalmyk descendants worldwide - with only 3,000 in America.



Grandpa and his Grandma ❤️

Ulysses

February 12, 2025, 04:53:08 PM #7 Last Edit: February 12, 2025, 04:54:07 PM by Ulysses
Quote from: The First Black Kalmyks on February 12, 2025, 03:00:57 PM
Quote from: Ulysses on February 12, 2025, 02:13:42 PM
Quote from: The First Black Kalmyks on February 12, 2025, 02:00:49 PM
Quote from: Ulysses on February 12, 2025, 01:58:04 PMThis thing blames everyone else but herself for her current state, huh?
what shes saying checks out

the bank flagged crazy spending on her account, rightfully so.

kevin is a 20 something year old young man who prob doesn't fully understand that money can run out. especially if he's been around it his entire life.

people saying that "family!" should handle everything aren't thinking far enough.

for wendy's sake, thankfully her bank caught onto the mess.

she worked so hard and at least deserves the reserved funds that will help get her the care shes gonna need for the rest of her life.

And this isn't Wendy's fault? For allowing her GROWN son to do this?

Are we also going to pretend a man in his mid 20s doesn't understand the concept of money?
kevin is 24 , def at that age where he's gonna wanna ball out to impress his friends and the women

He's gonna wanna have fun . This is to be expected of a 24 year old guy. It's not unheard of.

Men aren't fully mature at 24 . At all. And that is scientific fact btw , not my opinion. Look it up . His prefrontal cortex isn't even fully developed at 24.

But this isn't in Wendy's best interest considering her mental state - not being capable of managing her stuff as she normally would

I can def see Kevin taking advantage of that.

This is very common in these situations which is why family is NOT always the best option to handle things
So let's just call it like it is. She's a terrible person AND a terrible mother for not teaching him properly.

Not to compare myself to others (especially someone like him) but I bought my first home at 23. I paid a mortgage, all my bills and worked a career. Maybe I'm just smarter than others.

She just is terrible all around

stillpretty

Quote from: Ulysses on February 12, 2025, 04:53:08 PM
Quote from: The First Black Kalmyks on February 12, 2025, 03:00:57 PM
Quote from: Ulysses on February 12, 2025, 02:13:42 PM
Quote from: The First Black Kalmyks on February 12, 2025, 02:00:49 PM
Quote from: Ulysses on February 12, 2025, 01:58:04 PMThis thing blames everyone else but herself for her current state, huh?
what shes saying checks out

the bank flagged crazy spending on her account, rightfully so.

kevin is a 20 something year old young man who prob doesn't fully understand that money can run out. especially if he's been around it his entire life.

people saying that "family!" should handle everything aren't thinking far enough.

for wendy's sake, thankfully her bank caught onto the mess.

she worked so hard and at least deserves the reserved funds that will help get her the care shes gonna need for the rest of her life.

And this isn't Wendy's fault? For allowing her GROWN son to do this?

Are we also going to pretend a man in his mid 20s doesn't understand the concept of money?
kevin is 24 , def at that age where he's gonna wanna ball out to impress his friends and the women

He's gonna wanna have fun . This is to be expected of a 24 year old guy. It's not unheard of.

Men aren't fully mature at 24 . At all. And that is scientific fact btw , not my opinion. Look it up . His prefrontal cortex isn't even fully developed at 24.

But this isn't in Wendy's best interest considering her mental state - not being capable of managing her stuff as she normally would

I can def see Kevin taking advantage of that.

This is very common in these situations which is why family is NOT always the best option to handle things
So let's just call it like it is. She's a terrible person AND a terrible mother for not teaching him properly.

Not to compare myself to others (especially someone like him) but I bought my first home at 23. I paid a mortgage, all my bills and worked a career. Maybe I'm just smarter than others.

She just is terrible all around
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oh uly
Project started: 2014
Wrapped up: 2024

Significant Discovery: First known Black American family of Kalmyk descent

Takeaways: Be prepared to pivot, even when you think you're on the right track. Be OK with being wrong so you can get things right.

Kalmyks are tribal Mongolic people who settled in Russia. It's estimated to be only 300,000 Kalmyk descendants worldwide - with only 3,000 in America.



Grandpa and his Grandma ❤️


oph.

and this has whst to do with her being keot from her family and having no access to her funds?

bvbbbbbbbb nice TRY

 :omf:

I. Hate. Monica.

I figured it was her son when the report came out that he was spending 20k a month on Uber eats

Barbie Dangerous

February 12, 2025, 09:26:12 PM #12 Last Edit: February 12, 2025, 09:26:23 PM by Barbie Dangerous
Quote from: Zankou. on February 12, 2025, 09:14:56 PMI figured it was her son when the report came out that he was spending 20k a month on Uber eats
I think you should probably focus on your own finances, or lack thereof.



stillpretty

February 12, 2025, 09:36:47 PM #14 Last Edit: February 12, 2025, 09:42:07 PM by The First Black Kalmyks
Quote from: Zankou. on February 12, 2025, 09:14:56 PMI figured it was her son when the report came out that he was spending 20k a month on Uber eats
!!

people refused to believe it as if it was some highly imaginative REACH

sffsfssffssffs

of course her 24 year old son is wreaking havoc on her finances and needed to be stopped

and even executive produced that horrid documentary. and pocketed cash from clearly exploiting Wendy at her lowest point.

i think it would be different if Wendy had a decent husband in the picture who coulda kinda give a :calmdownsis: mess owt to leeching/possibly toxic family members

but thats just not the case.

it's clear she needs protection from her family. as opposed to being pushed into their "care".

thats pretty much the bottom line
Project started: 2014
Wrapped up: 2024

Significant Discovery: First known Black American family of Kalmyk descent

Takeaways: Be prepared to pivot, even when you think you're on the right track. Be OK with being wrong so you can get things right.

Kalmyks are tribal Mongolic people who settled in Russia. It's estimated to be only 300,000 Kalmyk descendants worldwide - with only 3,000 in America.



Grandpa and his Grandma ❤️