Serious topic: How do you feel about this? and is this Okay?

Started by BrokenHeartsHeal, May 05, 2016, 01:29:36 AM

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Cartierline

This video is a bit weird but otherwise, I'm not really seeing the issue.

They're in love and they love their children so..?

GYNandTONIC

Is it okay? Yes

How do I feel about it? It's off putting. I feel like as parents we sometimes have to use our better judgement and separate what's best for us, from what's best for our kids. This was for him and his lover with no regard for the light the kids will now stand in. Two white dads with black sons who are encouraging them to kiss is not going to go well on social media. You have to know this as an adult with common sense. So the only reason for posting this IMO is to make a social statement or low key bait for a reaction (because you know you're getting one). If it was merely about love you would have enjoyed your private moment, and be content with not subjecting your children to public shaming on social media. What ever positive feedback or new normal dad of the year award he received isn't worth the spotlight  that is now place on his kids and family. The trade off isn't worth it and I would protect my kids from social media trolls.


BAPHOMET.



Vonc2002

Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 02:50:52 AM
Is it okay? Yes

How do I feel about it? It's off putting. I feel like as parents we sometimes have to use our better judgement and separate what's best for us, from what's best for our kids. This was for him and his lover with no regard for the light the kids will now stand in. Two white dads with black sons who are encouraging them to kiss is not going to go well on social media. You have to know this as an adult with common sense. So the only reason for posting this IMO is to make a social statement or low key bait for a reaction (because you know you're getting one). If it was merely about love you would have enjoyed your private moment, and be content with not subjecting your children to public shaming on social media. What ever positive feedback or new normal dad of the year award he received isn't worth the spotlight  that is now place on his kids and family. The trade off isn't worth it and I would protect my kids from social media trolls.
I can agree with this.  They probably posted this to make some sort of statement. i do like that the kids are in what is seemingly a loving environment that promotes qualities that alot of people lack. People are so quick to gripe about bullshit
black bbys tossed with any ol person
Like :uhh:
What's the alternative? Them living their life in the system until theyre tossed into the street once they hit 18. Who gives a fck about what color someone is? These men opened their home and hearts to these kids but yea,  let's focus on them being white and the kids being black :dead: idiots tbh
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Inject My Lips

At first they gave me creepy skinhead vibes, but looking at the other pics you can see that they love those kids. 


SUPREME

Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 03:37:27 AM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 02:50:52 AM
Is it okay? Yes

How do I feel about it? It's off putting. I feel like as parents we sometimes have to use our better judgement and separate what's best for us, from what's best for our kids. This was for him and his lover with no regard for the light the kids will now stand in. Two white dads with black sons who are encouraging them to kiss is not going to go well on social media. You have to know this as an adult with common sense. So the only reason for posting this IMO is to make a social statement or low key bait for a reaction (because you know you're getting one). If it was merely about love you would have enjoyed your private moment, and be content with not subjecting your children to public shaming on social media. What ever positive feedback or new normal dad of the year award he received isn't worth the spotlight  that is now place on his kids and family. The trade off isn't worth it and I would protect my kids from social media trolls.
I can agree with this.  They probably posted this to make some sort of statement. i do like that the kids are in what is seemingly a loving environment that promotes qualities that alot of people lack. People are so quick to gripe about bullshit
black bbys tossed with any ol person
Like :uhh:
What's the alternative? Them living their life in the system until theyre tossed into the street once they hit 18. Who gives a fck about what color someone is? These men opened their home and hearts to these kids but yea,  let's focus on them being white and the kids being black :dead: idiots tbh
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:

GYNandTONIC

My only concern with any race adopting kids from another race is "Are the kids learning about and being exposed to their culture" because IMO that's very important and has a lot to do with self love. The kids know these guys love them but are the kids making strides to love themselves!

I would never adopt a Asian baby and only expose them to things I'm culturally familiar or comfortable with. We would learn about Asia together maybe even take a trip there. I would find some old Asian lady who I could befriend and ask her questions about Asian family dynamics and traditions. I wouldnt want kid idolizing black people simply because they are different and that's all they know.

Cartierline


Nyan Cat

funny...i saw tha clip & saw a happy family

& jus for fckin ends means...i hope they keep postin their family luv in social media
FCK blck social media to be quite damns honest

would ppl be up in arms wit tha adopted kids of brangelina seein them kiss?!
HELL NO

fck them & anyone who'd have a problem wit this


Real


yummy

I don't like the idea of white people adopting black children and using them as an accessory.