not him "exposing" this guy

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The Only BLACK Kalmyks

October 08, 2025, 01:34:55 PM Last Edit: October 08, 2025, 01:45:51 PM by The Only BLACK Kalmyks
so at 55 years old he wanted to/tried date a 28 year old

and is shocked and appalled that he asked him for a coin.

calling him a "scammer" - when he asked for bday money

so he wanted to date and fuck someone young enough to be his college graduate son
a 27 year age difference....and expected to go half and half with him. do the whole 50/50 thing

and is now accusing the younger guy of being a scammer, unrealistic or whatever

"scamming" implies deceit of some sort. he didn't lie to you or give you a sob story. he asked for bday money. it was your choice to say yes or no, not run to the internet and say he's a scammer.

at what point do you realize that your expectations are unrealistic and that you, as someone way older than him should be embarrassed to even share this story. let alone try to use it as ammo to expose and humiliate him

fucking yuck. talk about wanting to have ur cake and eat it too. he's only exposing his own immaturity by running to the net with this, and even putting that guy's name out there.
if you wanna be 50/50 go find someone you're equally yolked with - in all areas.

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Ulysses

October 08, 2025, 01:43:46 PM #1 Last Edit: October 08, 2025, 01:47:36 PM by Ulysses
The guy is trash for asking for money, honestly.

That was most likely the 28 year old's hopes. Have a daddy to pay his way through life.

28 is plenty old to go 50/50 when dating no matter the other person's age :dead:

The Only BLACK Kalmyks

October 08, 2025, 01:50:25 PM #2 Last Edit: October 08, 2025, 01:54:37 PM by The Only BLACK Kalmyks
Quote from: Ulysses on October 08, 2025, 01:43:46 PMThat was most likely the 28 year old's hopes. Have a daddy to pay his way through life.

Well .....yeah!

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That's my thing

Like why is he shocked? :uhh:

He's 27 years younger than you. Like the age difference in ITSELF is as old as he is. :uhh:

 He might think that you're getting something valuable out of the deal (getting to fuck/date someone much younger...which a lot of men VERY MUCH find value in...kinda weird especially when it's a huge gap, but many do)

and he wants to feel compensated with something of value too.

some people are just a lot more upfront with being transactional in relationships/dealings with men. that doesn't make him a "scammer".

you're old enough to be his daddy so he's treating you like a daddy. case closed
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Ulysses

October 08, 2025, 01:57:11 PM #3 Last Edit: October 08, 2025, 01:58:30 PM by Ulysses
I suppose they could be considered a "scammer" if they went into it acting like they wanted this to be a serious thing.

Not every young person that gets involved with someone much older is just in it for money. Although that is very typical behavior in the gay community when it comes to age differences. There are still folks out there looking to be serious and not just transactional.

The Only BLACK Kalmyks

October 08, 2025, 02:00:01 PM #4 Last Edit: October 08, 2025, 02:01:53 PM by The Only BLACK Kalmyks
Quote from: Ulysses on October 08, 2025, 01:57:11 PMI suppose they could be considered a "scammer" if they went into it acting like they wanted this to be a serious thing.

Not every young person that gets involved with someone much older is just in it for money. Although that is very typical gay behavior in the gay community when it comes to age differences. There are still folks out there looking to be serious and not just transactional.
he barely knew this guy

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he was basically just tryna see if Walter was willing to be a daddy tea before he wasted his time
if anything he did Walter a favor by letting him know what he wanted beforehand and he's still BUTTHURT on the internet "exposing" him

its almost like he's actually really upset/disappointed that the guy wasn't genuinely interested in him
so he's calling him names and dragging him

 :uhh: like...grow up
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Ulysses

Now see. This is where we always differ. I'm never here for faggotry. That typical behavior is not cute and never okay

Purple Moon

Why is he 55 and looking for attention on the internet
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...


The Only BLACK Kalmyks

October 08, 2025, 03:29:11 PM #8 Last Edit: October 08, 2025, 03:29:57 PM by The Only BLACK Kalmyks
Quote from: I. Hate. Monica. on October 08, 2025, 02:54:26 PMI've always thought this man was weird. Idk what it is
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He touts himself as this "tell it like it is!" realist

But it's clear he needs a dose of reality himself
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The Only BLACK Kalmyks

October 08, 2025, 06:52:28 PM #11 Last Edit: October 08, 2025, 06:57:48 PM by The Only BLACK Kalmyks
at least some of his fans are in the comments giving him something other than "oof! u sure told him!"

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QuoteHe doesn't sound like a scammer.  Scammers lie in order to get what they want.  He was being VERY honest about what he wanted, money.


i'd say calling this man a "scammer" and giving out his name after providing context that clearly isn't scammy, is flirting with "defamation of character".

this guy is actually the OPPOSITE of a scammer. he was extremely upfront with him. didn't wrap the request in a sob story, or a marriage proposal
he said "it's my birthday, gimme money."

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tacky IMO. and definitely BOLD. but not a scam.
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Significant Discovery: First known Black American family of Kalmyk descent

Takeaways: Be prepared to pivot, even when you think you're on the right track. Be OK with being wrong so you can get things right.

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Ulysses

October 08, 2025, 07:42:21 PM #12 Last Edit: October 08, 2025, 07:42:47 PM by Ulysses
I see what you're saying now. Makes sense. So he should be actually calling him "trash" instead of "scammer"

He was probably just being polite

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