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[Kalifornia.]

Ask your family

[ATLien]

i was thinking "well if its just family thats what she wanted"

til i kept reading to see she needed coin specifically because of the wedding

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no wonder so many marriages end so quickly in divorce

[ReVonIsMine]

    

[Justice Jackson]

I wouldn't give her anything for this

If anything I would have just bought something off the registry before the wedding, even though I wasn't invited. That's the extent of my "grace"

 

[RAY7]

That is so bold

[JCJ]

They definitely made this story up

[Vonc2002]

I may give a lil sumn for a wedding gift tbh. It said LEND. So, yea. Don't make it personal.  This was a day about them.  How does it become about you?

[ATLien]

if i gave i'd prob just gift it.

if someone's in a tough financial situation already honestly i would assume they're gonna be in one for a while
those things can be very cyclical, and borrowing money to just give it back rarely helps anyone IMO. you need to try and get ahead ideally, not just get back to square 1.

lending to friends is so uncomfortable because there's literally a debt lingering over ur friendship once you do that. if i am blessed enough to be in a place where i can gift it and not be worried about it breaking my wallet, i just gift it

and proactively relieve them (and me tbh) of any feeling that they "owe me".

[FUCK Bey]

Ask your damn family 

[FUCK Bey]

I'm not close enough to come but close enough for you to ask me to pay for it?

 

[JCJ]

Ask your damn family 

!!!

[Ulysses]

Yea. It prolly just means that she has been struggling financially. Especially having a small wedding.

A good friend would help rather than being salty about not being invited to her lil wedding

[ATLien]

Yea. It prolly just means that she has been struggling financially. Especially having a small wedding.

thats what i was thinking

could be a situation where if you let ONE person other than ur family get in...other non-family members will find out once those pics start gettin posted and be like "why SHE got in ur wedding and not me?  she aint family either! "

those things can get really nasty very quickly .... so it's best to strictly adhere to a "family only" mess and give no one a pass, if thats what ur budget allows..or hell it could just be a preference or how they imagined their special day.

so if someone told me "family only" i wouldn't be offended. there's obviously a reason behind it...which is prob none of my business but that's a boundary they've set for THEIR moment. and being a good friend is also about respecting set boundaries.

i don't even need to know the reason behind it.

[Vonc2002]

Really terrible friends in here