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Really terrible friends in here

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[United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳]

It sounds like the friend is going THROUGH it. She really shouldn't've had a reception to begin with if it was already scaled-down yet STILL making HER suffer financially.

[FUCK Bey]

Ask your damn family 

[FUCK Bey]

I would've been completely fine and understanding with not being invited. I get wanting something small and family-only.

My issue is asking me for money after excluding me.... Yall are saying you're a bad friend for declining, but honestly, I think it makes THEM a questionable friend. That's so inconsiderate and GHETTO to ask someone to help fund a ceremony they weren't even included in.

I understand the whole "if you invite one friend, you have to invite them all" logic. But if you feel comfortable enough to ask me for financial support, the least you could've done is come back and include me in the moment.

That says a lot about how that person thinks and how they value the friendship. I understand where some of yall coming from.... GENUINELY.... But I think it says more about the BRIDE as a friend and how they operate.

Truthfully.... I probably would've supported... and quietly move away from the friendship.

[Vonc2002]

This isn't about their ceremony tho. People get married ALL the time and it's just family that's there or its a very small and intimate ceremony. Im ASSUMING in this scenario,  it's someone that im not questioning their friendship. If someone has shown up in my life as a good friend otherwise but they chose to celebrate their day in this way then I'm not taking that personally. I'm not talking about the mf that's been a bad friend, I wasn't invited to the wedding,  THEN they asking me for money.  It sounds like in alot of these responses yall taking something personal and made it about you and it really has nothing to do with u. So if they came to you and just asked for money and didn't disclose what it was for then you would give money? It just sounds a Lil petty to me.  Ion like when mfs figure out a way to be the victim in a situation that really ain't fr b about them.  Now,  I'll say this. If I found out other friends were invited and u wasn't then THAT might change things. But even then,
Im a communicator. So I would tell them that I'm offended that other friends were invited but i wasn't but then you're coming to me to help fund an event that i wasn't invited to.  Id respectfully decline and redirect them to the friends they did decide to invite.  But if it's just small or close family then I'm not taking that personally. I lowkey don't wanna go to someone's wedding ANYWAY!