When your an artist in the business ; that's a job.
There's Monica the singer and Monica the woman, mother, daughter etc
Hence makeuo and transformations and her saying her kids would go to the door and say "Mom, they're looking for Monica!"
They know. She walked away from fame and her full potential. She talked about this in her recent mag interviews as well.
It's time for her to come full circle and seriously become a star and work on her craft again