the spicy NY gorls migrating to the south

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ATLien

Today at 02:06:18 AM Last Edit: Today at 02:07:28 AM by I'm Every (Wo)Man
there prob should be a pamphlet given to them advising them to drop certain words from their vocabulary

before gettin off that plane into historically Jim Crow territory

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the gorls are NOT gonna "understand" someone who they don't identify as Black saying it. especially not in the heat of an argument

the way Granmda MOVED out the way soon as it came out her mouth. she KNEW it was time for mess

We gon tip owt on the moon.



Grandpa and his grandma

Ulysses


BetterAngels

I just deal with a situation like this.  My partners niece is dating a Mexico and we went to go visit.  His sisters boyfriends kept saying the "N" word.  You should have seen the way we kept looking around the room at each other  :fuming: He did apologize when he realized we don't roll like that.  That's why "we" shouldn't allow it period.

ATLien

Today at 07:35:16 AM #3 Last Edit: Today at 07:40:55 AM by I'm Every (Wo)Man
Quote from: BetterAngels on Today at 06:57:15 AMI just deal with a situation like this.  My partners niece is dating a Mexico and we went to go visit.  His sisters boyfriends kept saying the "N" word.  You should have seen the way we kept looking around the room at each other  :fuming: He did apologize when he realized we don't roll like that.  That's why "we" shouldn't allow it period.
i think it's one of those things that can become a slippery slope

cuz there's so much diversity among Latinos

People like Cardi who are generationally mixed and Black identifying ....there are Black people who see her as Black/Afro-Latina but then there are Black people who see her as "other". 

So she has some black folks SUPER uncomfortable with her throwing around "nigga" every 5 seconds in her songs while others don't have an issue

But I'd say for the most part "stereotypically" Mexican people usually don't pass as Black or black-descendant at all. They're mainly a mix of Natives and Spaniards

It's really the Dominicans , Puerto Ricans.....those with more African mixture that is visible many times that can really make this conversation of "who gets to say it?" slippery and tricky af

Unless the gorls just flat out say..."if you ain't of African-American lineage ... as in, you are NOT able to trace your family roots here in America where all this mess started - meaning your ancestors were NOT subject to hearing it, you can't reclaim and use the word."


We gon tip owt on the moon.



Grandpa and his grandma

FUCK Bey

NYC is my favorite place in the world but I'm never moving the fuck back.


klappa.

Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 07:40:42 AMNYC is my favorite place in the world but I'm never moving the fuck back.

ran ur ass right up outta there, huh

 :nogrammynoneck:

ATLien

Today at 09:02:15 AM #6 Last Edit: Today at 09:25:46 AM by I'm Every (Wo)Man
Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 07:40:42 AMNYC is my favorite place in the world but I'm never moving the fuck back.
where are u now?

I love NYC but I always knew (and dreamed) I'd somehow end up in Atlanta.

Just always felt like home even though I'm not from here

NYC is home so I stan by default but Atlanta is the one city that had me stanning just cuz it's Atlanta

Fnnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnf

We gon tip owt on the moon.



Grandpa and his grandma

ATLien

Today at 09:11:17 AM #7 Last Edit: Today at 09:13:21 AM by I'm Every (Wo)Man
bitch

am a certified ATLien!  :feelinmyself:

We gon tip owt on the moon.



Grandpa and his grandma

FUCK Bey

Quote from: klappa. on Today at 08:57:41 AM
Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 07:40:42 AMNYC is my favorite place in the world but I'm never moving the fuck back.

ran ur ass right up outta there, huh

 :nogrammynoneck:
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I left during covid and moved to Cali for a bit. I didn't realize how exhausting NYC was until I left. It was amazing during my 20s, but now in my 30s, I could never... I get anxiety at the THOUGHT of moving back. I always planned to eventually return, but I just don't see it anymore. :dead:




FUCK Bey

Today at 10:37:07 AM #9 Last Edit: Today at 10:38:04 AM by FUCK Bey
Quote from: I'm Every (Wo)Man on Today at 09:02:15 AM
Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 07:40:42 AMNYC is my favorite place in the world but I'm never moving the fuck back.
where are u now?

I love NYC but I always knew (and dreamed) I'd somehow end up in Atlanta.

Just always felt like home even though I'm not from here

NYC is home so I stan by default but Atlanta is the one city that had me stanning just cuz it's Atlanta

Fnnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnf


Im in ATL too but im about to move again. DJSJDJSMDJSJDMNDNDNNSDNNDNDMD

I came for my internship placement. ATL is such a vibe, fun, and COMFORTABLE, I love it here.. but professionally there's really no growth here (at least in healthcare) unless you're in entrepreneurship. I've been interviewing in Boston, DC, and Florida, so we'll see where I land.

But ATL was the first place I lived that I wasnt comparing to NYC though. I just settled in and adapted instantly. It's the perfect balance of fun and EASE.


JCJ

Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 10:37:07 AM
Quote from: I'm Every (Wo)Man on Today at 09:02:15 AM
Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 07:40:42 AMNYC is my favorite place in the world but I'm never moving the fuck back.
where are u now?

I love NYC but I always knew (and dreamed) I'd somehow end up in Atlanta.

Just always felt like home even though I'm not from here

NYC is home so I stan by default but Atlanta is the one city that had me stanning just cuz it's Atlanta

Fnnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnf


Im in ATL too but im about to move again. DJSJDJSMDJSJDMNDNDNNSDNNDNDMD

I came for my internship placement. ATL is such a vibe, fun, and COMFORTABLE, I love it here.. but professionally there's really no growth here (at least in healthcare) unless you're in entrepreneurship. I've been interviewing in Boston, DC, and Florida, so we'll see where I land.

But ATL was the first place I lived that I wasnt comparing to NYC though. I just settled in and adapted instantly. It's the perfect balance of fun and EASE.

Imagining you in a healthcare environment is sending me for some reason dbhdhdhdbf

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ATLien

Today at 11:05:36 AM #11 Last Edit: Today at 11:09:08 AM by I'm Every (Wo)Man
Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 10:37:07 AM
Quote from: I'm Every (Wo)Man on Today at 09:02:15 AM
Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 07:40:42 AMNYC is my favorite place in the world but I'm never moving the fuck back.
where are u now?

I love NYC but I always knew (and dreamed) I'd somehow end up in Atlanta.

Just always felt like home even though I'm not from here

NYC is home so I stan by default but Atlanta is the one city that had me stanning just cuz it's Atlanta

Fnnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnf


Im in ATL too but im about to move again. DJSJDJSMDJSJDMNDNDNNSDNNDNDMD

I came for my internship placement. ATL is such a vibe, fun, and COMFORTABLE, I love it here.. but professionally there's really no growth here (at least in healthcare) unless you're in entrepreneurship. I've been interviewing in Boston, DC, and Florida, so we'll see where I land.

But ATL was the first place I lived that I wasnt comparing to NYC though. I just settled in and adapted instantly. It's the perfect balance of fun and EASE.
gor i prob beat ur ass on peachtree and didnt even know it was u.  :stressed:

Atlanta is kinda perfect cuz you def get that big city/urban vibe but its mixed with southern hospitality.

the biggest wake up call for me living here was although i always bought into Atlanta being the "Black Mecca", almost like it's own planet or island tea.....

when u actually live here and settle in you def get a reminder that this is still an American city, and this is still the deep south.

sfnsfjsjfnnsfjnsfjnsjsns

aesthetically it's still the Blackest city in America IMO
like the way it's decorated, the Black history everywhere here downtown....

i love it and i literally bask in it. :blessed:

but i realized that framing Atlanta a certain way kinda ignores the many Black people here who are struggling, the enormous income gaps/disparities, and even those who have been displaced by things like gentrification

so i've been very carefully intentional about the way i discuss Atlanta now, especially with those who are considering coming here and need to know what's tea


We gon tip owt on the moon.



Grandpa and his grandma

FUCK Bey

Quote from: JCJ on Today at 11:01:07 AM
Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 10:37:07 AM
Quote from: I'm Every (Wo)Man on Today at 09:02:15 AM
Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 07:40:42 AMNYC is my favorite place in the world but I'm never moving the fuck back.
where are u now?

I love NYC but I always knew (and dreamed) I'd somehow end up in Atlanta.

Just always felt like home even though I'm not from here

NYC is home so I stan by default but Atlanta is the one city that had me stanning just cuz it's Atlanta

Fnnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnf


Im in ATL too but im about to move again. DJSJDJSMDJSJDMNDNDNNSDNNDNDMD

I came for my internship placement. ATL is such a vibe, fun, and COMFORTABLE, I love it here.. but professionally there's really no growth here (at least in healthcare) unless you're in entrepreneurship. I've been interviewing in Boston, DC, and Florida, so we'll see where I land.

But ATL was the first place I lived that I wasnt comparing to NYC though. I just settled in and adapted instantly. It's the perfect balance of fun and EASE.

Imagining you in a healthcare environment is sending me for some reason dbhdhdhdbf
DHDHFJJDJRKDKFKDKDKKRKRJKRKRKEKDJDJJSVBHDND


 :omgwatshappening:


FUCK Bey

Quote from: I'm Every (Wo)Man on Today at 11:05:36 AM
Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 10:37:07 AM
Quote from: I'm Every (Wo)Man on Today at 09:02:15 AM
Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 07:40:42 AMNYC is my favorite place in the world but I'm never moving the fuck back.
where are u now?

I love NYC but I always knew (and dreamed) I'd somehow end up in Atlanta.

Just always felt like home even though I'm not from here

NYC is home so I stan by default but Atlanta is the one city that had me stanning just cuz it's Atlanta

Fnnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnf


Im in ATL too but im about to move again. DJSJDJSMDJSJDMNDNDNNSDNNDNDMD

I came for my internship placement. ATL is such a vibe, fun, and COMFORTABLE, I love it here.. but professionally there's really no growth here (at least in healthcare) unless you're in entrepreneurship. I've been interviewing in Boston, DC, and Florida, so we'll see where I land.

But ATL was the first place I lived that I wasnt comparing to NYC though. I just settled in and adapted instantly. It's the perfect balance of fun and EASE.
gor i prob beat ur ass on peachtree and didnt even know it was u.  :stressed:

Atlanta is kinda perfect cuz you def get that big city/urban vibe but its mixed with southern hospitality.

the biggest wake up call for me living here was although i always bought into Atlanta being the "Black Mecca", almost like it's own planet or island tea.....

when u actually live here and settle in you def get a reminder that this is still an American city, and this is still the deep south.

sfnsfjsjfnnsfjnsfjnsjsns

aesthetically it's still the Blackest city in America IMO
like the way it's decorated, the Black history everywhere here downtown....

i love it and i literally bask in it. :blessed:

but i realized that framing Atlanta a certain way kinda ignores the many Black people here who are struggling, the enormous income gaps/disparities, and even those who have been displaced by things like gentrification

so i've been very carefully intentional about the way i discuss Atlanta now, especially with those who are considering coming here and need to know what's tea



!!!! It's the black MECCA, an instant sense of belonging. But because of that, the opportunities feel kinda limited. ALL black professionals are migrating here. It's literally "overcapacity" like the natives say.


BetterAngels

Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 10:37:07 AM
Quote from: I'm Every (Wo)Man on Today at 09:02:15 AM
Quote from: FUCK Bey on Today at 07:40:42 AMNYC is my favorite place in the world but I'm never moving the fuck back.
where are u now?

I love NYC but I always knew (and dreamed) I'd somehow end up in Atlanta.

Just always felt like home even though I'm not from here

NYC is home so I stan by default but Atlanta is the one city that had me stanning just cuz it's Atlanta

Fnnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnfnf


Im in ATL too but im about to move again. DJSJDJSMDJSJDMNDNDNNSDNNDNDMD

I came for my internship placement. ATL is such a vibe, fun, and COMFORTABLE, I love it here.. but professionally there's really no growth here (at least in healthcare) unless you're in entrepreneurship. I've been interviewing in Boston, DC, and Florida, so we'll see where I land.

But ATL was the first place I lived that I wasnt comparing to NYC though. I just settled in and adapted instantly. It's the perfect balance of fun and EASE.

I'm a native FL, and I can tell you FL now sucks.  The politics of the state are becoming more Draconian.  The influx of MAGA coming here during COVID made things even worse. I live in SoFL and the traffic is insane and you better be learning Spanish to get a job if you are coming to Miami  :dead:

The only reason I haven't moved yet is because of my mom getting older and I want to be near her, and my partner has a job with a pension tied to us staying here