Toxic & abusive friendships

Started by LOONA., March 05, 2016, 08:08:10 PM

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L0NZ.

Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 08:29:59 PM
vvcccxxxxxxxxxx

Not necessarily over a man but he was the cause of it.

My friend has feelings for me but I haven't returned them because I've specifically stated I don't want to be in a relationship. A male friend and I literally hung out for a few hours and he went ballistic on me when he found out. I can't keep tolerating this nonsense.   


:omgwatshappening:

The only thing toxic is the jealousy he has because he's probably in love with you. It will only get worse because you will always be you and he will always be him, with feelings for you. He can't decide to put them away one day.


charlie.

Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 10:26:59 PM
fffff

We did mess a BIT but never had full out sex.

:supluv:

But.....he's still cray cray  :dead:   



dsssss

u must have gave him sum' to remember huh
:justabit:

LOONA.

Quote from: L0NZ. on March 05, 2016, 11:57:42 PM
Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 08:29:59 PM
vvcccxxxxxxxxxx

Not necessarily over a man but he was the cause of it.

My friend has feelings for me but I haven't returned them because I've specifically stated I don't want to be in a relationship. A male friend and I literally hung out for a few hours and he went ballistic on me when he found out. I can't keep tolerating this nonsense.   


:omgwatshappening:

The only thing toxic is the jealousy he has because he's probably in love with you. It will only get worse because you will always be you and he will always be him, with feelings for you. He can't decide to put them away one day.

The thing is though he told me recently he wasn't in love with me anymore and the feelings aren't as strong as they were in the past.

I just don't know what to DO.   



L0NZ.

Quote from: Drais. on March 06, 2016, 12:00:10 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on March 05, 2016, 11:57:42 PM
Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 08:29:59 PM
vvcccxxxxxxxxxx

Not necessarily over a man but he was the cause of it.

My friend has feelings for me but I haven't returned them because I've specifically stated I don't want to be in a relationship. A male friend and I literally hung out for a few hours and he went ballistic on me when he found out. I can't keep tolerating this nonsense.   


:omgwatshappening:

The only thing toxic is the jealousy he has because he's probably in love with you. It will only get worse because you will always be you and he will always be him, with feelings for you. He can't decide to put them away one day.

The thing is though he told me recently he wasn't in love with me anymore and the feelings aren't as strong as they were in the past.



And he spazzed because? Wake up bby.

He only said that to make you feel like there wasn't any pressure, which would possibly make you exit at a faster pace.


LOONA.

So I just end the friendship?

Le sigh   



:uhm:


L0NZ.

Quote from: Drais. on March 06, 2016, 12:12:31 AM
So I just end the friendship?

Le sigh   



:uhm:

I mean how close are ya'll? If you're talking every day and ki'ing over Starbucks and nordstrom bags then stop that shit. Just distance yourself. You don't have to terminate the friendship completely but let it fizzle to where its comfortable for you. Hopefully during the process he'll actually, genuinely lose feelings for you.



downtownbrown

Quote from: L0NZ. on March 06, 2016, 12:16:07 AM
Quote from: Drais. on March 06, 2016, 12:12:31 AM
So I just end the friendship?

Le sigh   



:uhm:

I mean how close are ya'll? If you're talking every day and ki'ing over Starbucks and nordstrom bags then stop that shit.

ssssssssss

LOONA.

Quote from: L0NZ. on March 06, 2016, 12:16:07 AM
Quote from: Drais. on March 06, 2016, 12:12:31 AM
So I just end the friendship?

Le sigh   



:uhm:

I mean how close are ya'll? If you're talking every day and ki'ing over Starbucks and nordstrom bags then stop that shit. Just distance yourself. You don't have to terminate the friendship completely but let it fizzle to where its comfortable for you. Hopefully during the process he'll actually, genuinely lose feelings for you.

We're pretty close. I guess I need to distance myself from him for awhile....again. Smh   

death

Quote from: Herbie on March 06, 2016, 12:13:29 AM
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i will fck u up faggot

Herb.

March 06, 2016, 12:35:01 AM #42 Last Edit: March 06, 2016, 12:36:18 AM by Herbie
Quote from: Drais. on March 05, 2016, 08:08:10 PM
When is it time to call it quits?

:stressed:   

it'll be clear when it's time to punch.

u know the feelings and situation way better than the bsource gorls will.
go on ur intuition hun. if u even have to ask then its probably time to pack your jansport, wigger.

friendship isn't something u should be worried about. it's one of those things that should actually make life easier and more enjoyable.


death


death

March 06, 2016, 12:37:47 AM #44 Last Edit: March 06, 2016, 12:37:57 AM by Blues trans clue
still wann' come down thea & rough tha faggot up for messin wit ya tho bruv

ugh
#protectivebroproblems