Here's my guess on it:
About two weeks ago Tamar was found on social media saying she just got out of an Amazing meeting and was so excited but couldn't say why.
I bet something about the news was music related but had a clause against something like the Real or the hint that she would be taking a lot of time off of the real.
At this point Tamar and Jeannie were kicking it hardcore and even went on a couples trip with Tamar. I think she found out and was excited for Tamar but conflicted. So she confided in Loni about her being torn in her feelings about it; almost innocently.
I think her issue with it was the energy of the show being down in dumps like when she's normally out. But Loni was not only mad about that but something deeper also.
Loni was probably extremely upset about it because she sometimes seems jealous or slightly bitter towards Tamar. Almost like She wants to be Tamar in that she's naturally funny; loved by a man, black, started from a normal black family kinda thing. She always seemed jealous. I think she took that news to producers and made her confirm if it was true or not.
Then Tamar chose the bigger deal and hence is pissed because she had to let go of the real. But then ran to Toni to confide in here and Toni pretty much reaffirmed her that she's TAMAR BRAXTON and that this next album she's working on will be her best yet!
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