Quote from: Herbie's Podcast on April 26, 2016, 12:26:46 AM
Iman I love you but if I'm being honest the whole fiasco recently was nothing but a repeat of what we've been through before. Like three times. I have no problem being nice to people but I'm coming to realize I have been too nice and too forgiving to people.
I'm always the first one to reach out and resolve conflict, ask for peace after something's gone stray. I'm realizing that this doesn't always work. You made a thread that was intended for me, without just saying "Afro get your bitch ass in here I want to drag you a bit". Honestly I would have preferred that. When I said "Why didn't you PM me", I didn't mean "Iman, don't read me on the board". I meant, hey, you can be direct with me. I can take it.
What I cannot tolerate is slick mess. That's not real to me. Honestly I thought you reminded me of my real life sis until you did that. Cuz she would never. If she needed to drag the shit out of me, she'd do it and toss me to lick my wounds. 
And then hug me later. 
But I can only expect but so much from a group of people I have never met before, though.
I need to treat them as such. I try to be nice to everyone and if I like you, I like you. Online or off. But no one here should be expecting any PMs from me to try and make anything right. Or even apologizing for anything I type. I honestly don't care anymore.
Afro, I wasn't being slick at all and that's me being sincere. If you still feel I was being slick shady then I will let you have that but that wasn't the case. If you've seen my posting style you would know that I'm direct towards people on here if I don't like what they're saying. Now in the past have I been shady towards you? Yea, but it was very direct
we had our share of mess but after we talked over PM's, I didn't have any intent to be shady towards you even if you said things I disagreed with.
Again, I can understand your stance. Perhaps we should've talked before I made my thoughts known. You're right so I guess, it was a miscommunication but I'm not the type to be slick shady towards people I genuinely like. PERIOD. That's not my nature at all. That thread wasn't directed at you at all.
I'm not asking for you to baby me. Hell, I like when people tell me shit straight, no chaser. Let me know your feelings, and I share mine. I can see how you felt betrayed a bit since I did share my thoughts in that thread even though we had a bit of a more personal friendship on here. I can apologize for that but I disagree with you trying to paint me as some shady bitch because that's not who I am. I'm honestly over it all at this point. I'm over the constant beefs and I didn't like how 'Lis tried to lump me with the others (no shade) cause I'm not that type of person.
