Toxic & abusive friendships

Started by LOONA., March 05, 2016, 08:08:10 PM

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LOONA.

When is it time to call it quits?

:stressed:   

yummy

Depends...I can forgive a mistake if I see it was a genuine mistake and the friend is working on not letting it happen again.

One thing I can't stand is a stubborn ass person who won't admit when their wrong and won't bother to change. Major sign of immaturity.

death


LOONA.

Quote from: ANIMMAI on March 05, 2016, 08:13:31 PM


One thing I can't stand is a stubborn ass person who won't admit when their wrong and won't bother to change. Major sign of immaturity.

That's basically what it is.   

yummy

Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 08:18:33 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on March 05, 2016, 08:13:31 PM


One thing I can't stand is a stubborn ass person who won't admit when their wrong and won't bother to change. Major sign of immaturity.

That's basically what it is.   

hmm...what happened?


Hatsumomo

Maya Angelou once said that when a person shows you who they truly are , believe them . You need to immediately distance yourself from narcissistic toxic people who drain the life out of you . Your happiness is at stake . Fuck that forgiving shit . You come first .

LOONA.

Quote from: ANIMMAI on March 05, 2016, 08:19:20 PM
Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 08:18:33 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on March 05, 2016, 08:13:31 PM


One thing I can't stand is a stubborn ass person who won't admit when their wrong and won't bother to change. Major sign of immaturity.

That's basically what it is.   

hmm...what happened?



Had to beat this boy down, for the second time.   


yummy

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was this over a man?


LOONA.

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Not necessarily over a man but he was the cause of it.

My friend has feelings for me but I haven't returned them because I've specifically stated I don't want to be in a relationship. A male friend and I literally hung out for a few hours and he went ballistic on me when he found out. I can't keep tolerating this nonsense.   


:omgwatshappening:

downtownbrown

Quote from: ANIMMAI on March 05, 2016, 08:13:31 PM
Depends...I can forgive a mistake if I see it was a genuine mistake and the friend is working on not letting it happen again.

One thing I can't stand is a stubborn ass person who won't admit when their wrong and won't bother to change. Major sign of immaturity.

FUCKING PREACH!!!!!!!

ESPECIALLY true with romantic relationships! As SOON as you notice that shit, RUN!

yummy

Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 08:29:59 PM
vvcccxxxxxxxxxx

Not necessarily over a man but he was the cause of it.

My friend has feelings for me but I haven't returned them because I've specifically stated I don't want to be in a relationship. A male friend and I literally hung out for a few hours and he went ballistic on me when he found out. I can't keep tolerating this nonsense.   


:omgwatshappening:

how long have you known this friend?

he needs to get a damn clue and move on. the drama isn't going to conjure any romantic feelings, it's only gonna result in him losing a friend.

BigDawg

Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 08:29:59 PM
vvcccxxxxxxxxxx

Not necessarily over a man but he was the cause of it.

My friend has feelings for me but I haven't returned them because I've specifically stated I don't want to be in a relationship. A male friend and I literally hung out for a few hours and he went ballistic on me when he found out. I can't keep tolerating this nonsense.   


:omgwatshappening:
Cut him loose. Your friend should respect your wishes. If he was a real friend he would be happy for you, with whomever you choose to decide to spend your time with.  He sounds kind of co-dependent.

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 08:29:59 PM
vvcccxxxxxxxxxx

Not necessarily over a man but he was the cause of it.

My friend has feelings for me but I haven't returned them because I've specifically stated I don't want to be in a relationship. A male friend and I literally hung out for a few hours and he went ballistic on me when he found out. I can't keep tolerating this nonsense.   


:omgwatshappening:

If Pons doesn't go get some helps

:everythingok:


LOONA.

Quote from: ANIMMAI on March 05, 2016, 08:32:29 PM
Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 08:29:59 PM
vvcccxxxxxxxxxx

Not necessarily over a man but he was the cause of it.

My friend has feelings for me but I haven't returned them because I've specifically stated I don't want to be in a relationship. A male friend and I literally hung out for a few hours and he went ballistic on me when he found out. I can't keep tolerating this nonsense.   


:omgwatshappening:

how long have you known this friend?

he needs to get a damn clue and move on. the drama isn't going to conjure any romantic feelings, it's only gonna result in him losing a friend.

Almost 2 years

And I kinda told him right off the bat I'm not dating or fucking anybody but he still doesn't get it. I'm not the type who just removes people from my life, especially if we've gone through some mess together. IDK I just don't understand why he can't find someone else. He's constantly being approached by others so I wanna know what's so special about my quiet and boring ass.

I CANNOT keep dealing with this toxic mess.


:uhh:

downtownbrown

Sounds like you guys may have fucked once or twice...or, at the very least, messed a bit...

If not, he's just crazy then sis. :dead: