27 Questions Black people have for Black people

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Rxxf

Quote from: Keyonc? on April 12, 2016, 09:09:23 PM
Quote from: Rawlf on April 12, 2016, 08:59:07 PM
Quote from: Keyonc? on April 12, 2016, 08:53:01 PM
Quote from: Drais. on April 12, 2016, 08:49:08 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on April 12, 2016, 08:45:46 PM
Quote from: Drais. on April 12, 2016, 08:27:50 PM
Alot of these are pretty valid honestly.   

Some of the questions were valid, some of them sound like shit bougie black people bring up to try and distance themselves from other black people.

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Anybody that isn't seen as stereotypically black growing up in the black community is automatically labeled bougie though. We probably would be.   


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A lot of black people who get labeled as bougie usually have some internalized resentment from being rejected by other black people in their own communities.

maybe
but not from what I've seen
if anything, people perceive successful black friends/family in a different way and place them in that "bougie" area. not the other way around.

It can go both ways.

From my experience, I've seen some black people taunt and antagonize other black people who are "different" or "alternative". That can lead to bitterness, embarrassment, and wanting to disassociate yourself for feeling rejected by those within your own race.  These people weren't necessarily wealthy either, just working class folk who were perceived as different.

Not that their internalized resentment is the right way to go about things.

i actually AGREE with this.
You are right.
It can go both ways
BRANDY

LOONA.

Quote from: sumcatbroad on April 12, 2016, 09:14:26 PM
Quote from: Drais. on April 12, 2016, 09:04:43 PM
I can't really blame Timothy for being "bougie" after growing up in a predominately black school system and being outcasted by his community because he liked soccer instead of basketball, preferred rock to hip hop and wore vests and suits instead of jordans/baggy mess.

Alot of people carry that into their adulthood subconsciously.

I won't blame Keisha for being "ghetto" either for being shipped off to private school her whole life not and being able to relate to all the diversity and being outcasted because she grew up and was only exposed to a certain black culture.

People are just different

:19k:   

The video wreaks of that looking down on others thing you touched on. After watching some of the other clips, I can see these videos were done in jest. But being that black people are some of the most oppressed humans in history, we don't need to be highlighting a bunch of stereotypes for ppl to kii at.

I didn't get TOO much of that honestly.

IDK but I feel like things just need to be discussed a bit more often so the gurs wouldn't get so offended all the time. If we claim to be so "woke" these days then why are we as a community still such a mess? Seems like the gurs would rather wallow in misery and off each other, stay divided and blame the government and honkies for our problems instead of coming together as a community to try and make some change. We all know things were put in place to keep blacks down and out of power in America, but alot of gurs seem to be satisfied with it.

 

yummy

Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 12, 2016, 09:20:53 PM
And Ralf while ur sitting in here talking, are u even fckn black? Ive never even seen u fckn embrace that. 

He's not  :dead:

Vonc2002

Quote from: Real on April 12, 2016, 09:21:00 PM
What kind of black people do you all associate yourself with where you're hearing all these basic ass criticisms
There are alot of basic fckn black people out here and a good portion of them reside in atlanta LOLZ!
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Herb.


Nine


Rxxf

April 12, 2016, 09:26:30 PM #96 Last Edit: April 12, 2016, 09:27:05 PM by Rawlf
and it's not just about MONEY when I say socio-economics Vonc...

It's about KNOWLEDGE... resources... opportunities
do u have a support system? grandparents, parents who push education? values and expectations?
it all plays role
BRANDY

LOONA.

April 12, 2016, 09:26:31 PM #97 Last Edit: April 12, 2016, 09:27:09 PM by Drais.
Quote from: Real on April 12, 2016, 09:21:00 PM
What kind of black people do you all associate yourself with where you're hearing all these basic ass criticisms

For me it isn't about who I associate with now but what I was exposed to growing up as a child. You don't really have much of a choice then.   

LOONA.

Quote from: ANIMMAI on April 12, 2016, 09:25:20 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 12, 2016, 09:20:53 PM
And Ralf while ur sitting in here talking, are u even fckn black? Ive never even seen u fckn embrace that. 

He's not  :dead:

What the damn hell

Ralf wyd hun   

Rxxf

this is a world issue
i have the right to speak regardless of race
it doesn't mean i can identify with a race
but it doesn't mean i can't be apart of the conversation
we all live together
BRANDY

Nine

Quote from: Rawlf on April 12, 2016, 09:28:17 PM
this is a world issue
i have the right to speak regardless of race
it doesn't mean i can identify with a race
but it doesn't mean i can't be apart of the conversation
we all live together
r u black

Vonc2002

Quote from: Rawlf on April 12, 2016, 09:26:30 PM
and it's not just about MONEY when I say socio-economics Vonc...

It's about KNOWLEDGE... resources... opportunities
do u have a support system? grandparents, parents who push education? values and expectations?
it all plays role
What fckn race are u, I SAID  :hmph:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Nine


Rxxf

stop trying to shut people out
you don't have to be the same race to have a conversation about something
it's unjust
BRANDY

King82

Quote from: Cosmic Explorer on April 12, 2016, 09:28:50 PM
Quote from: Rawlf on April 12, 2016, 09:28:17 PM
this is a world issue
i have the right to speak regardless of race
it doesn't mean i can identify with a race
but it doesn't mean i can't be apart of the conversation
we all live together
r u black

  :dead: