Quote from: BENTLEY! on March 02, 2016, 12:23:13 AM
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on March 02, 2016, 12:20:46 AM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on March 02, 2016, 12:15:35 AM
stan wars aside
this is wrong and I don't agree with it

thats why black children and black men continue to fail and die. if we continue with this ghetto mentality 
am mean. I totally agree
these "baby mothers" have to stop playing hot potato with our young men
for the simple fact when her and Russ break up, all that boy will know is men leaving his life
let his biological ddy watch him while you work and stop being petty Ciara

No the problem is black men fathering children and then leaving the mom to go spread more seeds! No body would have to play hot potato if these men were being responsible role models for their children. The other problem is women are moving on to guys who still arent about shit! Thats not what Ciara has done!
Its not only women that are the problem and Im kind of sick of the finger being pointed at them when the MEN are not accoutable for toying with these womens hearts and getting them pregnant, then leaving......talking shit as they walk away.
No women should be forced to live in solidarity because her childs father isnt a stand up guy. No women should accept scraps from a nigga when she knows she's worth the whole pie. Ciara moved on to a better man and role model for her son. She would be a fucking fool to hide this man and/or act as if she doesnt have a child while dating Russ. Its important that a man knows you come as a package deal because at some point thats what you're gonna be. You cant date a man for 2 years privately and then spring them into your childs life because you now feel comfortable with him. Thats why so many kids hate their step parents. One day mom is alone and then a year later shes planning a wedding to a man you dont even fucking know. Moving into a house where he expects you to see him as a father. Where's the logic.....especially when a man like future is fucking so many chicks he cant even keep count.
So many women waste their life trying to be respectful to man who doesnt give a fuck about how they feel. You lonely with his kids and he's re married somewhere playing house with that chick kids.