"ooooh! ooohh! pick me daddy! sign me up!!!
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this clip is full of red flags and only a few in the comments are showing critical thinking and asking valid questions.
u can kinda tell that a lot of people in the comments haven't actually dealt with a man who has a personality/profile type like this before. so it seems so perfect and like a dream come true.
you'd think we never saw that video of Diddy playing kickball with Cassie's skull down a hotel hallway just a few months ago.....looking at these responses. a whole got damn case study on mess like this unfolded before our eyes and here we are still aloof to the tea.
there's nothing better than a successful handsome man like Carlos. he is indeed a "catch". but you have to pay attention to what's coming out of a man's mouth and what they lead with. be ready to check them when necessary and set boundaries and clear expectations on how you will be treated. if they can't get with that, adios.
and more importantly, be ready to leave at a moment's notice if you have to. and be in a position where u can leave at any point you want to and not have to worry about your lights getting cut off as a result.
men who carry themselves like this are used to people just giving them an "oh yessa massa!" tea. but you might be surprised how some of them respond to potential partners who PUSH BACK on their mess and draw lines.
Ryan Serhant (famous realtor who has a show on Netflix)...said that's what his wife did when he first met her. she was the first one to do it. And she got a ring and his respect...not a roll around on his mattress and dismissal once he got tired of playing around with and mind fucking her.
and Ryan's wife was already a lawyer when she met him - meaning she had her own bag (not nearly as big as his but her own tea) and she had a BRAIN.
i'd say men like this are usually smart enough to tell when someone is trying to play/perform a "i aint takin no mess from no nigga! cuz im a boss bitch! GRRR!!" tea and when someone is actually that assertive, up on game, and actually means business. it'll simply surprise them in certain conversations as opposed to someone leading with it.
