Qualities someone MUST have before dating???

Started by Kurama, May 24, 2016, 12:24:29 PM

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yummy

Quote from: z??? on May 24, 2016, 01:14:47 PM
I do love a sweet boyish mess out yeah.

C'mere young man...
:heyddy:

I get the R Kelly obsession now

BAPHOMET.



Kurama

May 24, 2016, 01:27:50 PM #92 Last Edit: May 24, 2016, 01:28:34 PM by Kurama
Yeah,

so I think I need someone to be able to communicate effectively. Conveying both how they feel and think.

Loyalty on all fronts,  I gotta be able to trust you.


I like ppl to be humorous and have a nice personality. Also self-motivated I can't deal with trying to push someone to achieve something for themselves.


I think I have all of these qualities. Well maybe not humor. My sarcastic dry humor may not be accepted by everyone. I also can be pretty flexible for ppl who may lack these. They just have to develop the qualities or have the potential to do so before we get too serious.

GLOCK

Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:21:21 PM
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 24, 2016, 01:19:24 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 01:11:43 PM
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 24, 2016, 01:10:26 PM
I really enjoy someone that knows how to communicate and be vulnerable

ddddd @ these being my biggest problem in EVERY relationship
It really is!
It's sad.. As a Capricorn I use to struggle with these things but as I gotten older I've come into my own..
My dude really lacks these things.. He's such a work in progress tho.
Really enjoying his growth as of late..
He kinda cried to me A couple days back saying he fears me leaving him
I was like :rudone:
But deep inside I was like  :ohwow:
I recognize this in both of u btw, my 2 cents. BYE, lol
I'm sorta perfect FAGG
And I doubt that you'd know how to be vulnerable even it came with a chance to clear those felonies off ur record :nowgorl:

Gilgamesh.

Not trying to a debate but the whole point of a relationship is to find someone that completes you, so I don't think you have to embody all the qualities you're looking for in a mate. That's how I feel about it anyway.

Vonc2002

Quote from: Kurama on May 24, 2016, 01:27:50 PM
Yeah,



I think I have all of these qualities. Well maybe not humor. My sarcastic dry humor may not be accepted by everyone.
f
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





GLOCK

Quote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 01:22:21 PM
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 24, 2016, 01:19:24 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 01:11:43 PM
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 24, 2016, 01:10:26 PM
I really enjoy someone that knows how to communicate and be vulnerable

ddddd @ these being my biggest problem in EVERY relationship
It really is!
It's sad.. As a Capricorn I use to struggle with these things but as I gotten older I've come into my own..
My dude really lacks these things.. He's such a work in progress tho.
Really enjoying his growth as of late..
He kinda cried to me A couple days back saying he fears me leaving him
I was like :rudone:
But deep inside I was like  :ohwow:

:dead:

I just don't like to talk tbh. I mean, if you give me some kinda topic  music, sports, politics, etc. I can go all day. But to sit and talk about my personal thoughts and feelings and shit like that  :usuresis: Or if I'm upset or frustrated or just not having a good day, I don't wanna discuss it. I don't need the help or to vent. Don't understand why that's so hard.

Fuck this country TBH ...
But yes... I don't like to vent at all ..
But I have learned that telling someone how I feel about them increases our chances In a relationship..
Cuz I hate to argue and I feel that being silent about issues or problems end in a huge mess smh

Kurama

Xxbcc

You fags ain't vulnerable. Stop. Herb fck you btw!

Gilgamesh.

But yeah, employed - or at least stable, regular income - creative and funny. I'm very methodical so I like when someone can take me out of my comfort zone a bit.

Vonc2002

May 24, 2016, 01:32:02 PM #99 Last Edit: May 24, 2016, 01:32:30 PM by Vonc2002
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 24, 2016, 01:28:16 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:21:21 PM
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 24, 2016, 01:19:24 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 01:11:43 PM
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 24, 2016, 01:10:26 PM
I really enjoy someone that knows how to communicate and be vulnerable

ddddd @ these being my biggest problem in EVERY relationship
It really is!
It's sad.. As a Capricorn I use to struggle with these things but as I gotten older I've come into my own..
My dude really lacks these things.. He's such a work in progress tho.
Really enjoying his growth as of late..
He kinda cried to me A couple days back saying he fears me leaving him
I was like :rudone:
But deep inside I was like  :ohwow:
I recognize this in both of u btw, my 2 cents. BYE, lol
I'm sorta perfect FAGG
And I doubt that you'd know how to be vulnerable even it came with a chance to clear those felonies off ur record :nowgorl:
f
I dont have an issue communicating and being "vulnerable". Im actually a GREAT communicator
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





charlie.

May 24, 2016, 01:32:49 PM #100 Last Edit: May 24, 2016, 01:33:57 PM by 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕣𝕝𝕚𝕖.
Quote from: Baphomet. on May 24, 2016, 12:40:36 PM
Honest.
Nice Body (im not talking about muscular, just a great build. Slim (not bony) or Athletic)
Great Hygiene.
Funny
Good conversation skills.

My current bf checked all these and if by some reason we dont last the next would HAVE to as well.

This.

And needs to have their appearance together. Know how to dress. (this is small but I really like it)

yummy

Quote from: Gilgamesh. on May 24, 2016, 01:30:24 PM
Not trying to a debate but the whole point of a relationship is to find someone that completes you, so I don't think you have to embody all the qualities you're looking for in a mate. That's how I feel about it anyway.

I don't like the idea of someone else having to complete me.

Does that mean I'm inadequate or less than when I'm not in a relationship?

GLOCK

Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:32:02 PM
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 24, 2016, 01:28:16 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 24, 2016, 01:21:21 PM
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 24, 2016, 01:19:24 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on May 24, 2016, 01:11:43 PM
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 24, 2016, 01:10:26 PM
I really enjoy someone that knows how to communicate and be vulnerable

ddddd @ these being my biggest problem in EVERY relationship
It really is!
It's sad.. As a Capricorn I use to struggle with these things but as I gotten older I've come into my own..
My dude really lacks these things.. He's such a work in progress tho.
Really enjoying his growth as of late..
He kinda cried to me A couple days back saying he fears me leaving him
I was like :rudone:
But deep inside I was like  :ohwow:
I recognize this in both of u btw, my 2 cents. BYE, lol
I'm sorta perfect FAGG
And I doubt that you'd know how to be vulnerable even it came with a chance to clear those felonies off ur record :nowgorl:
f
I dont have an issue communicating and being "vulnerable". Im actually a GREAT communicator
V

I said being vulnerable FAGG..
U always try to carry this hard ghetto ass exterior when inside ur sweet as pie LaRay..
You need to work on being more vulnerable IMHOF (in my honest opinion faggot)

Ur a walking time bomb so of course u know how to communicate .. And drive a point to the ground!

GLOCK

Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 24, 2016, 01:33:26 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on May 24, 2016, 01:30:24 PM
Not trying to a debate but the whole point of a relationship is to find someone that completes you, so I don't think you have to embody all the qualities you're looking for in a mate. That's how I feel about it anyway.

I don't like the idea of someone else having to complete me.

Does that mean I'm inadequate or less than when I'm not in a relationship?
No.
But are u against someone adding to what you have to offer?
Are u against growth?
That's when you're inadequate

Vonc2002

Quote from: Gilgamesh. on May 24, 2016, 01:31:53 PM
I'm very methodical so I like when someone can take me out of my comfort zone a bit.
This would probably annoy me more then anything. Im so regimented its ridiculous. Whenever friend calls me during the week like "hey wanna go....." Im like :uhh:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw