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I hate this fckn place

[tigernathan]

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Honestly, not understanding this whole creole mess either. No shade.

[Vonc2002]

[KING BENTLEY.]

Sometimes I feel it is an obsession and sometimes I feel like it could be an identity crisis. Like someone else said, a lot of us don't want to just be seen as AA's because we have been taught that we have no value and neither did our ancestors.

Other times, people just want to know how they came to be. I

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And my grandmother just lights up with excitement when I tell her about what I found. It's crazy to find out that your grandparent who raised you isn't exactly who you thought they were. And to be honest, it's ignorant Black people who say things like "did you perm your hair" ... "what do u do to it to get it like that? " when they see someone with a dark complexion and curly hair, or calling you Ramen Noodle head because your hair isn't of a kinkier texture, that send you off finding answers wondering what the hell is so special or quirky, or fake about a Black person with these features.

And funnily those are the same people who will shade someone for finally going to seek answers. Who actually finds their ancestry is highly admixed, not mixed as in a slavemaster way way back, but mixed as in their grandparent not even being "Black. " Some Black people are insecure and backwards as hell, it's late and I have no time to cater to it. Or even empathize.

I was wrong for saying that and I genuinely apologize

[Herb.]

I have to say that for some reason its becoming more and more clear to me how unhappy some people are here. Maybe its because I'm happy learning about myself, and family, and have just been on a high, and have tried to ignore many of the shots and missiles here and there. Many of which I didn't know where they came from.  One minute people want to follow everything you do and the next they're shading you or trying to tear you down.

It's becoming increasingly late to me here and I just don't even have the energy or desire to argue with many of you. No matter how many single letter responses, curly/stringy hair reads you throw, ancestry shade, etc. I just don't care anymore. And honestly I'm starting to reconsider what places deserves my presence. Because I'm realizing the value in my presence. And what I bring everywhere I go. This place is slowly getting scratched off my list. And no this isn't an exit post, not deleting my account or anything dramatic. I just want to let that be known. And that's all I have to say in here.

[BAPHOMET.]

Before this goes any further. I was just talking about myself not wanting to look further.  nothing to do with 'erb .

[Vonc2002]

Im sorry but this is all so damn extra.  If ur happy with learning about ur fckn heritage than be happy with it.  I honestly don't think most people care tbh. Some have shown interest and that's great, continue catering to those people and fck the rest if ur truly so happy and content. We all bring interests here and get one letter responses depending on what it is, EVEN U DO IT, but of course when it's done to you its all so much more personal. Like gtfoh. I think at this point alot of people are sick of it being shoved down their throats but who cares, right? Arent u doing it for the knowledge?  Do u need for everyone to applaud u for looking deeper into your family tree? Like cut the sob story bullshit.

[tigernathan]

Afro, was that directed towards me?

[LiiVE]

Wth is goin on. All this slick shade

[LOONA.]

Afro, was that directed towards me?

Think that was for Vonc messy self.

[Vonc2002]

Afro, was that directed towards me?

Think that was for Vonc messy self.

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Iono how it's for me tho. When i came in here quoting, i literally read a few posts on the 1st page and like the first couple on the last. I didn't read his posts nor was i looking to passively aggressively shade them.  I think that's why u have to be secure in u and all u do otherwise ur always gonna be on defense

[KING BENTLEY.]

 
I didn't read it all, but it was probably for me guys
because I apologized for something that I posted and I knew hurt his feelings

[tigernathan]

Afro, no one's upset that you're finding out about your family. I think for the most part the people who don't care for it are just staying out of those threads but personally, I'm not understanding the obsession (and yes, it's an obsession) with the small creole percentage. That's why I asked you in the other thread if you found anything about your dad's side and I could tell you weren't feeling my question and that was somewhat telling to me. Sorry. Don't try to make this out to be like everyone is bullying you cause if anything a lot of people are biting their tongues on the matter. I don't know why you expect ppl on here to bring out the balloons and confetti every time you find something new from your ancestry research. Like I've said before, you did introduce AncestryDNA on here and I thought it was great but it's becoming too much now. It's a new thing everyday. That's all I'll say cause you seem upset right now. But to put it bluntly, I think you need to aware that these are really just a bunch of ppl who are probably are tired of the constant threads  and posts about Native Americans and Creole. It's not that they're "unhappy," it's really that they're tired of seeing the same posts about your grandmother and family roots. It's becoming more wacky. Sorry. Like every post has "creole" in it or something about your grandmother. We could be talking about the most random shit then I'll scroll down and see "Well, my grandmother is..." and I'm over it. These drawn out sigs like Please, don't be mad at me but this is my honest opinion. It's one thing to be proud but it's another thing to become obsessed.

I had to get this off my chest because I was starting to become annoyed and I luv you and your posts but lately it's like

[LOONA.]

Wtf is happening